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Unread postby kiddo91 » 8 December 2019, 05:40

Hey guys,

I have recently become bored with simply jerking off. I tend to watch porn when I am in the act, but I am quite honestly becoming bored with the same old stuff. I have recently become uninterested in even touching myself because I am tired of the same thing. I am 28, and I don't want to continue to not be interested in cuming.

I have hooked up and fooled around with guys, and it's just not something that interests me. I have thought about toys for myself to try to recapture that intimacy, but I don't know where to begin.

Can anyone give me some tips on how to get over this, or has anyone experienced this "issue" that I am having for a lack of better words?

I don't want to be the guy who ultimately doesn't even want to think about sex/cuming.

Sending out an S.O.S. here fellas! :shrug: :shrug: :shrug:
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Unread postby Brasileiro » 8 December 2019, 15:41

There is nothing wrong with not think about sex or ejaculating every day.
If you don´t feel like it just don´t do it.
Do not make it a task that you have to enjoy to be a man or something.
It is not an issue. You might be too tired, too uninspired, too busy with other things. Live your life. Sex will fit in where it wants to, do not worry about it.
Also, if you ever get the chance, get into tantric sex. There are actually courses in it and it will defenitely let you think about sex , and experience it, in the opposite way of what you see in porn.
Once in a while good sex is way more better for body and mind than quick sex every day... Trust me.
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Unread postby kiddo91 » 8 December 2019, 15:58

For some reason I’m my mind, it makes me feel like I am “broken” because I just don’t care about it as much as I used to. Maybe it’s because I have met guys/men that have made me feel used in the way they communicate with me post-sex and then just ghost me. Maybe the factor of rejection comes into play for me? I don’t know.

I will look into your recommendation.
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Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 8 December 2019, 18:02

Have you tried aero-erotic asphyxia? What you do is you get a boner going and then anchor yourself to the outside of a Tesla rocket. Don’t bother wearing safety gear. When you each low earth orbit it feels amazing and makes you cum right away.
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Unread postby Eryx » 9 December 2019, 03:18

Maybe find new kinks? Sex isn't really going to reinvent itself, it is what it is. I don't find it that special either, but it's fun sometimes. Maybe there are just some other things in life that you find more interesting, and that's totally fine! You might have been just doing it too much.
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Unread postby kenzie_matt » 9 December 2019, 08:33

Try looking for a fleshlight of sorts. Thankfully they have advanced along with technology. You get many variants with different ways of stimulation. Depending on where you are, maybe look into getting one of these. They're available internationally and will give you a great time.
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Unread postby kiddo91 » 9 December 2019, 08:50

kenzie_matt wrote:Try looking for a fleshlight of sorts. Thankfully they have advanced along with technology. You get many variants with different ways of stimulation. Depending on where you are, maybe look into getting one of these. They're available internationally and will give you a great time.


I have one, as well as the device they came out with not long ago the Fleshlight Launch. I do like it, but I don’t ever seem to be in the mood because of being bored with the “action” of jerking off. Essentially I don’t have a sex drive, and I am not turned on sexually, because of the aspect of being “bored”. Maybe it’s because there is no emotional connection, or maybe my penis is broken, haha. :argh: :argh: :argh:
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Unread postby kenzie_matt » 9 December 2019, 09:03

Wouldn't say it's broken. If you're not in the mood for it though, then just give it a rest (pardon the pun). It will let you know when it needs attention, trust me. Maybe look for a new hobby or something? Key is to take your mind off of it.
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Unread postby Eryx » 9 December 2019, 19:05

Yeah dude, just take a break...
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Unread postby mxguy01 » 9 December 2019, 19:17

If mine were to take a break for a while I would not mind so much at this point in my life. LoL
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Re: Bored with jerking off

Unread postby GearFetTwinkRomance » 15 December 2019, 15:44

You're just bored, not going toward depression or take SSRI by chance?

Have you ever tried relationship oriented things? Maybe you just need a mate to work up that thing. Go fishing, surfing, skateboarding or something and have fun. Jack the boner will get excited some day I guess.

Try safety gear. Could make you look cool and might be Jack the boner likes the feel of the gear. New kinks wise ... you could also try to hop around in a pinky giant bunny costume. Makes some guys go off.
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Unread postby Penislover1977 » 19 February 2020, 10:11

:rofl:
poolerboy0077 wrote:Have you tried aero-erotic asphyxia? What you do is you get a boner going and then anchor yourself to the outside of a Tesla rocket. Don’t bother wearing safety gear. When you each low earth orbit it feels amazing and makes you cum right away.
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