Who are you out to?

**René** · by **René** » 30 December 2012, 18:19

hnngh wrote:
René wrote:
Bang wrote:
René wrote:Everyone.

I don't even have to tell them myself; I just find that everyone who could possibly care has already been thoroughly briefed by my parents.

Didn't you come out to your father by emailing him, by which he was in the room next to you?

That's right

What happened? Details please.

I came out as gay as a side-note in an email to my dad when I was 16, 8 years ago. He then told my mum, grandma, aunts, uncles, people from church, etc. They were all completely fine with it, except for a few cousins who later turned around (and one of whom turned out to be bisexual himself

). So that was easy.

Coming out as an atheist was a lot harder.

Coming out as a drug user was surprisingly easy.

**Frigid** · by **Frigid** » 30 December 2012, 18:32

René wrote:Coming out as an atheist was a lot harder.

Coming out as a drug user was surprisingly easy.

**Love2Fook** · by **Love2Fook** » 30 December 2012, 18:36

My mom, one of my cousins, like 10 of my girl freinds, a few guy freinds, every guy ive ever been with, my ex bf's freinds and family, and anyone thats ever seen me and my ex together lol

**Milo** · by **Milo** » 30 December 2012, 19:59

canna wrote:Anyone who I'm in contact with. Most of my high school friends don't know. I'm not out to facebook or to distant family members. I don't openly flaunt it also.

Milo, why not? My younger siblings were the some of the first to know.

Cause my parents want me to wait till he's 18 (1 year) which is fine with me cause he's stills baby to me

**Brenden** · by **Brenden** » 30 December 2012, 20:06

René wrote:They were all completely fine with it, except for a few cousins who later turned around (and one of whom turned out to be bisexual himself ).

"bisexual"

**Dai Stihó** · by **Dai Stihó** » 30 December 2012, 21:49

René wrote:Everyone.

I don't even have to tell them myself; I just find that everyone who could possibly care has already been thoroughly briefed by my parents.

Parents

I'm out to everyone who asks. I tried to make a point of it when I was in Uni, to get it over with in the first few weeks. It didn't work. There were even girls who had crushes on me. :noes:

I mean, I'm not super-obvious, but one would think that if I'm making a point of it, then it's noticeable. SMH.

New motto on the subject: whatever. :finger:

**no.way.back** · by **no.way.back** » 30 December 2012, 23:15

Sebbo, you have no idea how hard it was to make my coursemates understand that I am gay. They just wouldn't get it...

**Bang** · by **Bang** » 31 December 2012, 01:42

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**Brenden** · by **Brenden** » 31 December 2012, 02:10

Bang wrote:
Brenden wrote:
René wrote:They were all completely fine with it, except for a few cousins who later turned around (and one of whom turned out to be bisexual himself ).

"bisexual"

Did he suck off René?

lol wut?

He's just really gay-acting/looking. I think he's still ashamed of being entirely gay so he's coming out as bi.

**hnngh** · by **hnngh** » 31 December 2012, 03:27

René wrote:
hnngh wrote:
René wrote:
Bang wrote:
René wrote:Everyone.

I don't even have to tell them myself; I just find that everyone who could possibly care has already been thoroughly briefed by my parents.

Didn't you come out to your father by emailing him, by which he was in the room next to you?

That's right

What happened? Details please.

I came out as gay as a side-note in an email to my dad when I was 16, 8 years ago. He then told my mum, grandma, aunts, uncles, people from church, etc. They were all completely fine with it, except for a few cousins who later turned around (and one of whom turned out to be bisexual himself ). So that was easy.

Coming out as an atheist was a lot harder.

Coming out as a drug user was surprisingly easy.

Heh, I came out to my mom as a sidenote in an email also. I was just like "Oh, btw, I'm gay."

**Poster_Undefined** · by **Poster_Undefined** » 31 December 2012, 04:47

Mostly everyone except the people back home. Family and friends included.

I feel terrible for not opening up to the people that have known me the longest, but they have expectations and I don't want to destroy their image of me, even if it must inevitably happen.

**Carter** · by **Carter** » 31 December 2012, 04:56

hnngh wrote:Anyone who asks.

**mr.r** · by **mr.r** » 31 December 2012, 05:51

only to my best friend :/ i'ts scary at least to me but i know one day i'll have the guts to come out to everyone... well i hope so

**Edward** · by **Edward** » 31 December 2012, 19:26

**HeWithAnE** · by **HeWithAnE** » 31 December 2012, 21:45

I don't see the point to come out to anyone unless I'm flirting with them so no one I currently talk to

**baileyscheesecake** · by **baileyscheesecake** » 1 January 2013, 01:09

Everyone... well, there's probably some people who don't know me that well who don't know, because it's not usually in my introduction, but it's not like it's a secret.

**Bang** · by **Bang** » 1 January 2013, 11:35

**Brenden** · by **Brenden** » 1 January 2013, 15:25

Bang wrote:
Brenden wrote:
Bang wrote:
Brenden wrote:
René wrote:They were all completely fine with it, except for a few cousins who later turned around (and one of whom turned out to be bisexual himself ).

"bisexual"

Did he suck off René?

lol wut?

He's just really gay-acting/looking. I think he's still ashamed of being entirely gay so he's coming out as bi.

In my opinion this is silly. I know a couple masculine gay men but I also know quite a few effeminate heterosexual men. I can't speak for yourself, but I find it ironic when others say they don't enjoy being judged on the outside yet go out of their way to judge others in the same manner they don't wish to be judged in.

Well, there's also the fact he used to say René was sinful and such for being gay, suggesting strong inward issues of his.

**Wallace** · by **Wallace** » 1 January 2013, 18:20

My friends and people who asked. Not sure if my sister knowing from the looks of my computer wallpaper, books and porn in my hard drive are considered "out"? Cause I'm just like, pssshh I don't need to say I'm gay cause you very well know that I am. It just that we don't really communicate

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