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Did he like me or not?

Unread postby Tom0108 » 11 February 2020, 08:50

Hi everyone!!! I have one question that I have been wondering about. There is a male colleague that I work with at a restaurant. When we are at some tiny areas and it is hard for us to move around smoothly, he has touched my sides/hips many times, especially touching from behind, so that he can move around. Does it show that he likes me or not?
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Re: Did he like me or not?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 11 February 2020, 10:53

The results are inconclusive
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Re: Did he like me or not?

Unread postby Safigooner » 12 February 2020, 15:42

touch him back and see how he reacts
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Re: Did he like me or not?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 12 February 2020, 15:46

Safigooner wrote:touch him back and see how he reacts

Don’t do that.
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Re: Did he like me or not?

Unread postby Jzone » 13 February 2020, 05:21

It shows that he does not want to collide with you and cause either of you to drop whatever it is you are struggling to carry. He may also like you — maybe and maybe not in the way you hope.
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Re: Did he like me or not?

Unread postby Midlifewotsit » 13 February 2020, 21:37

This is one of those situations that can be over analysed and it still won't give an answer.

If he knows your gay then maybe.
If he doesn't then probably not.

The only way to be sure is to ask but while that might work here in the UK I'm not sure how LGBT friendly Vietnam is and if such openness is acceptable.
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Re: Did he like me or not?

Unread postby René » 13 February 2020, 21:47

Midlifewotsit wrote:The only way to be sure is to ask but while that might work here in the UK I'm not sure how LGBT friendly Vietnam is and if such openness is acceptable.

I'm pretty sure I saw a headline just earlier today saying kids in Vietnam are taught that homosexuality is a disease...
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Re: Did he like me or not?

Unread postby Dash Rainbow » 15 February 2020, 15:38

Tom0108 wrote:Does it show that he likes me or not?

It only shows that he doesn't want to accidentally push you. Only politeness and nothing more.
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Re: Did he like me or not?

Unread postby Derecklewis5090 » 15 February 2020, 16:04

Marmaduke wrote:
Safigooner wrote:touch him back and see how he reacts

Don’t do that.



Lol :rofl:
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Re: Did he like me or not?

Unread postby Derecklewis5090 » 15 February 2020, 16:07

Marmaduke wrote:
Safigooner wrote:touch him back and see how he reacts

Don’t do that.



Also @Tom0108, good luck telling whether or not he likes you cuz both these suggestions sound good to me, so..... yea. :)
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Re: Did he like me or not?

Unread postby Derecklewis5090 » 15 February 2020, 16:10

Midlifewotsit wrote:This is one of those situations that can be over analysed and it still won't give an answer.

If he knows your gay then maybe.
If he doesn't then probably not.

The only way to be sure is to ask but while that might work here in the UK I'm not sure how LGBT friendly Vietnam is and if such openness is acceptable.


Better yet, this is an example of sound advice listen to @Midlifewotsit. ;)
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Re: Did he like me or not?

Unread postby Derecklewis5090 » 15 February 2020, 16:13

René wrote:
Midlifewotsit wrote:The only way to be sure is to ask but while that might work here in the UK I'm not sure how LGBT friendly Vietnam is and if such openness is acceptable.

I'm pretty sure I saw a headline just earlier today saying kids in Vietnam are taught that homosexuality is a disease...


Right???
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Re: Did he like me or not?

Unread postby Derecklewis5090 » 15 February 2020, 16:16

Y'all got some REAL GOOD responses for Tom0108, I agree with every single response on here! So @Tom0108, count your blessings cuz you got a a who lotta good options and advice to go by. Praise the Lord. Amen.
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