Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

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What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

≤10
64
18%
11
22
6%
12
35
10%
13
52
15%
14
31
9%
15
25
7%
16
23
7%
17
8
2%
18
13
4%
19
4
1%
20
11
3%
21
6
2%
22
0
No votes
23
4
1%
24
4
1%
25
4
1%
26
3
1%
27
3
1%
28
4
1%
29
1
0%
30s
13
4%
40s
8
2%
50s
7
2%
≥60
5
1%
 
Total votes : 350

Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postby Raynethemagi » 27 February 2021, 19:18

6 but I hid it for the longest time. Didn't officially come out till like 18....worst day of my life too. Oh well, I'm stronger now!
Here's an example of the Universe trying to tell you that you need healing in an area of your life:

Someone who struggles with showing emotion. This person, in their lifetime, will constantly struggle with this, and that is because, they choose to ignore or disregard the fact that they have trouble showing emotion. Most people will ignore this issue, and will continue to fracture themselves. And this goes with pretty much any problem that happens in your life that is recurring. Don't pass up an opportunity to make you "whole" again.
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Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postby quinn » 10 March 2021, 20:31

What do I do if I already voted a while back, and then went from gay to bisexual in the last few years?

I demand a revote :argh:
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Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postby MJM » 20 March 2021, 15:13

I was in grade school when my best friend asked me to let him do me. I let him. Several times. Years went by and I got married and had kids and was perfectly straight. Then I got divorced in my 40's and had an encounter in an adult bookstore that was amazing. I like women but I don't understand them and they bug me. I much prefer the company of men and I love gay men. They are so much more down to earth and real.
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18 years

Unread postby Rich1001 » 7 April 2021, 17:10

18
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Re: 18 years

Unread postby Marmaduke » 7 April 2021, 17:55

Edited away on account of unwarranted prickishness.
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Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postby Tommy787 » 19 April 2021, 06:34

Knew for a while , experimented from 16 , only came out at 19 when I saw Adam lambert on telly and said if he's gay then I am ... and he was lol
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Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postby Ellelynn » 23 April 2021, 08:19

Around 16 I knew girls but talking only my friend was joe 18 bigger than me I wanted to to be with "in crowd" farm boy best describes him but we were friends he lived with mom sis 5 yrs older and grandma in huge house 6 rooms up and down plus massive attic we tried beer and stole cigarettes. sis knew then got us them she jokingly but knew we didn't have girlfriends we all got drunk high and more when she said I saw my brother kiss you and you liked it and the Hard on he had you got on your knees pulled my brothers pants down and licked his cock then sucking him till he shot his first load in your mouth and face I was so embarrassed someone saw what happened until she said she didn't see but made it up but now knew it was true we did it a few more times even him fucking my ass his sister said I was his practice girl but you like cock like a girl and then gave me a bag with panties very short shorts and ankle bracelet saying you don't do anything to look behave gay but your a gay wanna be girl then said don't ever come near joe or this house again or I'll spill the beans I never did wishing I could do him over
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Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postby AshleyTheBottom » 7 May 2021, 05:34

I didn't know I was gay until I was overpowered and simply fucked. I was 17 and he was about 45. I had no place to live and my step-grandmother suggested I move in with the family friend we all knew for years. She knew he was a hyper aggressive gay top, but I didn't know at all. She said he wanted a roommate and I had nowhere to go and talked to him about me going there to live and finish school. I agreed and moved in with him. As soon as I got my stuff moved in he hit me with the "talk". He just told me that he's the boss and whatever he said goes, my job is to cook and clean the house and wait on him hand and foot when he gets home. Stuff like take his boots off, rub his feet, get his drinks, cook and make his plate, etc. And I agreed to it because I was just glad to have a home. And so, that same night he told me he wanted me to rub his back, so there we were in his bed, and then he said, "Let me show you how I want it done." He started rubbing me down, and then he simply took off my clothes, overpowered me and once I was fully compliant and seduced, he made me suck his huge cock, then the rest is history. I fell in love with him.

It wasn't very long into that night that I realized that I was 100% honest to goodness gay and never wanted to waste my time with another girl again. Sex with girls was like only 10% of the intenseness that sex with a dominant man brought. Not even 10%. It was just sex on another level. The type of orgasms I was having through my prostate was so much better than through my penis. My first prostate orgasm, I honestly thought I'd died and gone to Heaven. I felt so packed and full, and the orgasm I could feel from the tips of my toes to the tips of my hair strands. So to answer the question, 17 years old.
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Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postby Mr_Understood » 4 June 2021, 19:45

I'm a bit of a late bloomer myself, and didn't get involved with anyone until I was like 20, that's when I had this fling with this guy I was sharing a class with. In retrospect, guy was jerk, but I guess he helped me weather he intended or not.
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Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postby sloomingbla » 5 June 2021, 15:58

Came out to myself this year, actually. I had many experiences when I was younger, and even a year ago I dated guys but I figured I was just bi curious. One day it just kinda hit me that even though I've always really wanted that sort of female validation, I had no interest whatsoever in actually dating or having sex with them.

One of my earliest pieces of evidence I have was getting hard as a kid when the snake hypnotized the boy in the jungle book cartoon. :3
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Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postby Stuart0109 » 7 June 2021, 08:49

Brenden wrote:For all the newbies so they don't have to ask the question themselves.

Probably just before 16th birthda . I had experimented , compared etc with a few school pals and like many others thought it essential to lose virginity . The opportuint was presented to me by a friend who found a couple of girls who fancied me . It was known I had a decent size and they wanted to see . I had sex with both of them over a couple of weeks , but at the end I knew I preferred being with naked guys and knew I was gay
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Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postby johnny86 » 4 July 2021, 23:38

I think I was between 22/23 when I actually had my first "gay" experience with another guy (no anal, just oral, rubbing, etc.). A couple of my friends would let me play with their member when I was like 11/12, but I didn't know what I was doing (just fondling and pee together in the woods). Of course growing up looking at porn, I would look at women, but I honestly think most of my collection was guys. I didn't accept I was bi until basically 22/23 years old. I have been with 5 women sexually (1 oral, 4 intercourse) and it was with the last one I was with when we broke up that really make me question myself as she told me "I can tell you're not really into women". I am still on the fence, but I would say I prefer guys 85% and women 15%. I have been with close to two dozen guys I think it is.
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Re: Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

Unread postby lustycamel » 5 July 2021, 00:48

I had these fond thoughts for men when I was 12 but I wasn’t fully aware of my sexuality until I was 15. I had my first encounter when I was 18 with someone 8 years old than me.
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