Best Sex Relationship ever! Help me get over him

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Best Sex Relationship ever! Help me get over him

Unread postby drakeparis » 3 October 2019, 01:42

In December I was crusing on a hook up site. Caught the eye of this guy. I was 6 months out of a relationship where sex was not happening. So I was ready to get my freak on. I lived with family and this guy on line wasn't always in town. After a few days of chatting there was opportunity to hook up. It was the hottest ever. We were totally into each other. After I left and totally forgot about it. He texted me and told me that was the best sexual experience he has ever had. When I was with him I started talking super dirty and filthy to him about what I wanted him to do and what I would do to him. Apperatly, I hit all his kink buttons without knowing.

Long story short we were hot and heavy.
Then he just ignored me. He would respond to my text but stopped making me his focus. I was very confused by this because I thought we had something and I think we did hot sex. He wasn't interested in anything from me. I got angry and text him I was done with him and told him I was blocking him from my life. I regretted this and then turned it a crazy texting maniac. I'm sure if he was still interested and working through it my craziness made him run.

It took me some time but I realized he was all about the conquest. He used me at first to satisfy what others couldn't accomplish that weekend we finally hook up. I was used for kinky sex. I'm obsessed with him and am trying to move on. I know it's over and I'm sure it wasn't personal it's just how he operates to him it's normal he doesn't think about how his action effect others.

Help me I am so tempted to text him. Im not sure if I need closure or I'm trying to get a response. How do I move on?
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Re: Best Sex Relationship ever! Help me get over him

Unread postby Eryx » 3 October 2019, 09:00

Something similar happened to me a few years ago. It was a Medicine student and he pretended to pay attention to everything I was saying so we could hook up and go to my room. After he'd gotten his wish, he immediately went on to hit on one of my friends, even though he was telling me we'd be dating, that he'd help me stop smoking and all kinds of sweet stuff. When we started hooking up I didn't even think it would amount to anything and I'd have been fine with just hooking up, but he got my hopes up just to shoot me down the next day.

I still have a grudge against him (he moved to the same capital I live in right now and sometimes I'll see him at bars with his friends), and I'd never trust anything he says to me again, but it's also pretty much in the past.

My suggestion is to just see other people, have sex with different guys, just keep looking. It's frustrating when someone is really good in bed and then just ghosts us, but it's also pretty common, so you need to be able to deal with it.
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Re: Best Sex Relationship ever! Help me get over him

Unread postby drakeparis » 3 October 2019, 09:30

TY for your story. He and I dated for 4 months, he is a PA so his time is limited. He makes the most of his time off. He is super social and very slutty which is what I was attracted to. I think he got bored with me. I will never know because I didn't ask. I cut him off.
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Re: Best Sex Relationship ever! Help me get over him

Unread postby Jryski » 4 October 2019, 01:03

Slutty guys are never the way to go if you want something more permanent.
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Re: Best Sex Relationship ever! Help me get over him

Unread postby uncut7in » 11 October 2019, 16:56

My best ever boyfriend broke things off some years ago. I was very upset at the time as I was still in love with him, and I decided I wouldn't look for another relationship as it couldn't possibly match the one we had. Instead I've been having lots of casual sex, which helps with my sex drive without having any emotional content. It's also expanded my sexual horizons.
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Re: Best Sex Relationship ever! Help me get over him

Unread postby Jurgan432 » 11 October 2019, 22:59

Jryski wrote:Slutty guys are never the way to go if you want something more permanent.

totally agree with you
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