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Unread postby Stroker54 » 7 June 2019, 18:46

I've only bottomed once in my life, over 40 years ago, so why is that experience so vivid in my memories? I topped one buddy twenty years ago and while it was interesting, it didn't ring my bell, maybe because it was part of a MFM threesome. I've had many experiences with ass play with women both giving and receiving and I found that to be very erotic. But bottoming for a male partner seems to be the itch I'd love to scratch. Why is that? Forbidden fruit?
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Re: Ass play

Unread postby Eryx » 7 June 2019, 19:02

There's nothing special about it. It's just one of your personal sexual kinks. There are millions (if not billions) of people who have the same itch to get off.
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Re: Ass play

Unread postby ShutUpAndBeHappy » 7 June 2019, 22:27

Perhaps the idea that it's with a man makes it all the more pleasurable? Anal is very much about where you are, mentally.
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Re: Ass play

Unread postby Stroker54 » 8 June 2019, 01:42

ShutUpAndBeHappy wrote:Perhaps the idea that it's with a man makes it all the more pleasurable? Anal is very much about where you are, mentally.


I think you are correct on the "mental" aspect. My one time topping experience wasn't really any different than being with a woman. Again it was a MFM situation so my attention was being divided. Whereas my bottoming experience with a man was about giving up control. Letting someone else set the pace, control the depth, it was very liberating. Being pegged by a woman is similar but not quite the same. In most cases they were just getting off on the power exchange and making me beg for more.

But with the man, I could watch and feel his excitement building, I knew when I'd bare down on his outward stroke, it was pushing him over the edge. My ass was pleasuring him as much as his dick pleased me. Like I said, it was only the one time but it was memorable. Ahh, the forbidden fruit! Shortly after my walk on the wild side, the AIDS epidemic starting making the headlines and thus ended my self discovery with the exception of the ménage de trios some 20 years later. Kinda sad being Bi and not being able to experience the wild side.
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Re: Ass play

Unread postby ShutUpAndBeHappy » 8 June 2019, 01:50

Stroker54 wrote:
ShutUpAndBeHappy wrote:Perhaps the idea that it's with a man makes it all the more pleasurable? Anal is very much about where you are, mentally.


I think you are correct on the "mental" aspect. My one time topping experience wasn't really any different than being with a woman. Again it was a MFM situation so my attention was being divided. Whereas my bottoming experience with a man was about giving up control. Letting someone else set the pace, control the depth, it was very liberating. Being pegged by a woman is similar but not quite the same. In most cases they were just getting off on the power exchange and making me beg for more.

But with the man, I could watch and feel his excitement building, I knew when I'd bare down on his outward stroke, it was pushing him over the edge. My ass was pleasuring him as much as his dick pleased me. Like I said, it was only the one time but it was memorable. Ahh, the forbidden fruit! Shortly after my walk on the wild side, the AIDS epidemic starting making the headlines and thus ended my self discovery with the exception of the ménage de trios some 20 years later. Kinda sad being Bi and not being able to experience the wild side.


I agree, there's nothing like it!

Have you considered going on prep, to prevent HIV infection? If that's why you can't take it in the ass, I mean.
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Re: Ass play

Unread postby Stroker54 » 8 June 2019, 02:04

I agree, there's nothing like it!

Have you considered going on prep, to prevent HIV infection? If that's why you can't take it in the ass, I mean.


No the issues is no longer the fear of HIV, tho it will always be a valid concern, the problem is I'm in a vanilla marriage and kept on a really short leash. When you are both retired, it is really hard to get "me" time. But keep the eyes open and who knows an opportunity just might present itself. Ain't dead yet!
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Re: Ass play

Unread postby Jryski » 8 June 2019, 02:37

Stroker54 wrote:
I agree, there's nothing like it!

Have you considered going on prep, to prevent HIV infection? If that's why you can't take it in the ass, I mean.


No the issues is no longer the fear of HIV, tho it will always be a valid concern, the problem is I'm in a vanilla marriage and kept on a really short leash. When you are both retired, it is really hard to get "me" time. But keep the eyes open and who knows an opportunity just might present itself. Ain't dead yet!

Hahaha that's the spirit! :D
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Re: Ass play

Unread postby uncut7in » 9 June 2019, 14:24

As a total top I don't like a guy to play with my ass, except using his tongue on my asshole which I do find pleasurable. I do enjoy using my lubed fingers on a guy's asshole before I mount him.
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