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Unread postby bottomstarter10 » 14 September 2022, 06:53

Hi. I’d very much love to be fucked in the ass. I’ve been preparing myself and I am ready to be fucked. So, I tried to do hooks up and everytime, my ass wouldn’t just let any dick in. Any advice? Cause I really want to experience getting fucked already. Thank you so much in advance to those willing to help someone have a little bit of fun!
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Re: Anal sex.

Unread postby Christian2 » 14 September 2022, 10:28

Hi, you will soon get accustomed to being fucked in your butt. Start with butt plugs and lube. First wear only for 10 min then prolong each day a bit. Buy different seizes of plugs and increase from week to week. It will work, believe me.
If you want to become a good bottom you should prepare yourself, yes. Tops just want to do it. They don’t like long discussions. So take the time now to prepare yourself.
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Re: Anal sex.

Unread postby glückspilz » 17 September 2022, 06:37

Christian2 wrote:Tops just want to do it. They don’t like long discussions. So take the time now to prepare yourself.


That's bullshit!

My advice is to look out for someone meaningful to you. Someone you can trust and who you really like. You should feel the need to be with that man. Everything else will come by itself.

Your attempt seems to be very mechanically. You're not a robot!
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Unread postby NobodySpecial » 20 September 2022, 14:16

Christian2 wrote:...Tops just want to do it. They don’t like long discussions. ...


I think it is truly great that you enjoy the dynamics of your relationship with your partner. If it works for the both of you, all power to you two.

Do keep in mind that you are kind of combining two concepts in your posts. Dominate and submissive are a bit more in the BDSM arena of sexuality where as top and bottom are more about positions in sexual acts. They usually refer to anal sex were the top is using his penis, and the bottom is using his ass. It is not quite as common to use for oral, but it can be where again the top is using his penis, and the bottom is using his mouth...

Case in point, even from a young age before I even understood human sexuality, I had a strong draw towards men. The more manly the better. At the young age of 4.5 years old, I remember being attracted to an uncle in his 20's (not a blood relative, but my 1st cousin's father's brother - my cousin and I were related through our mothers being sisters). He was SO hairy, and I was somehow drawn to him for his THICK, luscious body hair. Masculine, muscular, hairy men turn me on so much. I have no strong attraction to penises. Rather, I want so badly to be inside them. It is like being on a quest to be inside some masculine womb.

While I'd be lying to say I don't have elements of dominance in my personality, i by no means want to humiliate, belittle, or cause pain to my partner. I want HIM to WANT me to be inside him -- not because he craves any cock inside him, but because he exclusively wants ME inside him. In an ideal world, I wish I was fertile and could impregnate a man so that we could together create life.

Now I do have a darker side, but that is NOT something I would EVER contemplate mixing with someone I truly cared about. I keep that darker side under lock and key. I would never want to get drunk nor high as I would not like to ever be out of control - not over someone I loved, but rather my own darker impulses.

Again, if you are happy with your relationship, then best of luck for it lasting a very long time. Just realize that tops are not limited by the definitions that you have combined. I've been with my partner now over 19 years. I don't top him now with my bad case of ED, but I think about it ALL the time. Being inside him was always the closest thing to experiencing heaven on earth in my mind. Bottom men to me are like earthly angels. It is a PRIVELEGE to be inside a wonderful man. Fucking a man is such an indescribable, beautiful experience. I cannot even begin to fathom how a decent top would ever do anything negative towards his bottom. I never just "wanted to do it". It was never a game to me to be inside a guy. For me being top is an orientation and my way of loving another man hopefully for a lifetime.
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Re: Anal sex.

Unread postby weedan » 22 September 2022, 20:41

glückspilz wrote:
Christian2 wrote:Tops just want to do it. They don’t like long discussions. So take the time now to prepare yourself.


That's bullshit!

My advice is to look out for someone meaningful to you. Someone you can trust and who you really like. You should feel the need to be with that man. Everything else will come by itself.

Your attempt seems to be very mechanically. You're not a robot!


Just what he said. And relax when it does happen dont stress to much.
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Re: Anal sex.

Unread postby jaredjoy90 » 5 October 2022, 17:13

Seeing that this was posted 3 weeks ago you may have already done stuff in the interim but I recommend condom usage to start depending on how comfortable you are with your partner (STIs aside). I didn't use a condom the first couple of times I did anal and I was nervous about his bare skin in me and having an accident rectally, it did make me tense up. The other part is sometimes I get gassy after sex and your body wants to expel whatever is inside of it... so if he cums in you, your body might try to pass it back out. And sometimes it happens faster than you can make it to the washroom.. keep wipes or toilet paper handy.
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