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Re: Coming out Is bUllshit

Unread postby Adam88 » 19 February 2013, 14:46

René wrote:
Adam88 wrote:The situation now is I have a nice dark black eye that I'm gonna have to explain when I get to work. I'm also very hung over. It shouldn't be to bad though, he is a step father and not even really with my mother anymore... shouldn't be to hard to cut him out of my life, he has just been around forever.

*sigh* I love my life...

At least my hangover will explain how drunk I was when I "fell down my stairs".

I would definitely talk to the police. He can't go around doing things like this without suffering any consequences.


No way, some people I know I cant come out to.... Not yet anyways....
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Re: Coming out Is bUllshit

Unread postby aerach » 19 February 2013, 17:16

Adam88 wrote:I don't need to move. I don't live with him.But thanks for all the kind words guys.

Even if you don't live with him, you might still want to move for quality of life. Would you describe your town as accepting? If you were to walk down the street holding hands with your boyfriend, would people give you shit? There are plenty of places in this country where nearly everyone is accepting, and you might be much happier if you were able to be out to everyone. Hiding is hard, and emotionally draining. You'd be amazed at how good it feels to be out in a place where people just don't care.
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Re: Coming out Is bUllshit

Unread postby xyz72 » 19 February 2013, 17:52

You're 22, staying in a place where many people you know including your family won't accept you for who you are and where you can't come out without fear? Is there a reason you're staying there?
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Re: Coming out Is bUllshit

Unread postby Adam88 » 19 February 2013, 23:49

I stay here because I like being alone. Way out in the country/ mountain area is best for that. I do miss people tho....

And Im not 22, Im 25...
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Re: Coming out Is bUllshit

Unread postby baileyscheesecake » 20 February 2013, 20:36

Dude. That's such a myth. Where you're living might have less people, but you're less alone because of that. Everyone knows you and your business. You really want to be alone? Move to New York. Not that I've been to New York, but I'm assuming it's a similar vibe to London?
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Re: Coming out Is bUllshit

Unread postby Blaz » 20 February 2013, 21:42

Adam88 wrote:I stay here because I like being alone. Way out in the country/ mountain area is best for that. I do miss people tho....


LOL contradiction
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Re: Coming out Is bUllshit

Unread postby hnngh » 20 February 2013, 21:46

Yeah it seems a lot easier to feel isolated in larger populations than it does smaller ones to be honest.
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Re: Coming out Is bUllshit

Unread postby Adam88 » 22 February 2013, 01:44

hnngh wrote:Yeah it seems a lot easier to feel isolated in larger populations than it does smaller ones to be honest.

Not when I can go days without seeing another person. :-)
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Re: Coming out Is bUllshit

Unread postby Ben B » 22 February 2013, 01:54

Adam88 wrote:
hnngh wrote:Yeah it seems a lot easier to feel isolated in larger populations than it does smaller ones to be honest.

Not when I can go days without seeing another person. :-)


Move to a city for a bit. If you don't like it, move back. May as well do it when you're young.
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Re: Coming out Is bUllshit

Unread postby Paragon » 22 February 2013, 05:10

hnngh wrote:Yeah it seems a lot easier to feel isolated in larger populations than it does smaller ones to be honest.

Not really. You just feel it more when you see so many people and none of them care about you. At least in the middle of nowhere you have an excuse for feeling lonely.
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