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Unread postby Natkat8267 » 24 March 2020, 16:06

I really do want to bottom, and psychologically that's what turns me on, but physically I don't get pleasure from fingering at all, it rather seems to kill whatever erection I have. The problem is the idea of topping has no appeal to me, but jerking off can make me cum while fingering can't. At first I thought that I just wasn't going deep enough or that it was just a first time thing, but I'm pretty sure it doesn't work for me. Any tips?
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Re: Fingering problems

Unread postby Marmaduke » 24 March 2020, 16:08

When you say it doesn't work for you, are you expecting to achieve orgasm exclsuively through fingering yourself? Or are you saying it just doesn't do a lot for you and makes it harder for you to achieve orgasm through masturbation?
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Re: Fingering problems

Unread postby Natkat8267 » 24 March 2020, 16:11

I've tried both. When I only finger, nothing happens, and when I do it while jerking off, I can cum but it's only because I'm jerking off.
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Re: Fingering problems

Unread postby Marmaduke » 24 March 2020, 16:13

Yeah, I think you have a fundamental misunderstanding of what your expectations should be. The vast majority of guys wouldn't be able to cum just from fingering themselves. It's super hard to find your own prostate and even if you can, yours may not be sensitive enough to achieve orgasm without masturbation.
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Re: Fingering problems

Unread postby RenĂ© » 24 March 2020, 16:19

Yeah, fingering can be amazing for both people with the right guy, but I've never seen it lead to orgasm on its own.
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