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I'm new to bottoming and I'm super unsure of how to clean myself

Unread postby saltbased » 19 February 2020, 17:02

I've never been (properly) fucked before, but I do play with a dildo from time to time. I'm going to have my (kinda) first experience with bottoming in a few weeks. I have reservations about actually cleaning out right. A bit nasty topic, sorry.

First of all I very probably have some kind of an undiagnosed IBS which sucks. In the last few months I've introduced proper fiber in my diet and started to eat healthier which has done wonders for my bowel movements. Still not ideal though.

Anyways, I start playing with my ass after having bm. I've douched for many times and I've learned that I really can't handle water any more than about 1 ounce without it going into the sigmoid and introducing loose stool and fecal bits. This is a very little amount isn't it`? Is it too little and I'm just confused? I get into fucking myself for a few minutes and cum. Almost immediately after I feel the need to empty my bowels. I've read this is normal behaviour and that there shouldn't be any fecal matter actually coming out, only lube and mucus. I properly poop though after trying for a bit. What's the deal with that then?

Also, to get nastier, after I've douched and checked I'm clean, if I squat and finger myself in a way that it feels like pooping, after a few minutes I actually will get myself to poop. What is that then?? Is it possible to relax too much and actually push poop out of the sigmoid?

I have no idea what I'm doing. I never feel truly clean. I've had an accident playing with myself only once, but my sessions are very brief. I'm scared if I get fucked for a longer time that there'll be an accident.
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Re: I'm new to bottoming and I'm super unsure of how to clean myself

Unread postby Subra » 19 February 2020, 18:56

The rectum is usually pretty clean for something that has shit passing through it. That's because shit doesn't sit in your rectum until it's ready to come out, and you'll know it's there because that's the feeling of needing to shit. Even the largest penis in the world can't penetrate deeper than your rectum. The only way you're accidentally shitting on it, is if you knew you needed the toilet.

To be on the safe side, I only ever instigate anal if I know I've just crapped that day or the day before so I'll be empty. You shouldn't douche because it can destroy the mucus membranes of the rectum and intestines. These are important for your health and take a long time to heal. The crap that comes out after you're done with the dildo is what was deeper in your intestines. Stimulating the rectum will cause your intestines to start moving stuff along quicker. What little shit was waiting to exit behind the rectum will be pushed forwards, but like you said this only happens when you're on the toilet straining your asshole. You don't typically push during sex because you're focussed on remaining relaxed.
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