How many guys have you been with?

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How many guys have you been with?

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How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby dogdad91 » 13 October 2021, 01:27

Just curious, cuz I have no idea what "average" is anymore - I sound like a slut to some friends and a monk to others :D

Me, it's 16 for full sex, and ~45 including everything else down to just making out at a club, over a span of 9 years (i'm 31)
1yr then a 3yr relationship, both following 5 flings between 1-5 months long, all monogamous
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby rogonandi » 13 October 2021, 05:37

I’ve slept with two men in my life. My husband and a friend my husband and I had a three way with. :P
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby pozzie » 13 October 2021, 06:15

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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Eryx » 13 October 2021, 19:26

Fun!
pozboro wrote:hmmm, where did I see this topic before?

relationships-sex-and-sexuality/how-many-guys-have-you-been-with-t2640/
Different grading though.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby ThatNomad » 13 October 2021, 19:36

I can't even answer this question in any kind of accurate way. Not because I'm currently a slut, or because I've ever been one, but honestly, my memory is about as good as that of a goldfish...

I'd say at least twenty, possible more, but yeah, with any sort of certainty, not a clue lol.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby LeeLong73 » 14 October 2021, 12:46

No idea. Too many to count really, and I hope there are more!

I love variety and I'm not I'm a relationship. I love new experiences with new men.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby DariusAlexander » 14 October 2021, 13:23

I ran a boy brothel in Amsterdam so 500+ would be a mere fraction of the actual total. Also I was a slut even before that. Anyone that didn't outrun me was in bed with me!
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby LeeLong73 » 14 October 2021, 13:45

DariusAlexander wrote:I ran a boy brothel in Amsterdam so 500+ would be a mere fraction of the actual total. Also I was a slut even before that. Anyone that didn't outrun me was in bed with me!


That's pretty hot I've never been to a brothel. But when I was 29 years old to give myself a birthday gift I went to San Francisco and visited the bathhouses there and had sex with a lot of men. I enjoyed it a lot a lot of new experiences a lot of experiences sucking cock and getting fucked and group sex. I also did do some male prostitution in my late teens and early twenties and I really enjoyed the experience of being able to pleasure men. I would spend time with mostly older men lonely Or men whose wives wouldn't pleasure them or men who were widowers. These men were lonely and need sexual satisfaction and she will satisfaction and they saw it from a gay man Period. I didn't get paid as well as the females I had a madam who I got paid generally about 50 bucks to be with a man for an hour. But I learned a lot and probably had sex with over a 100 men during that time frame. I enjoyed every single man. I look back on my youth with fondness and I don't regret a single sexual encounter with any man.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby DariusAlexander » 14 October 2021, 19:24

LeeLong73 wrote:
DariusAlexander wrote:I ran a boy brothel in Amsterdam so 500+ would be a mere fraction of the actual total. Also I was a slut even before that. Anyone that didn't outrun me was in bed with me!


That's pretty hot I've never been to a brothel. But when I was 29 years old to give myself a birthday gift I went to San Francisco and visited the bathhouses there and had sex with a lot of men. I enjoyed it a lot a lot of new experiences a lot of experiences sucking cock and getting fucked and group sex. I also did do some male prostitution in my late teens and early twenties and I really enjoyed the experience of being able to pleasure men. I would spend time with mostly older men lonely Or men whose wives wouldn't pleasure them or men who were widowers. These men were lonely and need sexual satisfaction and she will satisfaction and they saw it from a gay man Period. I didn't get paid as well as the females I had a madam who I got paid generally about 50 bucks to be with a man for an hour. But I learned a lot and probably had sex with over a 100 men during that time frame. I enjoyed every single man. I look back on my youth with fondness and I don't regret a single sexual encounter with any man.


Glad to hear you enjoyed it. Some of the guys who worked at the brothel had the right attitude, that means they stayed away from the hard drugs and were good enough actors that the clients could believe, even if just for a moment, that they were into him. We had more than a few that worked long enough to save money to start a business, or learn a trade. Of course the biggest problem was that too many of them were runaways, or had other personal issues and they would last a week or two.

That's why I had so many. I'd probably "audition" at least 50 new guys a week. We had "straight" guys who worked there too. If the boy was cute enough who cares as long as he can perform. So those boys I made sure could do it all before they started. I got more than my share of virgin ass, that's for sure! lol

Oh and the club name, we were very subtle. A plaque by the door, about 12" x 12" and it read "Boys 4 Men"
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby weedan » 15 October 2021, 20:44

I stopped counting ages ago, but a rough reckoning would be about 50 give or take
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby mollyparsum » 18 October 2021, 16:35

Have a good day, men and ladies. I like this topic, and it shows an interesting statistic, who is the man with 500+ partners? Can you answer here? I'm just curious how is it like being with so many people? I had only 20 sex partners in my life, 12 women and eight men. I don't count the club blowjobs and just random oral sex, only the good sex acts. Sometimes I approached the London escorts services for a couple of meetings with my wife and me. As a couple, we like to switch roles and dominate men or women together.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby stevie1400 » 20 October 2021, 16:19

If I remember rightly, about 7. None of them were regulars though. I do wish I could have sex more.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Simonsub » 27 October 2021, 09:23

Since I started PrEP almost three years ago I've loved being a sub slut on my travels and see an average if 3-4 guys a week....so in the last three years at least 750 and in the years before probably another 250....after all i turned 70 last June so had some time, even if married 25 years.

I love the anticipation of random meets, tho don't get me wrong, im quite picky .. not into overweight guys and mostly meet 18-40. And have met so many gorgeous guys from all walks of life....sex is a great leveller.

Life is for living. ..i aim to enjoy. .. it's one of my hobbies ..another is chess if anyone is interested in playing..

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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby DariusAlexander » 27 October 2021, 13:31

Simonsub wrote:Since I started PrEP almost three years ago I've loved being a sub slut on my travels and see an average if 3-4 guys a week....so in the last three years at least 750 and in the years before probably another 250....after all i turned 70 last June so had some time, even if married 25 years.

I love the anticipation of random meets, tho don't get me wrong, im quite picky .. not into overweight guys and mostly meet 18-40. And have met so many gorgeous guys from all walks of life....sex is a great leveller.

Life is for living. ..i aim to enjoy. .. it's one of my hobbies ..another is chess if anyone is interested in playing..

simon :-)


We have a lot in common. I'm the same age as you and live within a mile of the University of Maryland. One of my godson's kids who was, at the time, 19 and gay, told me I should get a Grindr account. He and I set it up together, with real age, pics, stats, etc. It's amazing how many college boys have daddy, or granddaddy fetishes. I heartily recommend Grindr to everybody!

I'm slightly pickier than you are. Under 30 for me and that's only if they are without annoying body hair. Smaller than my 6' and prefer no fat but not into muscles.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby stevie1400 » 27 October 2021, 23:45

Simonsub wrote:Since I started PrEP almost three years ago I've loved being a sub slut on my travels and see an average if 3-4 guys a week....so in the last three years at least 750 and in the years before probably another 250....after all i turned 70 last June so had some time, even if married 25 years.


So that's where all the guys are... Can't you spare a few for me? :devil:
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Simonsub » 28 October 2021, 01:28

Plenty when you are on the move: everywhere you go you are new blood...and a stranger so bo local connections for guys to worry about.

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