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Always sex with ex

Unread postby Ukspainboy » 1 May 2021, 18:39

Hello everyone.
So I broke up with my partner about 4 years ago after a over 10 year partnership. We both agreed to be friends and everything went well. But since one year or something we started to have sex and I’d say it’s still amazing to sleep with him. We talked about our relationship and we can’t go back together as partners. So it’s “friends with benefits” I’d say but so much of my friends say it’s bad to have often sex with the ex. I can’t see why? We both want it, AND we are both single so Whats bad about having sex with the ex? I still like him so much, maybe more than just friends but I know we can’t come back together.
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Re: Always sex with ex

Unread postby Eryx » 2 May 2021, 13:15

If you're happy with your arrangement, your friends' opinions are completely irrelevant. You're the one having sex with him, not them. And if it doesn't hurt emotionally, there's nothing inherently wrong with it. Your friends are worried you'll get hurt or that you won't be able to move on from a relationship that is over, but only you can really take control of that.
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Re: Always sex with ex

Unread postby lufia » 4 May 2021, 15:01

Personally, I don't have sex outside of committed relationships for safety reasons, as I do not want to have to worry about who my partner is sleeping with when I'm not around, or what risks he may be taking. Unless they are riding your ex's cock too, then your friends shouldn't have anything to say about it. They're just jealous. One valuable lesson I have learned in the coming out process is that you can't spend your life worrying about what other people think. If you and your ex are both getting off and enjoying the arrangement, then that's all that matters.
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