Trans Dating

Hey y'all! Sooooooo I have really mixed feelings about what I'm going to lay on you. I have this friend who's transitioning from FTM and I love him (as a friend) but now I'm not sure if I wanna pursue something more with him. I feel super uncomfortable because I know he's a man but I'm so clueless about the sexual aspect of the relationship if it ever got there. I can't tell if I'm just being ridiculous and I'm too afraid to have a discussion about this with him because I don't want to make him feel bad or offended. I just know we get along really well, and I catch myself wanting to flirt with him way more than allow myself to. What do I do?

Don’t date friends. It’s amongst the fastest and easiest ways of ruining friendships. Stay friends, pursue someone else romantically.

Problem solved.

Marmaduke wrote:Don’t date friends. It’s amongst the fastest and easiest ways of ruining friendships. Stay friends, pursue someone else romantically.

Problem solved.

I guess? I'd rather date someone who I'm friends with.. I'm happy we started as friends first because I was actually able to get to know him without getting distracted by his appearance. I just don't know how to tackle the sexual stuff. I'm a bottom but how would it even work? I guess he could get a strap on but I want to please him and don't know if that would be sufficient. Vagina makes me squeamish but I don't want to say that and trigger his dysphoria. Maybe I just have to get over it? I'm not sure but would love to hear from anyone who has gone through something similar.

Eryx wrote:Do you even know if he's gay?

Yup, he’s bisexual!