Definitive Poll: What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

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What age did you realise you're gay/bi/etc?

≤10
58
17%
11
22
7%
12
35
10%
13
51
15%
14
30
9%
15
22
7%
16
21
6%
17
8
2%
18
13
4%
19
4
1%
20
11
3%
21
6
2%
22
0
No votes
23
4
1%
24
3
1%
25
4
1%
26
4
1%
27
3
1%
28
3
1%
29
1
0%
30s
11
3%
40s
8
2%
50s
7
2%
≥60
5
1%
 
Total votes : 334

may be 14 I guess but I'm still very still now

Unread postby magvers » 1 August 2020, 00:01

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Unread postby weedan » 5 August 2020, 22:45

Quite late for me, I was 24. Although i had thought a lot about it for a couple of years before that. Once I had played with my first guy I knew for sure.
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Unread postby geordiebiboi » 9 August 2020, 19:47

For me it was 11. I was at a camping site in Scotland and this boy, probably a year older than me, came out of his caravan in only a pair of tight blue jammers. He was heading for the loch/river nearby and I couldn't explain at the time why I fancied him but I just did.
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Unread postby #37buffdude » 28 September 2020, 12:38

Seems that many had an inkling when they were young, I did too.
However I selected 30's as it's only now and just very recently that I realised I do prefer cock and am more turned on by gay sex now, that although I still think I am bi. I actually want to be gay.
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Unread postby MarriedBottom1985 » 10 November 2020, 23:01

When I was 10 I played with an older boy in the neighborhood, he was 14 or so. At first it was a blackmail type thing but I really enjoyed it. As I got closer to y teenage years the term “fag” was freely used as the worst insult you could use. I denied it for a few years until I was 12 or so, that’s when I found chat rooms and found that older men were REALLY into a tight young pre teen willing to talk dirty to them. It was at that point I accepted that I wasn’t straight. I thought I was bisexual until I heard the term “pansexual” a few years ago. So that’s how I identify now.. that or queer.. really depends on how I feel that day 🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️
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Unread postby Bbguy67 » 2 December 2020, 08:40

Had suspicions in teens. Knew for sure late 20’s after incident in gents toilet. Out at 50.
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Unread postby Mr. Fox » 6 December 2020, 18:40

I started feeling attracted to guys around 16, but didn't believe I was gay until I was 21 when I fell in love with a guy for the first time.
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Unread postby edoardo » 8 December 2020, 18:50

I was always atracted only with male. Like small boy i like to look other boys naked and specialy older boys and man.
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Unread postby Cotton82 » 12 December 2020, 15:55

I had a boyfriend in 3rd grade, so I guess 8 or 9.
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Unread postby DY4real » 29 December 2020, 00:14

In high school I had some gay guys come out and say they thought I was cute and all that so I didnt think it was weird or anything. But wasnt until i was with a older friend of mine by 3years I was a sophomore we had girls coming over to hang out house to our self. He took a rhino pill to get ready for these girls. But they never showed and that pill kicked in. I made the comment "damn your big" he like yeah I know. He like damn you wanna see you're staring. My face must of said it all he pulls his shorts down and his big thick cock wipes out! He strokes it a little. I say yeah you're big he poked it out towards me and I reached out grabbed it just admiring it and how his balls hang. That pill had him rock hard. He says it taste good too. I just went for it and put my mouth around it and suck. I look up his face looked like he like it so i got into it just naturally knew how to suck dick. He sat on the couch I stroked his cock well licking sucking his balls. He has me lay across the couch well I suck his dick he starts massaging my ass which felt good! Then his hand slide in my pants grabbing my ass I feel his finger touch my asshole I just quiver. He asked if i done this before i told him no. He asked if i want to. I shook my head yes. He stood up told me get naked and he went to his room came back with lube. Had me bend over the couch tells me damn you got ass. I laugh! I starts fingering my hole all lubbed up. I can feel my dick get hard! He slaps his dick against my ass then I feel his press it against my hole. Tells me to relax as he rub my back and my ass I feel him push it sent a pain but also felt something I never have b4 and he pushes into my ass and holds it there. I start moving my hips pushed back I feel him go deeper and a shock goes down my cock into my stomach and he starts slowly stroking. I finally relax and my god i knew I loved it. With in 5min just a few strokes of my cock well he is inside me I cum so much! And he starts really fucking me man . After that I was confused it wasnt until 19 20 that I was able to embracing being gay and being a full bottom!
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Unread postby Gay-paul » 29 December 2020, 21:16

13 for me
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Unread postby porn4jesus » 30 December 2020, 04:36

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Unread postby KingJack » 3 January 2021, 23:15

I started touching and playing with guys my age when i was 7 (late 60s) and realized I loved it, though I had no idea what "gay" meant at that time.

That led to doing it with teen and older guys, and as I got older I realized guys turned me on, but so did girls. So I classified myself as bi once I heard that term and still do.

I think I just loved touching and being touched period. lol
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Unread postby richardjohnstone0683 » 12 January 2021, 23:01

I was perhaps a little curious but never really sexually adventurous up until I drunkenly slept with a man at 28. It was the best sex I ever had and my life was turned upside down. I felt somewhat guilty for enjoying it but the guilt eased when I hooked up with him several more times. I'd maybe sleep with women again if I wanted to start a family and I do love cumming in a woman's fertile pussy but I still prefer penis. Besides sex, men are easier for me to relate to as well.
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Unread postby lufia » 19 January 2021, 05:26

For me, I consider myself non-binary. I always knew I was different in that respect, even from a young age. When I was 13, I just spontaneously started fingering myself while masturbating, and had the best orgasm I had ever had. After that, I pretty much did it all the time. I had never been attracted to guys, and didn't think much of it for a year or so. Eventually, I realized that I wanted more than a finger. I was a devout Christian at the time, so I was completely conflicted about it, and tried to convince myself that I didn't wan what I knew I wanted. I prayed to God every night to make it go away, but I just wanted it more and more. I went and spoke to the pastor about it shortly after I bought my first vibrator. He told me that all gay and trans people go to hell, because no Christian would choose to engage in those behaviors. I was 16 and teaching a Sunday School class at the time, and was also a counselor for our Royal Ambassadors group. I never went to church again. I continued to be in denial for a few years after that, and then I got into drugs. With a family full of homophobic right-wing Trump supporters, I had no one to talk to. I got sober a few years ago. I have recently started to express myself a little more openly, but I am still firmly in the closet at 39. I live with family, and am not in a position where it is possible for me to be out, even though I desperately need and want to be. I am tired of pretending to be a straight masculine guy when I am really the exact opposite. It is such a mindfuck, and is mentally exhausting.
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Unread postby pwedeba2004 » 28 January 2021, 00:13

I was in the third grade and asked another boy if I could put his dick in my mouth. 3rd grade, how old is that? 7, 8?
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Unread postby oakjeff » 21 February 2021, 04:34

I think for many, if not most of us there are two if not three questions:

[1] When did you REALIZE you are gay?

[2] When did you ACCEPT you are gay?

For some [2] goes hand in hand with {3] but not for all of us...

[3] When did you COME OUT as gay?
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Unread postby GearFetTwinkRomance » 27 February 2021, 19:13

oakjeff wrote:I think for many, if not most of us there are two if not three questions:

[1] When did you REALIZE you are gay?

[2] When did you ACCEPT you are gay?

For some [2] goes hand in hand with {3] but not for all of us...

[3] When did you COME OUT as gay?


That is kind of interesting, and I would add [0] When did you feel you were different at first, since some know, they are different, at a very early age, but they don't know it's called 'gay', or whatever it's called.
Nowadays perhaps less, since media is aware and available almonst everywhere. But in them old days, seventies, eighties, born in a small village some place hillbilly haven? Nobody told ye anything and it was forbidden to speak of any of it to anyone.

So I felt I was different in ways not permitted at age 5 or so and I realised they call it 'gay' when I fantasised of a later age, how do I want to live when grown up and I would, of couse, marry another man. Like King Richard, the Lionheart. Okay, I didn't know, the drawing in that book was just an artist's idea of how that guy might have looked as a Twink. So a man that wants to be with a man instead of woman, they called 'gay'. Yet, at our place one was considered a cursed one, lead off the right way by demons and all that stuff Roman Catholic Christians can come up with. Nothing of being possibly gay was allowed or tolerated So the realising phase went on a while, more the accepting phase, as they tried to somehow cure me from all the other difference that comes with 'Oops, wrong planet' and what they had no idea about. Trying to punish it away, as all the prayers did nothing to change.
The accepting phase was rather short - well, another difference, duh, there, shit happens. I just never understood, why I was counted to the hated because of this and many of the other difference, those, that were visible to them. I grew glad they can not see the gay, and I didn't tell anyone until I was around my twenties.
When I tried to tell my mum in a lengthy letter, I was already living overseas, and I wanted them to understand, why there would be no grandchildren. So I guess the try to a coming out to Mum was around mid to end of my twen years.

Love never came around, it completely ignored me. Guys I could like, always are heterosexuals with no possible part of Bi, and there's no way in which I could ever imagine to disrespect their choice of a life mate.

Right now, the SEK-dude, again. I try therapy to kill the accompanied emotions, since maybe they can shrink it out, in modern ways. ... So the accepting oneself part sometimes is made tough by life. I can't imagine what it is like to be heterosexual, but I guess they've got much better any chance to be asked for Romance and marriage, that like. Even the ugly ones have. I've seen some handsome guys marry one hell of an ugly lady, anyway. :|
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