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Unread postby VirginBottom » 8 August 2019, 17:50

So recently for the first time (I'm 17) I tried solo anal. Just a finger in. But I could only get like 1 inch deep. Any advice?

I really feel like when I hook up if I get a boyfriend I'd want to bottom, but need to get more used to it first. The thought of bottoming really turns me on. I can usually get like 1 inch in but have not got to prostate yet, any advice to make it more comfortable other than lots of lube?

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Re: First time exploring anal

Unread postby rxxli » 8 August 2019, 18:05

Lots of lube is always a good advice for this. Find a good position where you are comfortable and relax. That is really important. Your goal is also not to get as deep as possible but for it to feel good.

I would advise you to try a few of the sex toys that are available. You can get a pack of butt plugs for less than 10£ and in my opinion they are the best thing to start out. Start with a small size and then move up when you feel comfortable. After that you can move to something like a prostate massager - though in my opinion those never really felt that good (but I personally never really got much enjoyment out of sticking things up there).
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Re: First time exploring anal

Unread postby mxguy01 » 8 August 2019, 18:09

Well you are past the step of if it's something you want or not. Now the thing is to just do it right. Finger's work just fine and IMO are best - after all you are feeling around inside so that makes it safer to a degree. Make sure you groom (clip and file the nails). The next hurtle for guys seems to be if they can relax or if they are just so tense about it that they become their own issue. So there - learn to relax while doing it. The whole body but in particular the spot of interest so to speak. One finger. Then two. By that last step your physically able to bottom for most guys. And more lube never hurts...

BTW hook-up != boyfriend. Boytoy more likely. Sometimes they have the possibility of BF. Nothing wrong with either but best not to confuse them.

Just because you want to have that experience you don't have to equate it to an BF status from the start to meet some notion that you can only have sex with someone that is BF status.
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Re: First time exploring anal

Unread postby VirginBottom » 8 August 2019, 19:35

It's 100% something I want to do. I feel once I get used to it it will feel amazing. And when I said hook up, I just meant first time sex. I'd not want to do that unless I thoroughly knew the person (bf) so I should've been clear about that. Either way, it felt good last time so hoping if I could get more comfortable it will feel even better. Thanks to both
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