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Unread postby Therangemorpher » 6 January 2020, 21:45

Hi guys

I've met a guy a couple of times as a social and the next date I want to take it to the next level.
We had some oral fun last time but I want to have sex next.

He is very much a safe sex only guy like me and we chatted about it and agreed that bareback is a no go for both of us.

So, should I ask him to get tested first, even though we plan safe sex.
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Unread postby mxguy01 » 6 January 2020, 23:54

Petigrees come with papers. Muts don't. Which you want to be?

Questions for you: What research have you done to date on this? What have you found out? What are the recommended guidelines for gay men having sex with other gay men?
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Unread postby Mayn » 7 January 2020, 06:52

Just use a reliable condom.
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Unread postby Eryx » 7 January 2020, 22:00

Lol if you're going to ask every single guy you have sex with to get a test, you're not going to be fucking too much. That's overkill if you're wearing a good condom. The whole point of wearing them is preventing STDs...

The diseases you can actually get from someone who's wearing a condom are genital herpes and syphilis, so if you're that much of a hypochondriac, syphilis is what you should be concerned about.
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Unread postby mxguy01 » 7 January 2020, 22:35

Well I'm just assuming they will pick up where they left off with the "oral fun". I'm also assuming that there is no condom being utilized during such.

From the CDC:

How are STDs spread?

STDs are spread through sexual contact (without a condom) with someone who has an STD. Sexual contact includes oral, anal, and vaginal sex, as well as genital skin-to-skin contact. While condoms are effective, HPV and HSV can be spread by contact with the area around the genitals not protected by the condom.

Some STDs—like HIV, chlamydia and gonorrhea—are spread through body fluids, such as semen (cum). Other STDs, including HIV and Hepatitis B, are also spread through blood. Genital herpes, syphilis, and HPV are most often spread through genital skin-to-skin contact.
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Unread postby ShoesOnPantsDown » 8 January 2020, 07:52

Well taking a shower should be a good starter
I also assume you know how to clean your bum with a douche
Outside of that having lube and engaging in forplay help for bottoming to listen you up a bit
A good trick is to skip a meal before clean douching to avoid any surprises while your going at it
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