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Extramarital sex

Unread postby jaredjoy90 » 7 October 2021, 20:44

-My husband and I have been together for 7 years now and still love each other. We are each other's partner and dependant on one another.

-Our sex hasn't been the best lately. I recently posted that he's taken to rimming me and he has done that to spice up the bedroom. We talked about it and its not really working to make sex more exciting: I am a sub bottom and he is a dominant top. Our problem seems to stem from the fact he is 52 and low in testosterone as well as the fact that we are the same old same old. I don't think his testosterone will ever really improve. However I do notice he gets excited when we see some other guys, I think its a change of scenary for him, we are a bit bored with each other. I wouldn't mind a guy who could give me a bit of a better pounding too..

-I am turned on by the idea of swinging or inviting another versatile guy into our bedroom, and so is he. He have people in mind for this.
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My question is: do you think a relationship can withstand extramarital sex? I want it to be open with him. No backstabbing. No secrets. Just sex and leave it in the bedroom. Part of me is excited to be filled up and dominated by another guy, but on the flip side, I'm not so sure how he'd actually feel about it, and I am not so sure I'd particularly enjoy knowing some other guy was humped by my husband.
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Re: Extramarital sex

Unread postby rogonandi » 7 October 2021, 21:00

If you both want this and have a strong, respectful relationship then go ahead. My husband and I have done this before and it didn’t weaken our relationship. :)
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Re: Extramarital sex

Unread postby Kemontol » 8 October 2021, 16:22

So long as you both agree and feel excited for it, give it a try. You don't have to go all the way the first time.

Establish rules on dos and don't. I've met many couples who could work it out and many who couldn't (mainly because lying and cheating and adding a new addition to their sex life revealed the lies and the cheatings).
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