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Good anal days and bad anal days

Unread postby jackb02 » 14 October 2020, 20:20

I'm new to this and just discovered the pleasures of anal now in my early 30s. To be clear, I haven't had a guy fuck me... yet (thats a different thread), but I do enjoy playing with my toys. One thing I've noticed though is some days it feels incredible, I get this amazing tingling feeling that I love and I can actually squirt multiple times (I had no idea guys could squirt until it happened to me while fucking myself silly with a vibrator and rubbing my prostate) But then other days it just feels uncomfortable, not painful but not pleasurable and it feels like my ass is rejecting my toy. I'm curious if anyone else has experienced this and how to overcome it. I do not masturbate anally everyday, maybe once a week or so.

I'd like to point out that I go through the same prep process every time I want to masturbate anally. I start with a finger, then two, the the butt plug for while then douche then more butt plug then douche, small toy then a bigger toy. I'm always relaxed and ate accordingly.

Thanks in advance for any help.
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Re: Good anal days and bad anal days

Unread postby Nourty16 » 16 October 2020, 00:52

I think this is just a normal thing that happens to a lot of us (well in my opinion). I find myself wanting to finger anally but not being able to because my anal is basically rejecting it. I think one way I’ve found to overcome it is to actually tease around with myself a lot more - so essentially not progressing quickly from finger to butt plug etc.

I’ve found not using lube as being better - because you have to be slower when it is dry and my anal feels more prepared by the time my finger goes in.

Fingering too quickly after douching can also make it more uncomfortable. Generally you should leave your anal an hour or so after douching before fingering

Hope this helps x
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Re: Good anal days and bad anal days

Unread postby René » 16 October 2020, 02:28

Having been sexually active for 11 years, my experience has been that this gets less common over time, to the point of becoming a rare occurrence (I suppose as your body adapts), but there's always still a chance of it happening.

Nourty16 wrote:I’ve found not using lube as being better

Not even spit? :runaway: That seems very uncomfortable and dangerous!

Nourty16 wrote:Fingering too quickly after douching can also make it more uncomfortable. Generally you should leave your anal an hour or so after douching before fingering

Better yet, don't douche. There are healthier and more reliable ways to be clean. Douching has potential negative health consequences, and it's like a band-aid; you should really address the root cause of the problem, which will have wider implications for your general health.

Make sure you eat a good diet with plenty of fibre and healthy fats and drink lots of water. Taking Pure for Men can also help a lot.

A diet that results in douching seeming necessary also isn't good for e.g. your heart or preventing diabetes.
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