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How does the first time feel

Unread postby darbaka » 2 September 2019, 21:05

Hi

I'm a gay and till now didn't have sex with a guy before
but apparentley I will soon

I like fucking and get fucked too
so how does it feel having a dick in ass for the first time

I'm a little nervous
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Re: How does the first time feel

Unread postby Eryx » 3 September 2019, 02:38

Just make sure that he is patient and takes things slow, because it can hurt the first time if the guy doesn't ease into it. Get lube and condoms. Try to stay relaxed, if you're worried about cleanliness then make sure it's all good to go before you have sex... and just try to enjoy yourself! It becomes natural as you go.
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Re: How does the first time feel

Unread postby NvM » 3 September 2019, 15:16

it feels much better if you have a fabulous partner.
make sure your 1st time is a pleasant nice memory.
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Re: How does the first time feel

Unread postby mxguy01 » 3 September 2019, 18:09

So the nervous part of it is natural for everyone, gay or straight. Actually I find that enjoyably part of it all. So be careful, do your research on STDs and such, make sure what you and your other agree to the general proceedings. Etc.

So to your question, for some it sounds like the first time was not such a good time. It can easily happen. It can also go well just as equally. Each of us could describe what bottoming feels to us but the real question is how it's going to feel for you and if you like it. So on that your just going to have to give it a shot. And as I mentioned, the first time may not be the best so keep that in mind too.

Sorry to be so blunt about it: So were onto the mechanics of it which is where you should focus. I'd actually suggest playing with a toy at least the size of the guy you plan on accommodating. Seriously to me nothing is more frustrating than an nice bottom that you simply can't fit into. Learn what it takes for you. As mentioned learning to relax while it's happening goes a long way. Taking your time working your way up to the event will help for most (foreplay). Plenty of lube and a guy with some patience and understanding. Make sure he knows it's your first time and likewise you should understand what to expect from him as well. Good luck and hopefully your first will be a good experience. Oh, and keep it simple. A lot of guys get grand plans for their first time and it simply kills it.
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Re: How does the first time feel

Unread postby darbaka » 7 September 2019, 20:47

Finally I have this feel
The only thing I can say it is a mix of pleasure and pain the first 2 minutes was very painful specially during penetrating and he had a big cock too but I loved it the most the other part was great I started moving to have it complete after that I tried to fuck too but getting fucked is more pleasure to me love this feel so much
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Re: How does the first time feel

Unread postby Eryx » 9 September 2019, 04:13

I'm glad you had a good experience :)
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Re: How does the first time feel

Unread postby mxguy01 » 9 September 2019, 19:52

Congrats. Oh, and think, like most things, with practice it gets even better, seriously better, especially when you have someone as a regular practice partner. ;)
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Re: How does the first time feel

Unread postby Curious-bottom22 » 15 September 2019, 07:53

My first time felt amazing, lots of lube is the key and anal foreplay helps relax your Bum, I regularly use a plug before anal to help relax as well as some licking and fingering
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