How many guys have you been with?

So, I've been wondering for a while how many guys people have been with. I'm interested to find out what the average is. I'm certain that my number is much lower than most others, so I don't really have a good idea of what the norm is without asking a number of people.

For the poll I am including any kind of sexual activity from handjobs and upwards. As long as it is with a different guy then it counts. Feel free to elaborate in the thread if you want.

I apologise if anyone thinks that this is a stupid poll, but I can't think of a better way of finding out.

To start, I'll say that I've only been with 2 guys. It's a low number and I wish it was higher, but there you go. At least I'm working on improving it now.

P.S. I'm not saying that a low or high number is necessarily a bad thing. Everybody's situation is different.

16+. I am unable to provide an exact figure, but much more than 16.

Bit slutty. I'm ok with it.

One.

Brenden wrote:One.

That's really sweet.

For the record, my ideal number would be 3, because it means the next guy would be the one.

c1ask0 wrote:

Brenden wrote:One.

That's really sweet.

For the record, my ideal number would be 3, because it means the next guy would be the one.

2 actually. And this match my hope exactly.

Its okey to have poll like this ^^ do not worry hehe

Personally, i had 50 guys!! No just kidding only 3

Four, and the number's almost certainly going to get higher as time goes on.

3, i don't know how much the number is going to climb in the future. i just sorta go with the flow.

A total of...
Zip.. Zero.. Zilch.. Nada..
well you get the picture. LOL .none

this poll made me feel like a slut.

I think probably 11-15 which was before the fiance

The average should be low, according to stats that I've heard about but don't want to bother looking up right now. But there are some major sluts that will drag it up. Those giant whores and their illicit hookups in public places.

c1ask0 wrote:I'll say that I've only been with 2 guys. It's a low number and I wish it was higher, but there you go. At least I'm working on improving it now.

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c1ask0 wrote:P.S. I'm not saying that a low or high number is necessarily a bad thing. Everybody's situation is different.

It's amazing how this 'body count' question comes up so frequently with people and genuinely seems to matter to them in some way. You're right...everyone's situation is different. One person's body count might be figuratively higher than someone elses but ultimately it means nothing.

Quality over quantity and all that. Slutty tendencies are perfectly fine, but if you're slutty for the sake of 'boosting your number' then your sexual priorities are surely askew?

Oktrends did a pretty good breakdown of gay sex stats if your interested, most relevant being:

oktrends wrote:It turns out that a tiny fraction of gays have single-handedly created the public image of gay sexual recklessness—in fact we found that just 2% of gay people have had 23% of the total reported gay sex, which is pretty crazy.

The average number of partners is something like 6.

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yagyug wrote:Oktrends did a pretty good breakdown of gay sex stats if your interested, most relevant being:

oktrends wrote:It turns out that a tiny fraction of gays have single-handedly created the public image of gay sexual recklessness—in fact we found that just 2% of gay people have had 23% of the total reported gay sex, which is pretty crazy.

The average number of partners is something like 6.

Interesting find.

Eryx wrote:I'm way over average. Sex is nice.

LOL, everyone loves sex

Eryx wrote:I'm way over average. Sex is nice.

*high five for the slut buddies!*

Two men, only one was and is substantial, almost with another man but I wasn't feeling it that night.
Once with a woman.
At one point in life I wanted to fuck all the twinks but now I'm mostly over that and what little urge that is left is shared by Ben and our want of a threesome with someone we find mutually enticing.
My ideal is Ryan Gosling, I forget who his is at this moment, But wherever that large schlonged black man is I am sure he is thinking wistfully of a twink couple in their early twenties.

10... two were bfs, a couple others I dated, the others were fwb, a couple one nighters and one was only borderline consensual. I regret most of my sexual experiences.