How to find a sugar daddy ? (+Opinions and advices)

**littlecandycane** · by **littlecandycane** » 10 January 2021, 03:47

Hey ! I'm new here so please be nice

I've been searching for a sugar daddy for a long time now and tbh I still don't know how it works.. I've tried some websites, but there were only weird people or skam but not what I'm searching for...

I'm not writing this as a "Sugar Daddy Wanted" post :shake:

But I would love to have some advice from you guys..

It would also be interesting to know the different opinion on that... I'm looking for someone who would "buy" pictures and videos of me... But nothing else... But I know that some sugar baby-daddy relationship are way different... Do you think it is ok to be in that kind of relationship ? Should I be careful about something ?

Lmk guys, I looking forward to reading your answers ! :heart:

**Brenden** · by **Brenden** » 11 January 2021, 18:15

**littlecandycane** · by **littlecandycane** » 11 January 2021, 23:53

Brenden wrote:lol

Why lol ? Im being serious 😑

**Jzone** · by **Jzone** » 12 January 2021, 03:54

I will take your word that you are being serious, candycane. I am an older guy and I have met young men hoping for a sugar-daddy. That is not something I have ever offered. I don't understand what you mean by "how it works." There are no standards, rules, or regulations for finding or keeping a sugar-daddy. The men who get into these relationships make it up as they go.

My question is — why? Are you attracted to older men sexually, or only their money? Most men will not be satisfied for long; paying out money for just pictures and videos. This sort of relationship is contractual, an exchange of money for sex (or private porn in your case), and so is unequal with a big power imbalance. Without anything else in common or mutual attractions, I don't expect it would last very long. If you just need money, get a job.

**erti** · by **erti** » 12 January 2021, 04:05

If anything.. have you tried a fansonly page?

**littlecandycane** · by **littlecandycane** » 12 January 2021, 10:36

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Jzone wrote:I will take your word that you are being serious, candycane. I am an older guy and I have met young men hoping for a sugar-daddy. That is not something I have ever offered. I don't understand what you mean by "how it works." There are no standards, rules, or regulations for finding or keeping a sugar-daddy. The men who get into these relationships make it up as they go.

My question is — why? Are you attracted to older men sexually, or only their money? Most men will not be satisfied for long; paying out money for just pictures and videos. This sort of relationship is contractual, an exchange of money for sex (or private porn in your case), and so is unequal with a big power imbalance. Without anything else in common or mutual attractions, I don't expect it would last very long. If you just need money, get a job.

Thanks for your answer

The reason why I would prefer only to sell pictures and videos is because im kinda afraid of meeting those people...

I do have a job already, but yeah the main thing is to earn money, not to fall in love.

Another reason why I dont really wanna meet them is because Ive got a boyfriend and I feel like... Sleeping with other men would be cheating on him..

And even tho selling your body (on camera or on real life) is weird, it is a job too

I respect the person who prositute themselves.. This aint easy...

**littlecandycane** · by **littlecandycane** » 12 January 2021, 10:37

erti wrote:If anything.. have you tried a fansonly page?

Thanks for your answer

Ive never thought about opening an OnlyFans account cuz I dont want people I know to find mine... but maybe it would be a good idea.. 🤷🏻‍♂️

**Jzone** · by **Jzone** » 12 January 2021, 22:52

I agree — this ain't easy. I wouldn't call what you are looking for a sugar-daddy relationship.

You want to sell private porn without posting it online in order to stay discreet. Once you sell photos and videos you have no control over what other people do with them, so they may end up online anyway. You don't want to meet your clients at all. There is so much free porn available, I think this is a hard sell. Your only advantage is that you can customize your product to meet a client's preferences and fantasies (if you are willing). With so much free porn available online to suit almost any fetish, you better be very good. Without a fansonly page or something similar, I don't know how clients are going to find you.

A more mundane part-time side job would probably be much easier.

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