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Unread postby Petite » 10 September 2021, 11:55

Hey sorry if this sounds stupid. I'm looking to get better at giving my bf oral so wondering if you can share any good instructions or a manual for giving blowjobs. I googled for it but couldn't find anything apart porn. Let me know of you've got something.
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Unread postby jaysone222 » 10 November 2021, 11:59

the main thing is to have passion, when you suck his dick grab his balls as you stroke his shaft. i personally like to put my hand on his stomach as i deep throat him, shows passion.
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Unread postby pozzie » 10 November 2021, 23:23

No, doesn't sound stupid at all. All skills need a bit of learnin' and anything sexual online pretty much ends up directing one to porn sites. :(

The biggest thing you can do is figure out what he likes. If you guys are comfortable talking about sex, just ask him. Most guys I knew were only too happy to tell me how they like it -- what to do, what not to do - that sort of thing.

Another guide with guys who either don't know, don't care, or won't say, try to find ways to hit the spots you find pleasurable on yourself (either when you received or masturbate). Just pay attention to him: if he's moaning, that's a good sign. No idea what he'd do if you got it 'wrong,' but again, most guys let me know if I was doing something they didn't like.

Don't be afraid to try some of the stuff you see in porn, if it interests you and your partner. Sure, if you're partner's hung like show pony, you probably will need to work up to some of the things 'professionals' make look easy.

Have you seen https://www.advocate.com/sexy-beast/201 ... azing-head ? I found it by searching on "how to give head". You might try that or variations on that idea. TBH, there have to be thousands of pages online covering this topic. ;) BTW, my search engine defaults to "moderated" search unless I've turned it off. Can't say for certain, but changing the "adult content" settings might help you find more instructional material (and less porn).
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Unread postby Pey Pey » 14 November 2021, 06:36

Definitely not a stupid question at all. I do agree that the most important thing is communicating with your boyfriend to figure out what he enjoys best and then do it. That is exactly what my boyfriend and I did and I found out he loves when I take me tongue across the tip of his penis and gently go around the tip of his penis with my tongue.
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Unread postby fabiangb » 16 November 2021, 20:15

I agree with all of the other posts - talk to your bf and check his signs on what he's enjoying and what he's not, and offer to try new things and gage his interest or lack thereof.

Here's another website that I've used for tips - I really like it and they have really good tips and ideas that I've tried and loved. Just know they are NSFW b/c they have real pics illustrating what they are talking about.

https://www.loversguide.com/gay-sex-and ... technique/


From my end, I can also recommend for you to take things slowly when you're going down on him. Take your time and explore him, kiss and lick him all over, a little teasing, some tongue play, spend time on his head, lots of saliva, no teeth at all, gently playing with his balls when you're taking him in to your mouth, and eye contact. The other thing, enjoy giving it to your bf, and I think that'll make it even more enjoyable for him. I notice that as a verse top, that when I give and enjoy it, my bf enjoys it more, and when he's giving it to me and he's enjoying it, I enjoyed it even more as well :)
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Unread postby blondambition » 27 November 2021, 12:30

I could probably write one!! :nod:
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