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Unread postby ThomasSuper » 24 November 2019, 15:23

Hi

Obviously cliché as many are confused but

I am a 24 year old male had girlfriends in the past, but recently I have found myself not attracted to any gender, even if he/she is way out of my league - nothing in real life

But when I'm alone and watch porn, i watch gay porn/transexual porn 90% of the time, as normal porn just doesn't cut it for me. The urge for gay/transexual porn intensifies when I'm high on cocaine but as I said, i dont find anyone attractive in real life and would never act on my porn urges.

I have autism and I am an introvert may I add so mainly reclusive.

Am I just a confused weirdo who has a weird obsession with dicks on a screen or am I potentially gay/bisexual etc i dont know so im looking for opinions/advice?

Ps. Please dont judge with the cocaine use as it helps me socialise
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Re: Confused... need advice/opinions

Unread postby ThomasSuper » 24 November 2019, 15:27

May I add the main fantasy i lose it to when watching gay/transgender porn is wishing i was the person getting penetrated by a penis, the thought of being a top doesn't and giving it doesn't get me going
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Re: Confused... need advice/opinions

Unread postby GearFetTwinkRomance » 24 November 2019, 15:58

Handshakes on the autism - I'm an Aspie. ;) I can understand the socialising difficulties, I have some, too.

Most people would consider urges like that bi-curious or something. Can't say about the Trans interest, since I never shared that interest.

Quite a few people find out about their bisexual nuance that way, so nothing wrong with this.
Not wanting to do this in the real life, some people call it a fictophilia. Folks at the aven network wrote about that before.
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Re: Confused... need advice/opinions

Unread postby ThomasSuper » 24 November 2019, 16:25

GearFetTwinkRomance wrote:Handshakes on the autism - I'm an Aspie. ;) I can understand the socialising difficulties, I have some, too.

Most people would consider urges like that bi-curious or something. Can't say about the Trans interest, since I never shared that interest.

Quite a few people find out about their bisexual nuance that way, so nothing wrong with this.
Not wanting to do this in the real life, some people call it a fictophilia. Folks at the aven network wrote about that before.


Thanks for the reply GearFetTwinkRomance. Can I ask how as being an aspie affected coming out, meeting men and in turn, sexual encounters with them in your time?

You see with the transgender porn side I get off on boobs, but only if the person has a penis too.

(i find boobs really attractive on a woman in porn, but when it comes to down below it just bores me to death seeing a vagina, a complete buzzkil, focus more on the penis the rare times i watch straight porn)

Ps.. After reading my first two posts and the above writing, it does sound like i am a raging gay man going on about dicks :lol: I wish I was attracted in real life to men/transgender so i could experiment and explore the bi curiousness or to see if I am just gay :(
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Re: Confused... need advice/opinions

Unread postby Eryx » 25 November 2019, 04:43

That's alright. I think you should act on your urges, having sex is awesome. There's nothing weird here. You're alright, dude. Also, please be careful about the cocaine. I get it that it helps you, but be vigilant. It can and it will take over your life if you let it.
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Unread postby mxguy01 » 25 November 2019, 15:38

Exactly what Eryx said.
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