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I like knowing I’m “the girl” when having sex. Anyone else?

Unread postby Rym2018 » 22 March 2020, 16:13

So I love bottoming but I don’t get physical pleasure from being penetrated in and of it self. I’ve read about bottoms having anal orgasms and how many are able to cum “hands free,” but I always have to jack off during sex get pleasure. My pleasure is 100% psychological. I derive great pleasure from knowing I’m being used by someone stronger and bigger for their own pleasure. And for some reason, I get really turned on knowing I’m assuming “the girl’s” role in sex. I even act more effeminate during sex, although I’m very “manly” in public. Does anyone else feel the same way?

I know many bottoms deride being compared to “the girl” during sex. This post is not meant to offend anyone. If it does I apologize. But this is how I feel and what I enjoy, and was wondering if anyone else feels the same.
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Unread postby Marmaduke » 22 March 2020, 16:23

I think perhaps you use sex, and the intrinsically open and vulnerable moment that brings, to allow yourself to explore arbitrary gender boundaries in ways you would otherwise not be confident or comfortable enough to do outside of the bedroom.
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Re: I like knowing I’m “the girl” when having sex. Anyone else?

Unread postby Rym2018 » 22 March 2020, 16:41

Marmaduke wrote:I think perhaps you use sex, and the intrinsically open and vulnerable moment that brings, to allow yourself to explore arbitrary gender boundaries in ways you would otherwise not be confident or comfortable enough to do outside of the bedroom.


I think you’re on point. The pleasure I experience is perhaps the feeling of being “on the other side” of that arbitrary gender boundary. Never thought about it that way.
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Unread postby planetguy » 27 March 2020, 10:40

I am a bottom, and I prefer being a total bottom, essentially a "girl" in a sexual encounter. I've always gotten immense physical pleasure from being penetrated. Physically and psychologically its my sex of choice. I even used to take sudafed before having sex because it made it so I couldn't get erect and it made bottoming even more pleasurable. The problem I've faced over the years is finding partners who were total tops. It seems like most guys want to give oral as part of the encounter, and I just want to bottom.
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