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Re: Effeminate guys

Unread postby andyroo » 2 March 2019, 01:40

I don't know how effeminate I am. I used to measure it by how often I got asked if I was gay. Now, I never get asked so that no longer works. I think camp and creepy are quite close together. I don't have the sex appeal to be camp so I just seem creepy.

In terms of attraction, I think I like small guys to be 'masc' whereas I prefer big, beardy, muscular guys to be effeminate. And when I say masculine and effeminate, I'm only talking about they way they speak.

I know attraction isn't a conscious, personal choice and you don't owe anyone your erections, but widespread preferences may be caused by prejudice. It's not unreasonable for femmy guys to be frustrated over this. Especially when gay and effeminate are often equated. For people who were never good enough because they were gay / effeminate, coming out and going into the gay world to see that effeminate men are undesirable (according to some) there, too, is probably a bit shit, too.
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