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Strange relationships

Unread postby Dash Rainbow » 15 February 2020, 16:40

Hello everyone
Some time ago, I started a long-distance relationship. He's a great person, but there are some problems. He doesn't want us to meet in person. I'm okay with that. And in General, this state of Affairs suits me.
But yesterday he behaved strangely: in the morning he wrote that he loves me and misses me and all that sort of stuff. And in the evening disappeared and did not appear online until 2 am. I told him that I felt abandoned and he could have written that he was already home and gone to bed. But he didn't do that either. For this, he yelled at me and said that I did not trust him.
And now he's not talking to me.
And I don't know why I'm telling you this. I guess I just want to talk.
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Re: Strange relationships

Unread postby Eos » 15 February 2020, 18:58

What do you mean he disappeared ?
He may have had anything to do and couldn't have the time to talk until some time. I don't exactly what happened but from what I'm reading you may have overeacted. If you think I'm right you should apologize to see how he reacts.
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Re: Strange relationships

Unread postby Dash Rainbow » 15 February 2020, 19:25

Eos wrote:What do you mean he disappeared ?

This means that he stopped writing to me and appearing online. Anywhere at all.
He usually finds time to write me a few words so that I don't worry.
Eos wrote:He may have had anything to do and couldn't have the time to talk until some time. I don't exactly what happened but from what I'm reading you may have overeacted. If you think I'm right you should apologize to see how he reacts.

Anyway, he texted me about an hour ago and we had another fight. He thinks I'm overstepping the boundaries of his personal space.
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Re: Strange relationships

Unread postby René » 15 February 2020, 19:53

It sounds like you have rather different (perhaps incompatible) expectations of what being in a relationship means.
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Re: Strange relationships

Unread postby Revontulet » 17 February 2020, 01:47

René wrote:It sounds like you have rather different (perhaps incompatible) expectations of what being in a relationship means.

Indeed.
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Re: Strange relationships

Unread postby Eryx » 17 February 2020, 13:01

I think it might be even better that he's acting this way now, so that you don't get more hurt in the future after you've developed more feelings for him. Dating without ever meeting is exhausting, and at some point you'd want something more out of things. There's better alternatives for you to be happy with someone than to just being with a guy who writes to you. Take this opportunity to get into a real relationship.
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Re: Strange relationships

Unread postby Frigid » 17 February 2020, 16:55

Have you ever actually met him?
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Re: Strange relationships

Unread postby Penislover1977 » 19 February 2020, 15:06

Did you happen to think to ask him why with out being judgy and be like hey babe you feeling okay. I mean you come at me the way you explained and I'd be pretty pissed off too just saying.
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