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I Don't Know but I do know

Unread postby CrtnyCox » 18 December 2018, 10:01

Im not sure if I'm bi or straight. I love women and everything about them. Everyone I've been with romanticly and seriously has always been women, but when it comes to men I just into his dick.

I don't want to sound like I just use men for their dick but that's the only thing I found physical attracted to a man. I want to get to know him as a friend but never as a potential bf or husband. Yes, I do want to know him mental because I don't want to give my booty up to anyone for the first time. Sure I gave and receive head but that dick never penetrated me. We can hang out play video games, and do what friends do but just know after we fuck we're still just friends who secretly and quietly fuck from time to time when I'm not in a relationship with a woman.

Getting back to the point with all that said I'm still not sure if I'm bi because of that. Not trying to sound rude, nasty, or anything negative.
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Re: I Don't Know but I do know

Unread postby Tommiebee » 18 December 2018, 14:06

Everybody has their own personal quest in life sorting out who they are. For those of us trying to sort out their sexuality, it can take time, patience and experience. Don't be too wrapped up in labels, consider life a salad bar - try a variety until you decide what you like.
For myself it took decades before I got there - if I'm really there yet.
I am a work in progress. I am so thankful for the opportunity to live my live my own way.
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Re: I Don't Know but I do know

Unread postby CrtnyCox » 18 December 2018, 19:28

Thanks tommiebee
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Re: I Don't Know but I do know

Unread postby Jjaawlco » 14 April 2019, 14:56

CrtnyCox wrote:Im not sure if I'm bi or straight. I love women and everything about them. Everyone I've been with romanticly and seriously has always been women, but when it comes to men I just into his dick.

I don't want to sound like I just use men for their dick but that's the only thing I found physical attracted to a man. I want to get to know him as a friend but never as a potential bf or husband. Yes, I do want to know him mental because I don't want to give my booty up to anyone for the first time. Sure I gave and receive head but that dick never penetrated me. We can hang out play video games, and do what friends do but just know after we fuck we're still just friends who secretly and quietly fuck from time to time when I'm not in a relationship with a woman.

Getting back to the point with all that said I'm still not sure if I'm bi because of that. Not trying to sound rude, nasty, or anything negative.





That's pretty much where i am. I don't think i could ever let go of women sexually. I do have very erotic thoughts about men, but they normally just include me giving oral, or receiving anal sex. I don't find men attractive, in the same sense that i do women. ( that's possibly a "duh..." statement) The point is that its really only about sex for me with respect to men. I was active with men when i was younger, then with a woman for a long time. Now divorced for 4 years, i haven't been with men. I constantly think about it. I am unsure i want to become active with men again. when i do fantasize about men, masturbate, then climax, i generally get thoughts of disgust and low self esteem(i also had those thoughts when younger and after being with a guy that made me cum, if i didn't cum, i usually didn't experience those types of thoughts). But the thoughts and fantasies always return. I've never had those types of thoughts with or after being with women
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Re: I Don't Know but I do know

Unread postby Sidney111 » 28 April 2019, 23:26

Similar situation here. It all started years ago while watching straight porn and subtly admiring other guys penises. Over time I developed a taste for certain penis angles as they penetrated women, then for particular male performers with bodies and cocks I enjoyed. Then came transgender porn, which made me so hot I would fap to it for hours on end. It became evident to me over time that my gay desires were simply physical as I don't yearn for the emotional side of men or TS performers, only their reproductive equipment. I've still never touched a cock other than my own, but I can tell you that the first weiner I get my mouth on (if I ever do) is going to remember my enthusiasm as long as they live! Anyhow.... I like dicks.... And balls. Lol
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Re: I Don't Know but I do know

Unread postby Eryx » 29 April 2019, 12:49

That's actually pretty common and nothing to worry about. Maybe your best bets would be to date a girl who's into an open relationship, so you can enjoy your interests, or dating a transvestite, which would probably be the best of both worlds for you.
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