What should I do?

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What should I do?

Unread postby Panka » 5 December 2020, 16:25

Hello everyone,

I've met someone online we are kinda far away from each other.We really liked each other we had a long distance relationship for a while but later on things were getting bad.He didn't want to commit into relationship he wanted out we both said we should be friends and in the beginning we didn't really mean it...later on after 3-4 months he started acting really friendly..he told me he doesn't want a relationship he doesn't love me anymore and he said we can only be friends it's the only way possible for us considering the distance.Honestly I want more I was being needy for a while.What should I do...I really love him...but he makes me feel like I'm not important to him anymore.I would appreciate your help guys!


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Re: What should I do?

Unread postby Eos » 5 December 2020, 20:45

From what I'm reading I got the feeling your are the only one that wants more from this relationship. But to be a couple you both need to comit to it. And from what you say he isn't ready to comit.
So my advice is to stop seeing him as something else than a friend.
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Re: What should I do?

Unread postby Panka » 6 December 2020, 00:13

Honestly I do want something more.And I do want him in my life and he wants me too I know that.But it's so hard to let go.Any tips appreciated 🙈
Thank you!
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Re: What should I do?

Unread postby Sager9397 » 7 December 2020, 05:37

I don't know how I would be in that situation, but when it comes to someone who doesn't want to be in a relationship with me and I do, I can't just be friends. It's probably not healthy and I don't have a lot of experience, but I can't imagine just being friends with someone I love. Unfortunately, I would probably tell him I can't be friends and try and move on. This has never happened to me before so take this advice lightly. This is just what I am speculating for myself and how I would react.

I hope this helps.
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