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How to find a man attracted to my body type?

Unread postby HornyBussy757 » 5 October 2021, 20:30

I am 38 years old and I am bisexual but leaning towards homosexual. I used to be more 50/50 with my attraction and was engaged to a female (she learned that I was into men 4 months into our relationship and we were together for a 3 years and some). She said I was too cute to be gay and I learned she resented me for it.

Anyway, I lost some weight recently and I've been going to gym. My hormones been poppin so much and I stay horny and always thinking about slim and muscular men. I dream about certain gay men just manhandling me and making me their bytch.

I am a vers btm (way more btm) but I started out a vers top. I have a unique body that may not be what some gay men prefer. I've been told I have boyish looks, a younger looking baby face (but still look very masculine in face), innocent eyes and here is my main issue...my body. I have a bigger azz than normal, kinda wide man hips, thick thighs, soft skin and lil man titties with big nipples. I always felt insecure about my body especially back in high school gym and was afraid to take off my shirt.

Are any gay men attracted to my body type? Should I try to attract straight or bi men? I guess they call that type "trade."

I feel like I don't connect with other gay men like I should.
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Re: How to find a man attracted to my body type?

Unread postby pozboro » 5 October 2021, 21:01

Welcome!

BTW, don't believe it's a problem actually writing words like ass and bitch here - it's not like you were using them to demean anyone. We aren't patrolled like some social media juggernauts. But of course, if you were doing it for some special effect, knock yourself out! :)
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Re: How to find a man attracted to my body type?

Unread postby Kemontol » 8 October 2021, 16:30

There's always a market for everything.

If you have a type that you have to be with, focus on there. Don't mind your shape or body type as long as you are healthy and happy with it.

Let's say you are into muscular and masculine men. Find gay/bi guys who are in this group. Find what kind of dating app they use, bars they go to, etc. You can be the total opposite of the society standards, and lots of people will still find you attractive. Just less than the ones the society find attractive.
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