How many guys have you been with?

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How many guys have you been with?

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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby c1ask0 » 8 February 2014, 00:15

Hmm, I always thought that the average was quite high, but I guess it's much lower than I originally thought. I wouldn't say that I would ever try to artificially boost it, but I feel a bit better knowing I'm closer to the norm than I thought. Thanks for helping, guys.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Paragon » 8 February 2014, 00:28

I dunno, that just seems sad to me. Quality over quantity rings particularly true in this case. Did you have mindblowing sex? Did you connect with someone really well? Did you make someone happy? Did you learn anything new that you can use towards future sexy times? Was it interesting, adventurous or particularly fulfilling? I think those are much more useful in terms of comparison.
I know that the number of sex partners is an easy measure of sexual prowess and/or attractiveness, but doesn't mean it's all that valuable.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby c1ask0 » 8 February 2014, 00:44

Apollo wrote:I dunno, that just seems sad to me. Quality over quantity rings particularly true in this case. Did you have mindblowing sex? Did you connect with someone really well? Did you make someone happy? Did you learn anything new that you can use towards future sexy times? Was it interesting, adventurous or particularly fulfilling? I think those are much more useful in terms of comparison.
I know that the number of sex partners is an easy measure of sexual prowess and/or attractiveness, but doesn't mean it's all that valuable.

I suppose it might look like I'm putting a lot of importance on the number, but that's not what I'm trying to achieve. I'd much sooner settle down with someone and avoid hook-ups, because I think that's what would suit me more. It's because I'm like that that I didn't have any idea how other people approach it.

The reason I was bothered about my own number is because my own experiences haven't been particularly fulfilling and I sometimes wonder that if I'd dated more guys by now I might feel better about it. Ultimately, I know I shouldn't dwell on it; it's just something I need to get over.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Paragon » 8 February 2014, 00:50

I think the most fulfilling sex requires the ability to really throw yourself into it, emotionally. And the best way to do that is to really connect with a person, so you can like, get high off of each other, you know? I know that some people can achieve similar intensity by being a little more... Maybe selfish? But not in a necessarily negative way. Just in a way that is all about letting go of insecurity and semi-literally unleashing the more primal parts of your mind.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby alright » 8 February 2014, 05:20

sexual activity? uumm, around 10 guys maybe. half in my teenage years, because we like to jerk off together give handjob or sometimes my friend gave me bj, that's it. but weird thing is I don't feel gay or liking guy at that time, just for fun ya know. haha.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Eryx » 9 February 2014, 00:05

Is there such a thing as a gay feeling? I don't think I've ever felt gay myself. No, not really.

Now I'm imagining going to the grocery store and thinking, "Oh, I feel so gay right now." and then... what? What exactly is the expression of gayness? I'm confused.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Descuff » 9 February 2014, 01:13

Eryx wrote:Is there such a thing as a gay feeling? I don't think I've ever felt gay myself. No, not really.

Now I'm imagining going to the grocery store and thinking, "Oh, I feel so gay right now." and then... what? What exactly is the expression of gayness? I'm confused.


I thought it was basically staring at guys o.o
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby nikolii » 9 February 2014, 02:12

Apollo wrote:I think the most fulfilling sex requires the ability to really throw yourself into it, emotionally. And the best way to do that is to really connect with a person, so you can like, get high off of each other, you know? I know that some people can achieve similar intensity by being a little more... Maybe selfish? But not in a necessarily negative way. Just in a way that is all about letting go of insecurity and semi-literally unleashing the more primal parts of your mind.


That sounds like something Morgan would say. Im onto you. :shifty:
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby bazcus » 9 February 2014, 04:27

Well, my number is 0... or a half?

I touched a guy's penis once when we were kissing... or more like, he grabbed my hand and put it in his pants.

But, no orgasm by anyone involved, so I suppose none is the correct number.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby arabbitch94 » 26 September 2014, 16:29

I have been with over 70 guys. All of them fucked me. some fucked me more than once. I've been fucked over a hundred times.
they were all men I chatted with. but no relationships. just strangers getting inside me. I loved it.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Marmaduke » 26 September 2014, 16:33

arabbitch94 wrote:I have been with over 70 guys. All of them fucked me. some fucked me more than once. I've been fucked over a hundred times.
they were all men I chatted with. but no relationships. just strangers getting inside me. I loved it.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby DarkCloset » 26 September 2014, 17:45

Currently none... *sighs* If I had my way it'd be 16+ though. ;)
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Severelius » 26 September 2014, 18:26

Randomly bumped thread, but for me it's currently 4. Though I'd prefer to erase 2 of them from my memory forever if I had my way, but oh well.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Lonewolf810 » 26 September 2014, 22:26

None lol :cry: Though hopefully that'll change soon :shifty:
I think part of my problem is that I never was really interested in one night stands or casual sex, more of a relationship kinda thing :)
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby mysecretlifestyle » 27 September 2014, 15:47

"been with" as in sexual activity? = 11-15

of those 11-15 men, 6 have been actual sex.

of those 6, i've fucked 5 of them, the 6th fucked me.

think this is the first time ive ever really thought about the numbers, its higher than i thought
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby c1ask0 » 27 September 2014, 16:18

Oh, this was from a while back. Seems I've got more to add, though, which is good, I think... :shifty:

Still ploughing through to find Mr bf, though. :(
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby -Quack » 27 September 2014, 16:25

Absolutely none. And I shan't until I find someone who I love and trust (and who feels the same towards me).

I hold quite traditional values in that regard.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby René » 27 September 2014, 16:30

c1ask0 wrote:Oh, this was from a while back. Seems I've got more to add, though, which is good, I think... :shifty:

Still ploughing through to find Mr bf, though. :(

I don't think having sex with lots of people is a very good way to find a life partner. :P

-Quack wrote:Absolutely none. And I shan't until I find someone who I love and trust (and who feels the same towards me).

I hold quite traditional values in that regard.

I kind of wish there were more people like us. (But at the same time, I feel bad for judging people who have sex with many different partners because I know we shouldn't force our values onto others.)
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby c1ask0 » 27 September 2014, 16:47

René wrote:
c1ask0 wrote:Oh, this was from a while back. Seems I've got more to add, though, which is good, I think... :shifty:

Still ploughing through to find Mr bf, though. :(

I don't think having sex with lots of people is a very good way to find a life partner. :P

Heyyy, I didn't say I'm having sex with everyone I meet! Perhaps my wording was misleading. Still, bf come hither! I have a huge deficit on cuddles and hugs and I need someone to help me with this. :3
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Nicholas » 28 September 2014, 09:15

-Quack wrote:Absolutely none. And I shan't until I find someone who I love and trust (and who feels the same towards me).

I hold quite traditional values in that regard.

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