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Why cant i find love

Unread postby Dannyboi » 9 July 2019, 20:36

43 and cant find love into leather rubber skin gear trackies and trainers
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Re: Why cant i find love

Unread postby Brenden » 9 July 2019, 21:38

You probably can't find love because you're so focused on your fetishes.
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Re: Why cant i find love

Unread postby Jryski » 10 July 2019, 02:20

None of the things you mentioned have anything to do with love. It's like saying you can't fill your prescription but are looking at mini golf places.
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Re: Why cant i find love

Unread postby PopTart » 10 July 2019, 08:33

Perhaps love in this instance, is infact, sex?
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Re: Why cant i find love

Unread postby mxguy01 » 10 July 2019, 14:46

... cant find love into leather rubber skin gear trackies and trainers


IDK, seems to me you can find plenty in porn flicks. Hey, that's real life love right there ... :argh:

Seems to me you're looking for an FB. Nothing against that but call it what it is. It certainly is not "love" LoL.
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Re: Why cant i find love

Unread postby Eryx » 10 July 2019, 18:43

I think he means that he wants to be a in a relationship with a guy who's into all those things so that they can do it together. In that case, my friend, I recommend you start visiting places where people get together to have those kinds of activities and look for someone you might like for the long term there. Or online, in websites that are made for this.

If you're just going for a relationship with anyone you could find, then you run the risk of becoming involved with someone who doesn't partake in those kinks. If that happens, you can introduce it to them and see if they'll like it, or try to figure out if the relationship is more important than acting on your fetishes.
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Re: Why cant i find love

Unread postby uncut7in » 10 July 2019, 20:36

Love can come completely out of the blue. On an underwear fetish site, I got a one line message from a younger guy. We met expecting it to be one-off casual sex, got on well and agreed to meet again. Within a couple of weeks we were falling in love. Probably because we were in love, the sex was stratospheric!
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Re: Why cant i find love

Unread postby lightnight » 10 July 2019, 21:03

Eryx wrote:I think he means that he wants to be a in a relationship with a guy who's into all those things so that they can do it together. In that case, my friend, I recommend you start visiting places where people get together to have those kinds of activities and look for someone you might like for the long term there. Or online, in websites that are made for this.

If you're just going for a relationship with anyone you could find, then you run the risk of becoming involved with someone who doesn't partake in those kinks. If that happens, you can introduce it to them and see if they'll like it, or try to figure out if the relationship is more important than acting on your fetishes.


Good answer :thumbsup:
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