How many guys have you been with?

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How many guys have you been with?

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19
18%
1
7
7%
2
9
8%
3
7
7%
4-5
10
9%
6-7
8
7%
8-10
5
5%
11-15
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28
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 1 October 2014, 06:38

Derek wrote:He didn't discuss anything that would shed light on why gay men like what we like and how we specifically differ from straight men. What would the sexual illusion be comprised of in this case?

It wasn't meant to address it directly, but I think the information he touches on can be used to make decent inferences. The male ass that you lust after could be a kind of "sexual illusion" of sorts. Biological traits can often overlap or manifest in erratic ways as well. I remember talking to this evolutionary biologist years ago, Dr. Zachary Moore, and we were discussing interspecies adoption. A mammal adopting a youngling of a different species does not affect the overall "fitness" of that mammalian population, but it's merely a spill-over of an otherwise useful instinct. The same could be true of homosexuality.

Derek wrote:There is tons of foot shit on straight porn sites, but I hardly see any of it on gay porn sites.

I have (unfortunately) had the opposite experience.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Iago » 1 October 2014, 06:44

c1ask0 wrote:
Iago wrote:Why do people even bother to keep count?

Small numbers are easy to keep count of whether we like it or not. :lol:

Those who don't know the actual number are probably the ones who have slept with enough people that it's too much to count.

I'm talking about cases where people quite deliberately put in effort to remember numbers and sequences that they would otherwise forget.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Derek » 1 October 2014, 06:54

poolerboy0077 wrote:
Derek wrote:He didn't discuss anything that would shed light on why gay men like what we like and how we specifically differ from straight men. What would the sexual illusion be comprised of in this case?

It wasn't meant to address it directly, but I think the information he touches on can be used to make decent inferences. The male ass that you lust after could be a kind of "sexual illusion" of sorts. Biological traits can often overlap or manifest in erratic ways as well. I remember talking to this evolutionary biologist years ago, Dr. Zachary Moore, and we were discussing interspecies adoption. A mammal adopting a youngling of a different species does not affect the overall "fitness" of that mammalian population, but it's merely a spill-over of an otherwise useful instinct. The same could be true of homosexuality.

It's pretty apparent that gay and straight sexualities are homologous, which makes complete sense from a neurological perspective. But it's also apparent that male homosexuality (at least) is pervasive and intrinsic and we can't assume what roll it plays in the greater evolutionary scheme because it's bound to be counter-intuitive. He mentioned that gay men differ from straight men in our tendency to favor submission... why? It requires explanation.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Lucas » 1 October 2014, 07:49

idk, what's the population of Delaware?
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby 46cjb » 1 October 2014, 14:09

For once I agree with Jordan, having the cut off at 16+ is almost comical.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby CrownedClown » 1 October 2014, 14:19

Thrice... although, one of those times wasn't exactly consensual. :dunno:
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Nickr » 1 October 2014, 15:24

CrownedClown wrote:Thrice... although, one of those times wasn't exactly consensual. :dunno:


Can we have non-consensual sex?
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby CrownedClown » 1 October 2014, 15:47

Nickr wrote:
CrownedClown wrote:Thrice... although, one of those times wasn't exactly consensual. :dunno:
Can we have non-consensual sex?
The thought of non-consensual sex is actually arousing to me. I'm just annoyed that it happened cause I was half passed out so I didn't really enjoy it, and the guy was kinda creepy and not all that good looking.

But yes, I'm sure with someone as strapping as you I might manage. That being said, you did always use to boot me from Whiny Adolescent Discourse... :madred:
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Nickr » 1 October 2014, 18:08

CrownedClown wrote:
Nickr wrote:
CrownedClown wrote:Thrice... although, one of those times wasn't exactly consensual. :dunno:
Can we have non-consensual sex?
The thought of non-consensual sex is actually arousing to me. I'm just annoyed that it happened cause I was half passed out so I didn't really enjoy it, and the guy was kinda creepy and not all that good looking.

But yes, I'm sure with someone as strapping as you I might manage. That being said, you did always use to boot me from Whiny Adolescent Discourse... :madred:


Can I make it up to you buy getting you wasted and using you for my pleasure? :3
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby CrownedClown » 1 October 2014, 18:34

Nickr wrote:
CrownedClown wrote:
Nickr wrote:
CrownedClown wrote:Thrice... although, one of those times wasn't exactly consensual. :dunno:
Can we have non-consensual sex?
The thought of non-consensual sex is actually arousing to me. I'm just annoyed that it happened cause I was half passed out so I didn't really enjoy it, and the guy was kinda creepy and not all that good looking.

But yes, I'm sure with someone as strapping as you I might manage. That being said, you did always use to boot me from Whiny Adolescent Discourse... :madred:


Can I make it up to you buy getting you wasted and using you for my pleasure? :3

As long as you're paying. Mwahahaha
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby rxxli » 1 October 2014, 20:50

-Quack wrote:Absolutely none. And I shan't until I find someone who I love and trust (and who feels the same towards me).

I hold quite traditional values in that regard.

:werd:

The sad thing here is that I have been trying to find someone for quite a while. Sadly I don't seem to have much luck.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby c1ask0 » 1 October 2014, 20:57

rxxli wrote:
-Quack wrote:Absolutely none. And I shan't until I find someone who I love and trust (and who feels the same towards me).

I hold quite traditional values in that regard.

:werd:

The sad thing here is that I have been trying to find someone for quite a while. Sadly I don't seem to have much luck.

I was like this for a while. My advice is to just stick to your guns. I never did anything I truly regretted - such as sleeping with someone I wasn't really that attracted to - and I'm quite pleased with that in the end.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Severelius » 1 October 2014, 21:04

I regret half of mine, and I haven't even been with that many. :(
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Nicholas » 1 October 2014, 21:34

rxxli wrote:
-Quack wrote:Absolutely none. And I shan't until I find someone who I love and trust (and who feels the same towards me).

I hold quite traditional values in that regard.

:werd:

The sad thing here is that I have been trying to find someone for quite a while. Sadly I don't seem to have much luck.

Well the men in Slovenia must be blind because you're a catch!
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Nickr » 1 October 2014, 23:03

CrownedClown wrote:
Nickr wrote:
CrownedClown wrote:
Nickr wrote:
CrownedClown wrote:Thrice... although, one of those times wasn't exactly consensual. :dunno:
Can we have non-consensual sex?
The thought of non-consensual sex is actually arousing to me. I'm just annoyed that it happened cause I was half passed out so I didn't really enjoy it, and the guy was kinda creepy and not all that good looking.

But yes, I'm sure with someone as strapping as you I might manage. That being said, you did always use to boot me from Whiny Adolescent Discourse... :madred:


Can I make it up to you buy getting you wasted and using you for my pleasure? :3

As long as you're paying. Mwahahaha


You pay for the plane, I'll pay for the booze.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 2 October 2014, 05:27

Derek wrote:
poolerboy0077 wrote:
Derek wrote:He didn't discuss anything that would shed light on why gay men like what we like and how we specifically differ from straight men. What would the sexual illusion be comprised of in this case?

It wasn't meant to address it directly, but I think the information he touches on can be used to make decent inferences. The male ass that you lust after could be a kind of "sexual illusion" of sorts. Biological traits can often overlap or manifest in erratic ways as well. I remember talking to this evolutionary biologist years ago, Dr. Zachary Moore, and we were discussing interspecies adoption. A mammal adopting a youngling of a different species does not affect the overall "fitness" of that mammalian population, but it's merely a spill-over of an otherwise useful instinct. The same could be true of homosexuality.

It's pretty apparent that gay and straight sexualities are homologous, which makes complete sense from a neurological perspective. But it's also apparent that male homosexuality (at least) is pervasive and intrinsic and we can't assume what roll it plays in the greater evolutionary scheme because it's bound to be counter-intuitive. He mentioned that gay men differ from straight men in our tendency to favor submission... why? It requires explanation.

Maybe we're subconsciously Muslim. :shrug:
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Ericb91 » 2 October 2014, 17:14

Marmaduke wrote:
Ericb91 wrote:Six, technically seven.

Ok, well you obviously now have to elaborate on the technicality.

I like to pretend it didn't happen, he was a douchebag.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby rxxli » 2 October 2014, 21:00

Nicholas wrote:
rxxli wrote:
-Quack wrote:Absolutely none. And I shan't until I find someone who I love and trust (and who feels the same towards me).

I hold quite traditional values in that regard.

:werd:

The sad thing here is that I have been trying to find someone for quite a while. Sadly I don't seem to have much luck.

Well the men in Slovenia must be blind because you're a catch!

Thanks for inflating my ego :P .
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby CrownedClown » 3 October 2014, 13:46

Nickr wrote:
CrownedClown wrote:
Nickr wrote:
CrownedClown wrote:
Nickr wrote:
CrownedClown wrote:Thrice... although, one of those times wasn't exactly consensual. :dunno:
Can we have non-consensual sex?
The thought of non-consensual sex is actually arousing to me. I'm just annoyed that it happened cause I was half passed out so I didn't really enjoy it, and the guy was kinda creepy and not all that good looking.

But yes, I'm sure with someone as strapping as you I might manage. That being said, you did always use to boot me from Whiny Adolescent Discourse... :madred:


Can I make it up to you buy getting you wasted and using you for my pleasure? :3

As long as you're paying. Mwahahaha


You pay for the plane, I'll pay for the booze.
I don't think that will work as much in your favour as you think.
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Re: How many guys have you been with?

Unread postby Jupaliini » 3 October 2014, 17:23

6.
During the last 10 years i've only had 2 partners.
And for the last 2 years i've only had 1 actual sex partner.
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