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Who are you out to?

Unread postby Milo » 30 December 2012, 10:32

Everyone except my little brother.
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Re: Who Are You Out To?

Unread postby LuciusMalfoy » 30 December 2012, 11:00

one friend.
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Re: Who Are You Out To?

Unread postby canna » 30 December 2012, 11:23

Anyone who I'm in contact with. Most of my high school friends don't know. I'm not out to facebook or to distant family members. I don't openly flaunt it also.

Milo, why not? My younger siblings were the some of the first to know.
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Re: Who Are You Out To?

Unread postby Bookface » 30 December 2012, 13:22

I am out to most people but then most people think its a joke or something for some reason because apparntly if you tell people at youre work that your gay it is a hilarous joke that they think is so funny because no one would ever be gay outside of tv unless they dance to minelli on their lunch break but I havnt told my famly.
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Re: Who Are You Out To?

Unread postby You Yisi » 30 December 2012, 13:39

Most people now. At least most of my friends (and if the others find out then that's okay) and family too.
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Re: Who Are You Out To?

Unread postby Lucas » 30 December 2012, 13:50

Technically only my two ex's. My mom and dad probably know but I've never said anything. Also my siblings have probably surmised I like guys, and I am sure they told my friends, as they inquired if I was dating a guy, whom I was. I regret that they know. I want to go back in to closet.
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Re: Who Are You Out To?

Unread postby xeil » 30 December 2012, 13:56

Majority of my friends and my mom
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Re: Who Are You Out To?

Unread postby hnngh » 30 December 2012, 14:53

Anyone who asks.
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Re: Who Are You Out To?

Unread postby canna » 30 December 2012, 15:28

^ think those painted nails give it away for you.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Frigid » 30 December 2012, 15:36

People assume I'm gay, but if they ask I tell them.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby René » 30 December 2012, 15:43

Everyone.

I don't even have to tell them myself; I just find that everyone who could possibly care has already been thoroughly briefed by my parents. :lol:
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Brenden » 30 December 2012, 15:46

Kinda hard to be in the closet when you're married to a man. :P
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Re: Who Are You Out To?

Unread postby hnngh » 30 December 2012, 16:01

canna wrote:^ think those painted nails give it away for you.


Actually, I've had a lot of people think I could very easily be straight. I've even had people be surprised by my gayness once or twice. At the same time, a lot of people figured right off the bat, lol.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby You Yisi » 30 December 2012, 16:04

Haha yeh I think that might give it away :P

edit: this is about the being married to a guy :P
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby canna » 30 December 2012, 16:14

See people don't ever realize i'm gay. I go to bars and hit on the female bartenders, then convince them that I will kiss my friend I came with for free drinks. Always works.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby You Yisi » 30 December 2012, 16:23

To like half of my friends it came as a big shock and to the other half it was obvious. My sister also suspected it because she's gay as well and can probably read the signs. My mom was shocked but loves me no matter what. In China everyone is shocked that I'm gay because Asians are not used to gay people because most of them are too scared to come out.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Bang » 30 December 2012, 17:50

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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby René » 30 December 2012, 18:01

Bang wrote:
René wrote:Everyone.

I don't even have to tell them myself; I just find that everyone who could possibly care has already been thoroughly briefed by my parents. :lol:

Didn't you come out to your father by emailing him, by which he was in the room next to you?

That's right :P
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby hnngh » 30 December 2012, 18:04

René wrote:
Bang wrote:
René wrote:Everyone.

I don't even have to tell them myself; I just find that everyone who could possibly care has already been thoroughly briefed by my parents. :lol:

Didn't you come out to your father by emailing him, by which he was in the room next to you?

That's right :P



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