Who are you out to?

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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby bent4life » 9 June 2019, 03:40

Almost everyone. All the gay directors and producers I've worked with didn't even bother to ask. They knew that there could always be private meetings with me (or the Master Electrician). :)

I just can't tell my extremely homophobic father.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Iamjava » 9 June 2019, 04:33

you can ease into it. that coming from the guy that is so bluntly honest he told his mom outright hes dating a man..

just make small inuendos or suggestions and get a feel. if that doesnt work, tell them that shes fugly. :)

edit: bent4guy, my dad was hugely homophobic. he had a hard time when i came out. ironicly, hes more open to it now than my mom who gets along with everyone.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby mxguy01 » 16 June 2019, 21:40

There's a new guy riding with me and my moto friend that knows I'm gay. We seem to becoming friends. While at the track today, following up from some texts about being busy with something else yesterday, he asked me if I got any pussy. I thought maybe he had picked up that I'm gay but that made it apparent that was not the case. So I corrected that misimpression. His response: "wow, your kidding" (as in just surprised but knows for once this is not shit talk from me), "well did you get laid or not?". LoL and then, exactly the same conversations we've been having. Coming out in most cases is just so uneventful sometimes I wish it would be otherwise.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Oliver Rees 1020 » 2 July 2019, 21:25

Most everone who knows me.If they have a problem then it is there problem not mine.When i told my Dad he said so what are we going to the pub or not.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 2 July 2019, 21:30

I’m out to yer mammy, yer pappy and yer bald-headed granny.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Pigeon Valley » 2 July 2019, 23:18

I'm out to four people who I knew prior to my identification as gay. One of them is a bisexual friend from university, who says that he kinda guessed about it at the time (not sure if he did, or how he did, but meh), two of them are old friends of mine who I kinda had to come out to after the guy made some playful unwittingly gay advances at me (often occurred before), and a friend from the UK who I knew is also gay.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Iamjava » 4 July 2019, 01:30

It's that old gaydar thing lol.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Ammon » 14 July 2019, 18:37

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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Jzone » 15 July 2019, 06:00

Pigeon Valley wrote:...the guy made some playful unwittingly gay advances at me...

I think that's a story we need to hear! I understand playful, gay, and advances, but "unwittingly"?! Details, please
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby NvM » 27 August 2019, 15:11

foolish of me to not figure my life out earlier but you know there are less peeps to "come out to" when your older.
-that is i am more in charge of your own life.
-I was the youngest child so not as much left of the family
-Keeps it simple; i choose who i invite into my life, outside of that, none of their business.
-high degree of civic acceptance here resulting in people being assimilated, no gay bars left. nothing too special if thats important.


living peeps where "Gay" is an accepted word, are dropping of the edge. if you have a significant connection with a stranger, your best friend, your twin bother; both of you put a ring on it and be successful, or not.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Spacekitty » 11 September 2019, 16:01

I came out at 19. Found the man of my dreams at 21. Got married at 27. 38 now and we live very openly. Since the age of 19 I told everyone I knew and everyone I met from then on. Can literally say I've now been completely out for half of my existence. Needless to say for the second half of my life so far we only have approving people in our lives. In the areas we have to deal with people you can't "pick" to share a space with, they do know we don't take shit and will come for you if you try. That said, I do think we are in a bubble with just about 99% of the people around us approving of us. It tends to give you a false sense of "the world is so accepting of gay people". The world is hectic and there will always be a person somewhere, somehow that would do anything to hurt you if they know they can get away with it.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby mxguy01 » 23 September 2019, 01:22

NvM wrote:...
-I was the youngest child so not as much left of the family
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I'm all too aware of that situation.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Tobias » 23 September 2019, 03:23

All my friends and my brothers.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby PandaBoo » 28 September 2019, 21:29

No one...except here.

I don't feel the need to advertise it. Then again I dislike people approaching me and questioning my sexuality. I have no interest in being gay because I have no control over it.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Shy-guy-luck » 3 October 2019, 20:24

No one yet but I'm still figuring it out lol.
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