Who are you out to?

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Unread postby reggieregreg » 29 March 2021, 15:39

Came out to everyone (pretty much) about 11 years ago. Had kind of a weird break up situation with a guy I dated and then haven't really dated anyone since then. I think some internalised anti-gay feelings came back up for me. Anyway here we are.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby EricLovell » 11 April 2021, 01:54

To my wife - who always knew anyway - and to some of my friends.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby AshleyTheBottom » 6 May 2021, 22:29

My first relationship, we never came out all the way but his sister knew and was happy for him. We were together 8 years and I suspect my step-grandmother knew also, because she's the one that introduced me and him and she knew he was a dominant gay top and I was a small 18 year old boy at the time. My grandfather had custody of me but was always on pills and drugged up, so his wife pretty much sent me to go live with this man. And from day 1 he pretty much told me how things were going to be. He made me his house wife pretty much. He died of pancreatic cancer.

I'm in another relationship now that's identicle to that one, only this time I told him I don't wanna hide it from anyone except my own family because I know they'd never accept it. When we first met, we talked about it and he said that we could hide it if I didn't wanna come out. His sister was the one that hooked us up so she knew. And I told him, I wanted his family to know, I wanted the neighbors to know and that was fine. I even said that I'm happy if they all know that I'm the submissive one of the relationship. I'm completely comfortable with who I am. So for holidays and family get togethers, it's very nice that me and him can be ourselves and his family accepts us. We took a family vacation to Colorado last year and his family made sure we had a nice cozy room together and we had a blast.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby AshleyTheBottom » 6 May 2021, 22:33

My first relationship, we never came out all the way but his sister knew and was happy for him. We were together 8 years and I suspect my step-grandmother knew also, because she's the one that introduced me and him and she knew he was a dominant gay top and I was a small 18 year old boy at the time. My grandfather had custody of me but was always on pills and drugged up, so his wife pretty much sent me to go live with this man. And from day 1 he pretty much told me how things were going to be. He made me his house wife pretty much. He died of pancreatic cancer.

I'm in another relationship now that's identicle to that one, only this time I told him I don't wanna hide it from anyone except my own family because I know they'd never accept it. When we first met, we talked about it and he said that we could hide it if I didn't wanna come out. His sister was the one that hooked us up so she knew. And I told him, I wanted his family to know, I wanted the neighbors to know and that was fine. I even said that I'm happy if they all know that I'm the submissive one of the relationship. I'm completely comfortable with who I am. So for holidays and family get togethers, it's very nice that me and him can be ourselves and his family accepts us. We took a family vacation to Colorado last year and his family made sure we had a nice cozy room together and we had a blast.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby AshleyTheBottom » 6 May 2021, 22:42

For those who haven't come out to anyone except their lover, I'm telling you, the day you come out to at least one person and they're cool about it, it's gonna intensify your relationship.

One of the biggest things about that for me, is I love serving my man in front of others and displaying my submission to him. When we have get togethers with our friends, every time he needs a beer he tells me to go get one and I do it. I make his plate and bring it to him. I can dress however he likes and everything is normal and accepted by our friends or his family. I can walk in the room in long scrunch socks, a paid of booty shorts and a tight t-shirt and sit on his lap and nobody thinks anything of it. To them, they just see us as a sub/dom couple that have a mutual agreement. We don't feel so "locked away" from society with our relationship and feel free. It's an exhilarating feeling.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Stylian98 » 7 June 2021, 00:00

Last summer I came out to my best friend… she has really supported me and I think is the best thing I ever done. Since then I have only told to a guy that I’m flirting with.
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Unread postby Fasteddie » 7 June 2021, 03:50

I am not out to anybody and very confused, shy, ashamed but excited 😊
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