Straight Friend and I Experimented need help

Ask questions and discuss your relationships with partners or parents, family or friends.

Straight Friend and I Experimented need help

Unread postby criticalthinky » 4 September 2018, 20:30

So, I’m bi, 24, male and I have a real thing/fetish for straight guys. Especially if they’re my friend because it can create such a deep connection. Anyway I’ve never really had an issue with doing this i mean i slept with prolly like 5 of my guy friends who had never done anything before with a guy but who I could tell might be open.

This is one of my best friends who i’ve known since high school but since he says fag and gay all the time I’d never told him I was bi. Yesterday we were drunk and I told him. We were both in our underwear and i noticed he was a little hard and had a bigger bulge than usual. He saw me see it and i went for it. He leaned back and i gave him head for like half an hour. He said he wanted to return the favor so we 69ed. It was super funny because he didn’t know how to suck at all. Then to my shock he asked me to fuck him. I touched his ass and he was so tight. I was really drunk tho so i tried and he yelped. I pulled out of course. Then we just sucked each other off the whole night and came at the same time which was really hot. I swallowed and he let it on his face. Which also really surprised me. His dick was big and his balls were low. I really took in the smell and he did too.

Later the next day he was like “I can’t do this again. It felt so good I’ll become gay” and “I’m not gay, i can’t do that again, so don’t try to tempt me.” I get he was raised conservative christian but he was so ready to do things i was never ready to do only after years of doing stuff. So i wonder whether I can make some more moves on him but he was as hard as a rock the entire time. What do you guys think? Ethically? As well as what you would honestly do yourself. Lemme know!

He slept over again tonight and insisted he was not going to do anything in the future. As soon as we got a little drunk and we talked about it he got hard and when i made a move he was happy with it. but the more he enjoyed it the more nervous he got. It was confirmation that he’s gay or something in his mind i’m guessing. However he keeps asking to suck my dick rather than me suck him. He said he had some bad dreams about being gay that night. this change anything?
Last edited by criticalthinky on 5 September 2018, 05:57, edited 2 times in total.
criticalthinky
 
Posts: 2
Joined: 4 September 2018, 18:59
Country: United States (us)

Re: Straight Friend and I Experimented need help

Unread postby mxguy01 » 4 September 2018, 21:29

If it we're me I would tell him that as a friend, and a good friend that you don't want to loose, that you'll respect those boundaries. Then let him know if he wants or needs to talk about it more, that you can be someone he can trust.
---
I love to travel but hate to arrive -- Albert Einstein
---
The only thing worse than an Did Not Finish (DNF) is an Did Not Start (DNS). ~~ Me
---
It is better to light one small candle than to curse the darkness. ~~ Chinese fortune cookie
User avatar
mxguy01
 
Posts: 4067
+1s received: 1974
Joined: 23 October 2017, 23:12
Location: NorCal
Country: United States (us)

Re: Straight Friend and I Experimented need help

Unread postby Jzone » 4 September 2018, 22:42

I agree with mx. If you want to hold onto his friendship then show him some respect. I wouldn't make any moves on him or try to get him drunk hoping for sex. You can talk to him and let him know you enjoyed it and you're glad he did too. It doesn't mean he's gay. Plan some more one-on-one time with him and let him decide if he wants more.
Just an everyday boyImageImagedoing everyday things
User avatar
Jzone
 
Posts: 765
+1s received: 934
Joined: 21 October 2017, 17:58
Location: USA, Washington State
Country: United States (us)

Re: Straight Friend and I Experimented need help

Unread postby criticalthinky » 5 September 2018, 05:53

update: we got a little drunk tonight and i started talking about it and he got hard and we started oral again but the more he enjoyed it the more nervous he got. It was confirmation that he’s gay or something in his mind i’m guessing. However he keeps asking to suck my dick rather than me suck him. He said he had some bad dreams about being gay that night. this change anything?
criticalthinky
 
Posts: 2
Joined: 4 September 2018, 18:59
Country: United States (us)

Re: Straight Friend and I Experimented need help

Unread postby Jzone » 5 September 2018, 07:18

It just means he is dealing with his own insecurities and fears about his sexuality. If he is into it with you and you are both having fun, no harm. If you can talk about it with him, that's even better. Maybe that will get him past the bad dreams. He can be romantically straight and sexually bi, or lots of other possibilities. Just because he enjoys cock doesn't mean he's 100% gay, or can never have sex with a woman again.
Just an everyday boyImageImagedoing everyday things
User avatar
Jzone
 
Posts: 765
+1s received: 934
Joined: 21 October 2017, 17:58
Location: USA, Washington State
Country: United States (us)

Re: Straight Friend and I Experimented need help

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 5 September 2018, 10:28

Image

That feeling when you find a meme that totally fits the moment.
Blow: "Nowadays even Liam can release an album of his screechy vocals and it'll probably go #1..."
Ramzus: I can admit that I'm horny just about 24/7
homomorphism: I used to not think your name was deshay and that Erick was just being racist
Hunter: sometimes I think I was literally born to be a pornstar
User avatar
poolerboy0077
 
Posts: 7825
+1s received: 1676
Joined: 20 December 2012, 21:20
Country: United Kingdom (gb)

Re: Straight Friend and I Experimented need help

Unread postby mxguy01 » 5 September 2018, 16:15

So which one of those three are you meme'ing?
---
I love to travel but hate to arrive -- Albert Einstein
---
The only thing worse than an Did Not Finish (DNF) is an Did Not Start (DNS). ~~ Me
---
It is better to light one small candle than to curse the darkness. ~~ Chinese fortune cookie
User avatar
mxguy01
 
Posts: 4067
+1s received: 1974
Joined: 23 October 2017, 23:12
Location: NorCal
Country: United States (us)

Re: Straight Friend and I Experimented need help

Unread postby SimplySweeter » 6 September 2018, 06:20

I think you're just pushing the boundaries a bit. It sounds like he's figuring out his own struggles and issues with this and trying to make moves on him isn't really helping. Regardless of whether or not he enjoys it is irrelevant. If you want to keep the friendship then don't push for things to happen. Also him being drunk when you guys are messing around doesn't help either. Let him figure things out but still be there for him.
SimplySweeter
 
Posts: 37
+1s received: 13
Joined: 27 December 2014, 01:28
Country: United States (us)


Recently active
Users browsing this forum: CommonCrawl [Bot] and 15 guests