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Unread postby Ornat » 3 January 2020, 15:44

am I Gay If I'm only felling romantic and sensitiv to other men but only very less sexual attracted? in contrast to that I am more sexually attracted to women but I have never loved or felt any form of romance for a woman
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Re: Am I gay?

Unread postby GearFetTwinkRomance » 3 January 2020, 20:06

Hiya Ornat,

This does read a little more complex than just one level of orientation, to me, at least. People can be of romantic attraction different than of sexual attraction, I guess, if they are bisexual of orientation.

At another community where I write, they would call this a type of bisexual orientation, where you seem to be attracted romance wise toward guys and sexual wise to women. I guess there will not be a lot of difficulty in finding women willing to share in non romantic sexual activities, as in casual sex, whereas it can be quite difficult to find men willing to share in just romantic, non sexual love relationships.

There are, however, a minority of asexual men with a homo-romantic orientation - meaning they just want to cuddle at the most intimate, perhaps not even such and just hang with the Broski Style, sports mates, that like. There's another minority of sexually non functioning men, who certainly would be happy to find a bf who can tolerate this kind of condition, and they may be seeking love anyway. Doesn't mean they don't want sex necessarily , but can't have any.
You could always have some heterosexual men for friends, as they show no sexual interest toward other men - so just the buddy type of guy.
One careful advise though:
Better never tell them you love them or something! That's the point it usually must end, and often with a nosebleed, teeth missing or worse.

Of course, you can always team with other bi-romantic men who have sex with the women only. Logical self sexplaining sort of.
If ya want to hang with me, let's go windsurfing!

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Re: Am I gay?

Unread postby Ornat » 4 January 2020, 17:29

That's a lot I have to think about. before I Never heard about Homoromantic, I did a little research and I think my sexuality is somehow heading in that direction
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