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Unread postby hArdy19 » 4 March 2013, 21:40

I have a friend.. iv'e sucked him off a couple of times, but i feel that we can go all the way.. He has mentioned doing it in the past.. :)
And i want my first with a other male to be with him.. I have had sex with females in the past.. But yeah this would be my first proper gay sex..
Just looking for any advice really.. what to expect ? the norms.. Any help would be good.. :D
Many thanks x
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Re: First time advice ?

Unread postby furiousgeorge » 5 March 2013, 04:02

Obvious question: top or bottom? BIG difference in the kind of advice you're looking for, lol.
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Re: First time advice ?

Unread postby hArdy19 » 5 March 2013, 18:16

furiousgeorge wrote:Obvious question: top or bottom? BIG difference in the kind of advice you're looking for, lol.


Yeah.. forgot about that.. bttm btw ?
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Re: First time advice ?

Unread postby aerach » 5 March 2013, 18:41

hArdy19 wrote:
furiousgeorge wrote:Obvious question: top or bottom? BIG difference in the kind of advice you're looking for, lol.


Yeah.. forgot about that.. bttm btw ?


In that case, have you prepared? Taking it for the first time can be painful if you haven't practiced (on dildos, cucumbers, whatever you find that's penis shaped/sized and won't hurt you). If you've done that, your first time will be a lot more enjoyable. Also, be sure you're clean down there. If he wants to rim you (which helps you relax), you don't want to put him off.
And don't forget lube.
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Re: First time advice ?

Unread postby furiousgeorge » 6 March 2013, 00:04

1) Clean. Wash thoroughly with soapy water. Understand that no matter what you do to prepare, sometimes shit happens.
2) Condom. Duh, self-explanatory. Don't be an idiot.
3) Lube. Water-based, high-quality stuff, not cheap crap. I think Astroglide does just fine.
4) Foreplay. Let him finger you a bit. It helps loosen you up, and it's fun.
5) Relax. The difference between a good time and a bad time is how tense you are. See Step 4.
6) Slow. This isn't dungeon porn. Communicate with him. Find a good position. Be patient.

Keep it simple. I'd avoid the whole rimming thing unless you're really dying to do it. The stuff they do in porn isn't for everybody. Just enjoy him being inside you. It can be pretty awesome if you do it right.
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Re: First time advice ?

Unread postby Paragon » 8 March 2013, 04:47

I like this George Brent person. He knows what's up. Yeah, do all that.
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Re: First time advice ?

Unread postby Yoko318 » 8 March 2013, 04:49

Everything that George said, plus:

First time bottoming it's a lot easier to have your partner lay on his back and lower yourself onto his penis. you have a lot more control this way, and can go at whatever speed makes you more comfortable.

plus, you can make out while he's fucking you. ;)
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