Who are you out to?

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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby ManavtheMuse » 22 October 2021, 18:16

I am 16 years old and recently changed my school, the new school is very open and accepting,I am out to all of my friends...I was also out to some lose friends at last school, but one of them outed me to the whole school there..so many people know that i am queer.. :heart:
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby asianduck888 » 19 November 2021, 10:18

one year ago to my best friend. we are busy with our world (haven't see for a year), but my friend insist to meet me when i have mid crisis. then i told them anyway because i think my problem is not a big deal for them also we rarely meet. they accept me and never think i am gay. after that everything back to normal busy with their own world.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby curious5m » 30 November 2021, 18:54

No one yet
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Justablondguy » 5 February 2022, 21:30

My family and all my friends. NOT at work. Its not necessary. People don't go to work to know everyone personal business.
My husband doesn't believe in telling anyone. let people think what they think its really non of their business.
Obviously if your in a gay club then there's no need to tell them either. Hello HAHA
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Demi-79 » 8 February 2022, 17:25

I am out for the most part . Or enough I think It was a big deal 20 years ago then I just stopped caring about it really .some of the people in my life know , but others don’t because I don’t talk about it much really. Some find out when I show up to events with my boyfriend. Then I get the question “are you gay” I am a lot of things , but yes and yes gay is one lol
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby GayinIndiana » 11 February 2022, 04:43

My family "knows", but I've only really told my mother. She accepts it and we often interject innuendos into our conversations to make them lively and funny.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby glückspilz » 11 February 2022, 05:09

Justablondguy wrote:My family and all my friends. NOT at work. Its not necessary. People don't go to work to know everyone personal business.


Since I’m with my partner, I realise that daily smalltalk at work is so much easier and more comfortable when being out. Like: Where did you spend your holidays? Or: How was your weekend?

Telling stories while ignoring there’s a man I’m sharing my time with just feels weird for me.

I never say something like: Folk, I have to you that I’m gay. But while talking about last weekend it’s just normal to say, I went up the mountains with my partner etc.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby glückspilz » 11 February 2022, 05:11

curious5m wrote:No one yet


What makes you hesitate?
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby spankablebob » 23 February 2022, 14:11

I'm not really "out" but my wife is aware that I have enjoyed the company of men sexually. No one else though.

I did have a few ex girlfriends that thought I wasn't totally straight, before I realized it myself. Interesting.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby maceste » 8 April 2022, 13:15

henüz arkadaşım yok malesef...
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby ☆Jack-bewick16☆ » 13 April 2022, 12:27

All my friends and family
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby JustSomeGuy1 » 12 May 2022, 23:45

My sister only. Told her the other day. Weird that someone else knows now if I'm honest.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby JaelynM » 28 June 2022, 20:29

Friends and family
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby curious5m » 30 June 2022, 20:29

No one, I live in conservative family and social enviroment it would not be a good thing in my case I could loose everything from job and place to live.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Buttyboy » 1 July 2022, 19:56

Everyone.
Hell to come out at first but that was mostly in my own head.
I cannot live a lie.
Almost everyone I told when I came out was positive and supportive.
Very fortunate.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby colby100 » 19 July 2022, 01:16

Everyone knows now. I finally came out to all my family and friends last month. They were very understanding and accepting.

It took me time to accept that I was gay but once I did, it was easier to tell my family and friends.
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