Giving/receiving head.

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Which do you prefer?

Giving
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Receiving
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Other (Because I have to be awkward)
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10%
 
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Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby Yoyo » 10 January 2014, 23:33

Also, state your role if you want. I'm guessing most tops like receiving and most bottoms like giving.

Me? I hate giving it. I consider it a chore. But man do I love getting head.

PS, apologies for the brain dead thread. I'm bored and don't feel like thinking right now.
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby Marmaduke » 10 January 2014, 23:39

I've always much preferred giving. I almost never get anywhere with receiving oral and there has only been one guy who actually got me off. I seem to go through an bi-annual switch of preferred role, currently being more top, and my stance on oral has never changed. I'd go so far as to say of almost prefer you didn't give it to me, just because I tend to get bored and my mind wanders. If it wanders too far I go soft and people seem to get offended. I quite enjoying giving head though.
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby Will » 11 January 2014, 00:06

Only done both exactly once and they gave me about the same enjoyment. 69ing was better than either on its own.
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby oltremare » 11 January 2014, 01:59

I prefer giving.
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby 72Jay » 11 January 2014, 02:28

Have never done either one.
But i think i'd prefer receiving...
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby Descuff » 11 January 2014, 04:06

I prefer giving. Feel good to receive one though xD
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby Mod » 11 January 2014, 05:21

I do like receiving Buuut I'd say that giving is betterrrr. Getting someone else off is an artform.
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby furiousgeorge » 11 January 2014, 07:50

I have extensive experience with both and expertise in giving, I don 't mind bragging. But c'mon, who doesn't like getting their dick sucked?
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby xonpathos » 11 January 2014, 15:23

furiousgeorge wrote:I have extensive experience with both and expertise in giving, I don 't mind bragging. But c'mon, who doesn't like getting their dick sucked?

*raises hand*

I enjoy giving, but receiving just isn't that great. I've never had anyone get me off on oral alone. Like Marmaduke said, my mind tends to wander during it.
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby Welp » 11 January 2014, 18:02

I'd say giving just cause it really doesn't do anything for me. My penis sucks... :( I'd much rather be rimmed than receive head.
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby Yoyo » 11 January 2014, 18:05

I think I'd like it more if it was a handsome, fat dick. But I've only seen one really good looking dick... And the guy it belonged to had HIV.

Anyway, lucky for me my bf prefers sucking to being sucked. And I'm the opposite so it works out just fine.
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby Yoyo » 11 January 2014, 18:07

Welp wrote:I'd say giving just cause it really doesn't do anything for me. My penis sucks... :( I'd much rather be rimmed than receive head.


What do you feel is wrong with it?
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby Welp » 11 January 2014, 19:27

Yoyo wrote:
Welp wrote:I'd say giving just cause it really doesn't do anything for me. My penis sucks... :( I'd much rather be rimmed than receive head.


What do you feel is wrong with it?

More of a mental thing I think? I don't know I just don't feel it as much.
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby c1ask0 » 11 January 2014, 20:25

I'm the same. I don't feel much from receiving a blowjob, but I like the feeling of giving someone else pleasure, so giving for me.
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby BadWater » 12 January 2014, 02:33

oral is nasty lol
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby GayHoosier » 12 January 2014, 02:41

Only did it once. Didn't like it. Never been sucked either and not sure I'd like it. Would be nice to pleasure another guy so good.
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby Adam25 » 12 January 2014, 23:02

furiousgeorge wrote:I have extensive experience with both and expertise in giving, I don 't mind bragging. But c'mon, who doesn't like getting their dick sucked?


I would SO suck on yours if you wanted me too...

When it comes to oral, Im usually the giver... Im
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby DoctorRoo » 13 January 2014, 16:40

I much prefer receiving. I usually get bored with giving. But then, of course, the last guy I was with was kind of a boring guy -- I wouldn't be surprised if I enjoy it more with my current boyfriend whenever we get to doing that sort of thing.
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby calandal » 15 January 2014, 03:23

I prefer receiving head, and I prefer to top. I've always assumed that's standard.
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Re: Giving/receiving head.

Unread postby Eryx » 15 January 2014, 06:55

I have a gag reflex and it's hard to really take in bigger dicks. It's usually uncomfortable anyway, so even though the idea really appeals to me, when it comes to reality I find it very energy-consuming. I wish I could just enjoy licking and sucking, but I can't stop thinking about whether or not I'm actually giving out pleasure to the receiver of the attention, and that stresses me out.

If I could get to a situation where it doesn't matter what I'm doing, where I can actually just enjoy having my tongue on every part of a dick, I'm pretty sure I'd easily spend hours just enjoying it. I love dicks. They're the most amazing things in the planet and they belong in my mouth. It's just that the demands that come with the activity and the fact that I can't take in too much cut out most of the enjoyment in it.

I was close to vote on "giving" because as I said, the whole idea attracts me. But I don't actually like doing it because there's a lot of strings attached to how you're blowing someone. A lot of expectations, pushing and and the rush attached to being horny. So I guess I like receiving more, even if it doesn't feel that special to me, even if I try to skip it to full-on sex as soon as it's presentable.
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