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a question for tops and one for bottoms :)

Unread postby max11 » 8 August 2021, 16:34

hello guys!! :heart:

got 2 quick questions:

1. I am a bottom and I love to be bottom (pretty submissive, too). However, I still cannot enjoy from the beginning for the pain. Every time my boy's dick tries to enter (he's not small) I need to remind him to be very gentle and very slow for the first 10min or so. After a while I like it and it hits the right spot. I try to relax but somehow it still hurts. Do you know of any exercise or practice that I can do to loosen up the muscle or not to experience pain, and thus enjoy sex a bit better?


2. Also, and feel free to share experiences of Course, I wanted to ask to the tops here: do you find it attractive/turning you on if the bottom sprinkles some piss while you are pounding? I always feel the need every time I get hit on the prostate and last night I almost sprinkled but refrained cause I thought it was gross and a turn off. What do u think?

Many kisses :keke: :heart:
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Re: a question for tops and one for bottoms :)

Unread postby blondambition » 9 August 2021, 11:06

I am bottom also. You need to train the muscles in your ass. Start with a small butt plug and go larger when you can handle the smaller one. Many starter kits out there. Have fun!!
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Re: a question for tops and one for bottoms :)

Unread postby gl├╝ckspilz » 10 August 2021, 04:00

As a bottom: Your partner could massage your anus with his fingers using a lot of lube.
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Re: a question for tops and one for bottoms :)

Unread postby Petite » 3 September 2021, 10:07

I found the easiest way for handling a large cock is to start with cowgirl position, it gives you more control. Some people say you'd get used to it over time but my bf is quite large too and it still hurts me a bit each time, that's just how things are.
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Re: a question for tops and one for bottoms :)

Unread postby stevie1400 » 7 September 2021, 04:11

I don't have a lot of experience, but I'd suggest using a butt plug.

Having your bottom massaged first is also nice :).
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Re: a question for tops and one for bottoms :)

Unread postby Peter123777 » 8 September 2021, 20:11

max11 wrote:hello guys!! :heart:

got 2 quick questions:

1. I am a bottom and I love to be bottom (pretty submissive, too). However, I still cannot enjoy from the beginning for the pain. Every time my boy's dick tries to enter (he's not small) I need to remind him to be very gentle and very slow for the first 10min or so. After a while I like it and it hits the right spot. I try to relax but somehow it still hurts. Do you know of any exercise or practice that I can do to loosen up the muscle or not to experience pain, and thus enjoy sex a bit better?


2. Also, and feel free to share experiences of Course, I wanted to ask to the tops here: do you find it attractive/turning you on if the bottom sprinkles some piss while you are pounding? I always feel the need every time I get hit on the prostate and last night I almost sprinkled but refrained cause I thought it was gross and a turn off. What do u think?

Many kisses :keke: :heart:


How've you came to the conclusion you prefer to be bottom rather than top? I'm kinda confuse with that myself.. never been bottomed as I'm afraid to feel humiliated by that, but a bit curious to try, did you felt that way too?
Did you tried to be top? if you did, how it went?
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Re: a question for tops and one for bottoms :)

Unread postby PopTart » 12 September 2021, 16:00

max11 wrote:hello guys!! :heart:

got 2 quick questions:

1. I am a bottom and I love to be bottom (pretty submissive, too). However, I still cannot enjoy from the beginning for the pain. Every time my boy's dick tries to enter (he's not small) I need to remind him to be very gentle and very slow for the first 10min or so. After a while I like it and it hits the right spot. I try to relax but somehow it still hurts. Do you know of any exercise or practice that I can do to loosen up the muscle or not to experience pain, and thus enjoy sex a bit better?
As others have said, you can either train with dildos and buttplugs, or you can hope that with time you can learn to relax and ease onto your partners girth, with ever increasing ease or you may have to accept that at the beginning, there will be a bit of pain. I would say that foreplay can really help to relax and to learn to derive some pleasure from discomfort, if not outright pain.


max11 wrote:2. Also, and feel free to share experiences of Course, I wanted to ask to the tops here: do you find it attractive/turning you on if the bottom sprinkles some piss while you are pounding? I always feel the need every time I get hit on the prostate and last night I almost sprinkled but refrained cause I thought it was gross and a turn off. What do u think?
Since everyone else has avoided this part of your post. As a top, I'd love this, but maybe not on the bed :lol: Everything in it's place. Your boyfriend however, might not be into such things and your best bet is to tell him about it. He might say he isn't into it. But you wont know until you ask and what if he says he doesn't mind? He might even like it.
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