Who are you out to?

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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby collegeguy77 » 26 January 2013, 23:40

Only the people I've messed around with... Totally discrete and in the closet
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Milo » 28 January 2013, 03:17

Roman wrote:Very, very few. Nobody I talk to regularly really. It'll be fine though since I'm just going to wait till I turn straight and not worry about it.


Can I be your straight boyfriend?
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Shalon » 28 January 2013, 04:46

Everyone.. If someone doesn't know then they usally find out within a few minutes of chatting with me.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Hadrian » 28 January 2013, 07:33

Two more people as of the past two weeks. Ugh.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Daniel » 28 January 2013, 17:17

Only 1 friend and he doesn't know my family or friends so pretty much still stuck in.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby CrossMyHeart » 29 January 2013, 09:55

Everyone that matters.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Adam88 » 31 January 2013, 06:25

Just a couple people, none of my family.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby alehizzle » 1 February 2013, 17:56

Pretty much everyone knows. Or rather, they ought to by now. There are still a few friends from high school I'm having to tell.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Jack » 3 February 2013, 03:28

I'd say I'm out to everyone that matters. It's not as much of an issue to me as it was a few years ago. I don't have any qualms about being myself but there are probably plenty of people in college who don't realise I'm gay. A few others don't believe me if I mention it :P It doesn't have any impact on my college life or my relationships with them anyway.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby DmitriC » 8 February 2013, 06:09

Only a few close friends back home. My Mum asked me twice but I felt that it was not the right time to come out and laughed it off both times. :( None of my close friends at college know.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby wheatiez » 9 February 2013, 06:41

Friends and anyone that asks me. I avoid telling people that have some ties to my family and family friends because if my business gets in the wrong hands it'll shame the family and what not... so mostly close friends lol. OH my sisters also know but they're still in denial and haven't talked about it since the day I came out to them. That's pretty much it.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby DoctorRoo » 13 February 2013, 01:48

Everyone except the relatives on my dad's side. They're aged Catholic rednecks.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby brotherelf » 14 February 2013, 00:59

my closest friend
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby aerach » 16 February 2013, 00:54

Yay!!! Just came out to a very good but conservative friend whom I hadn't seen in a couple of years. At first he didn't understand, so his wife had to explain, but I treated it like it was no big deal and he just went along with it. I was so nervous... I'm glad that's over.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby xeil » 16 February 2013, 01:09

My close friends plus my mother.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby delwyn » 20 February 2013, 21:13

I came out to my mother, my older sister and a few of my closest friends at 17 but I only started telling more people once I had already left high school. Most people I went to school with probably still don't know that I'm gay but it's because they don't matter. I'm 19 and I'm at uni now, where people usually are more tolerant and open minded than in high school so if they ask I just tell them. The fact that I live with my boyfriend of three years would make it hard to hide anyway as I would hate to have to deny or lie about our relationship.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby battleborn » 21 February 2013, 00:58

No one... cant pluck up the courage to tell anyone.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby AssassinAngel » 21 February 2013, 06:54

Few of my closest friends
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby antipolar » 22 February 2013, 19:42

I'm out to everyone I know. Don't try to keep it a secret anymore.

While it can be difficult to be out in the military, I actually haven't meet much resistance since I've come out.
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Re: Who are you out to?

Unread postby Josh » 24 February 2013, 01:42

All of my friends at least know I'm not heterosexual now. A good number of them know I'm gay, or homoflexible if you will, and those that don't explicitly know it can paint a good enough picture. I don't hide it any more, but at the same time I don't point it out or talk about it either. They're all at Uni, I see them a handful of times a year now, my sexuality matters not.

Still closeted to my family, but have been working on knocking down all my closeting defences one by one. I'll be out when I move in with my boyfriend later this year :)
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