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How to tell if my friend is bi too?

Unread postby BillyNeedsAnswerLmao » 17 July 2021, 09:37

Okay, this is a bit of a story so get ready lmao.

On my 17th birthday, I had a couple friends over to stay and we all got WASTED right, we all head to bed and my best friend was sharing the bed with me that night. I can’t remember exactly how it first happened but it led to both of us just slowly moving our hands towards each other’s dicks and we were just kinda feeling around. Then I started to make him hard and was starting to jerk him off a bit and that’s when he asked me to suck him so I did lmao. He then did the same to me, we were going for about half hour and then we just stopped and never spoke about it since.

A week later, we meet up again with some friends and we’re supposed to be staying over, we’ve smoked some weed, me and him are just led on the sofa (I’ve got my legs across his) and I could feel him riding his hand up my leg and again feeling my cock.

Now this was the last time anything like this has ever happened, fast forward 4 years were both 21 and we’ve gotten back in touch and are moving in together with a couple other friends.

I’m currently living at his mums with him until we move in and I’ve just noticed a few things, he likes to slap my ass, he constantly compliments my ass (I was literally just led across my bed on my stomach and he was STARING at it and said “is your ass just that phat or are you curling it up 😭”) I slapped his ass in work and he told me “it felt kinda good” in work I was singing a song which had a line saying “who’s making sure that you’re straight” to which he replied “what’s wrong if I’m gay, nothing wrong with a bit of cock every now and then” he’s very comfortable talking about sexual things with me, will basically cock tease me by showing me the bottom of his shaft every time he shaves cause he wants to show me 🤣

Are we just really good friends? Or does he maybe want something that happened 4 years ago to happen again? (I wouldn’t say no so this is why I’m asking lmao)

Thanks for reading! Would appreciate any answers 😁
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Re: How to tell if my friend is bi too?

Unread postby weedan » 17 July 2021, 11:19

If it was one of my friends doing this i would say he is testing the waters to see if your interested in perhaps going further, he like you maybe does not want to come out and say it for fear of wreaking your friendship as it is just now. My advice is talk to him. Surely its good to know either way, or you could be wondering what if for the rest of your life.
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Re: How to tell if my friend is bi too?

Unread postby BillyNeedsAnswerLmao » 17 July 2021, 23:29

Ahhhh you’re the 5th person to say that man 😭 I guess I would really like to talk to him about it but I really don’t wanna make it awkward and lose the friendship ya know
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Re: How to tell if my friend is bi too?

Unread postby BillyNeedsAnswerLmao » 17 July 2021, 23:30

weedan wrote:If it was one of my friends doing this i would say he is testing the waters to see if your interested in perhaps going further, he like you maybe does not want to come out and say it for fear of wreaking your friendship as it is just now. My advice is talk to him. Surely its good to know either way, or you could be wondering what if for the rest of your life.


Ahhhh you’re the 5th person to say that man 😭 I guess I would really like to talk to him about it but I really don’t wanna make it awkward and lose the friendship ya know
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Re: How to tell if my friend is bi too?

Unread postby weedan » 18 July 2021, 20:23

BillyNeedsAnswerLmao wrote:
weedan wrote:If it was one of my friends doing this i would say he is testing the waters to see if your interested in perhaps going further, he like you maybe does not want to come out and say it for fear of wreaking your friendship as it is just now. My advice is talk to him. Surely its good to know either way, or you could be wondering what if for the rest of your life.


Ahhhh you’re the 5th person to say that man 😭 I guess I would really like to talk to him about it but I really don’t wanna make it awkward and lose the friendship ya know


In that case if you don't want to bring it up, I'm afraid the only other option is to let it go, and continue having him as a good friend. Catch 22 kind of situation,
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Re: How to tell if my friend is bi too?

Unread postby Jzone » 19 July 2021, 04:48

My first response is to say it's time to man up and go for what you want. However, if you want to play it safe you can set up a situation where you both have a couple drinks or smoke some weed and then ask if he wants to see your perfect ass. (Just don't drink or smoke too much or you won't enjoy the potential sex as much.) If he doesn't go for that bait you can shrug it off that you were drunk/high/whatever. Your friendship has already survived that kind of encounter. From your story it sounds to me like he is interested.
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Re: How to tell if my friend is bi too?

Unread postby Brenden » 19 July 2021, 10:14

SHD;SWH.

(Suck his dick; see what happens.)
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Re: How to tell if my friend is bi too?

Unread postby Eryx » 19 July 2021, 21:17

That's very much someone hinting at something with you.
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Re: How to tell if my friend is bi too?

Unread postby Blue Nick » 22 July 2021, 11:22

Are you bi too as your friend? So, you found each other. :heart:
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