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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby GaySpacePirateKing » 29 June 2019, 20:45

PopTart wrote:I dunno about that, I've been with some guys, who clearly dont pull back their foreskin and wash, what has been residing under there has been enough to ask them to leave.

There is some truth to the saying, out of sight, out of mind.

I dont think snobbishness is needed by either the circumcised or uncircumcised amongst us, instead, perhaps we should leave derogatory opinions by the way side and celebrate our sexy bits, whatever cloak they don (or dont)


I am not getting you.

You disagree with what?

Also there is nothing snobbish or derogatory about the opinion that people shouldn't be forced into circumcision.
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby Iamjava » 30 June 2019, 03:50

god im glad i couldnt pull back my foreskin. my head was way too damn sensitive..
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby rocketquentin » 10 August 2019, 08:57

GaySpacePirateKing wrote:I think some straight guys like showing of their body and expressing their masculinity or sex drive in the company of other straight guys, almost like they feed of each others hormones/masculinity.


That is so true!

It's also why very straight masculinity and gay sexual experiences come together sometimes I think.

@ Stan: I'm circumcised as well and I happen to be a wrestler too, but I don't see the problem
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby Eryx » 10 August 2019, 13:01

I think girls do that a lot too, guys are just more covert lol
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby Gavin98 » 12 August 2019, 17:07

Eryx wrote:I think girls do that a lot too, guys are just more covert lol


Exactly

in my high school swim team most guys would act as if they did not care about their looks

But in fact the guys that would act most 'masculine' or 'straight' AND homophobic were the biggest posers in all respect, also like what they'd be wearing and showing. Now several years later I think some might actually have had gay interests (while not necessarily being gay)
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby GaySpacePirateKing » 14 August 2019, 20:31

rocketquentin wrote:
GaySpacePirateKing wrote:I think some straight guys like showing of their body and expressing their masculinity or sex drive in the company of other straight guys, almost like they feed of each others hormones/masculinity.


That is so true!

It's also why very straight masculinity and gay sexual experiences come together sometimes I think.

@ Stan: I'm circumcised as well and I happen to be a wrestler too, but I don't see the problem


I didn't mean that there had to be anything sexual going on between guys like this. If 'straight' guys enjoy gay sexual encounters with each other then I wouldn't say they are entirely straight.

I meant that some guys seem to find enjoyment out of joking about sex or masturbation with each other, or being naked or partially naked around each other without their needing to be any sexual attraction towards one another or doing sexual stuff with each other.

Personally this is a turn on to me and being gay I can't entirely get why straight guys do things like this, but I think sometimes it can be just guys joking around showing off in front of each other and enjoying a high testosterone atmosphere.

The few occasions I've observed this sort of thing are sports teams in the locker room, guys on a lads holiday and guys living in a hostel/dorm setting. So situations where young guys are living in close proximity to each other and when there isn't much privacy.

I've experienced the later having spent some time on a few occasions living in dorms with other guys in bunk beds. The other two I've only seen second hand via Facebook pics. Oh don't look at me like that! Don't act like you haven't checked out pics of a hot cute athletic straight guy you know off that your kinda jealous off because they seem to have everything going for them pics before! Not my fault he made them public! I am not a creepy stalker! I swear! :shifty: :sadblue:
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby GaySpacePirateKing » 14 August 2019, 21:13

GaySpacePirateKing wrote::gayblahblah: :gayblahblah: :gayblahblah: Sports teams in the locker room, guys on a lads holiday and guys living in a hostel/dorm setting. So situations where young guys are living in close proximity to each other and when there isn't much privacy. :gayblahblah: :gayblahblah: :gayblahblah:


PS I realise these are bad examples as guys would probably be naked in those situations at some point anyway. Though when the situation arises some guys seem to like it.

Plus the examples I had in mind but didn't entirely disclose included straight guys that have girlfriends posing naked together on a lads holiday but covering each others dicks up, and also when I lived in dorms a guy deciding to jump out of bed naked with a hard on one morning just for a laugh instead of covering himself like the rest of us although we all found it funny. It's this sort of stuff that had me wondering why straight guys would behave like this.
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby xeta » 15 August 2019, 01:04

Hi Stuart,

I hope you have learned a lesson from this, for you, somewhat unpleasant experience. Never let others change you and especially not your appearance. We are all beautiful as we are.

I have been circumcised since childhood and I do not mind, I wouldn't want it any other way right now. Whats even normal nowadays? Hope you feel better after the day you made a topic about this subject.

Be careful in the future and have a wonderful day!

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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby Willie » 4 September 2019, 18:34

Some cut dicks seem to be just as sensitive as intact guys, but as one ages it definitely can get to be a problem.
Unfortunately, many circumcised guys lose most of their sensitivity. At least 1/3 and maybe 1/2 have admitted to me that they get nearly nothing out of being sucked or dry skin stroked.
Lube may help, but if the frenulum is destroyed there may be zero sensitivity anywhere on the shaft below the the glans!
IMO it's a damn rotten thing to do to boys just for cosmetic appearance.
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby Spacekitty » 11 September 2019, 14:46

Just on the topic of guys that want to get circumcised as an adult for anything than medical reasons - needless to say once it's done it's done. Have heard of guys that wish they never did it and other that would never want to go back. One friend also did it for a boyfriend and they also broke up. Now he hates it. But if one is adamant, I would first suggest trying what they call "autocircumcision". In short train your foreskin to stay back. You can then decide if you really like this or if you want to keep it intact and just take the top off when you feel like it. LOL!
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby Yakiv » 15 September 2019, 12:39

Spacekitty wrote:One friend also did it for a boyfriend and they also broke up. Now he hates it.
In my case it was more subtle, when I arrived in the US from Ukraine it was more some sort of social pressure. I didn't like I was different that other guys (I noticed in sports). Plus all the (US) porn movies affected me. And then at some point a guy I dated convinced me to go for it. This was three years ago, I as a pretty insecure teen back then, I may have done it different now
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby kenzie_matt » 30 September 2019, 12:41

Capt._Trips wrote:Circumcision is also practiced heavily in some south African countries as well.

This is often the case amongst certain races and cultures here in South Africa. For example, the Xhosa tribe. Circumcision is part of their ritual of becoming a man, so it is done during puberty. I am not Xhosa, so I can not claim to have first-hand knowledge, but I read a bit about the ceremony when reading a study on the life of Nelson Mandela.

So apart from having it done for religious or medical reasons (such as phimosis, for example), a lot of South African men are not circumcised.

Stuart, I am sorry that he left you after you made such a huge and irreversible decision for him. I hope you find pure happiness and somebody to truly love. It's the very least you deserve after this :)
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby PandaBoo » 30 September 2019, 15:05

Circumission is common in America and Muslim/Jewish communities. There are debates about sensitivity, but uncircumised looks gross to me; like a diseased elephant trunk.
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby kenzie_matt » 1 October 2019, 05:26

PandaBoo wrote:Circumission is common in America and Muslim/Jewish communities. There are debates about sensitivity, but uncircumised looks gross to me; like a diseased elephant trunk.


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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby Yegor » 15 October 2019, 17:41

Yakiv wrote:
Spacekitty wrote:One friend also did it for a boyfriend and they also broke up. Now he hates it.
In my case it was more subtle, when I arrived in the US from Ukraine it was more some sort of social pressure. I didn't like I was different that other guys (I noticed in sports). Plus all the (US) porn movies affected me. And then at some point a guy I dated convinced me to go for it. This was three years ago, I as a pretty insecure teen back then, I may have done it different now
It's funny that you say that, I'm from Ukraine as well, but I was circumcised at birth there. I was the odd one out there, tho

I like it better than uncircumcised dicks
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby NvM » 15 October 2019, 18:51

follow the money:
just imagine a young mother who's doctor whole hearty recommends the circumcision procedure knowing he gets paid another $20,000
just saying, I bet few grown men would have it done to themselves, especially the doctors.
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby mxguy01 » 15 October 2019, 20:08

NvM wrote:follow the money:
just imagine a young mother who's doctor whole hearty recommends the circumcision procedure knowing he gets paid another $20,000
just saying, I bet few grown men would have it done to themselves, especially the doctors.


While I get what you're saying, your cost stated appears to be ridiculously out of line of what the cost actually are.

An interesting read:
The Medical Benefits of Male Circumcision
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3684945/
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby Botanical Boy » 16 October 2019, 09:05

Spacekitty wrote:Just on the topic of guys that want to get circumcised as an adult for anything than medical reasons - needless to say once it's done it's done. Have heard of guys that wish they never did it and other that would never want to go back. One friend also did it for a boyfriend and they also broke up. Now he hates it. But if one is adamant, I would first suggest trying what they call "autocircumcision". In short train your foreskin to stay back. You can then decide if you really like this or if you want to keep it intact and just take the top off when you feel like it. LOL!


Building on the original post and now your example I am shocked that a boyfriend/partner would influence someone to frankly, mutilate their genitalia.

My husband can pull his foreskin back whilst hard but it is very tight and uncomfortable for him so I don't get to interact with all of his head very often at all.

Mine is very different despite having issues to begin with where I may have needed a circumcision. Luckily I played hard at getting it to detach and now it's fine. I found once I started having sex it's become much more pliable.
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby Eryx » 16 October 2019, 12:05

Now that's a case where I'd actually advocate for circumcision, or at least a reduction of the foreskin. Phimosis can cause bleeding and be quite unsanitary! His case is a little more problematic.
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Re: circumcized, what is normal?

Unread postby Botanical Boy » 16 October 2019, 13:02

Eryx wrote:Now that's a case where I'd actually advocate for circumcision, or at least a reduction of the foreskin. Phimosis can cause bleeding and be quite unsanitary! His case is a little more problematic.


Yeah I agree actually although, he can clean it fine when flaccid and like I say, it doesn't actually get in the way during sex because of it's shape/form. You see some where the head is like half out but looks like a belt around it lol - his is not like that at all, thankfully.
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