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Unread postby okayfer » 20 November 2019, 22:41

I want to tell what happens with me. Sometimes I feel very bad because I would like to rape a man. I am a gay man and I am 29 years old, I like sex scenes where a man is forced to have sex with another man and sometimes where women dominate a man; in fact, it makes me angry that they find many scenes of women in this situation and very few scenes of men, but well, things that happen.

Every time I see a man in the street and manages to get my attention, preferably heterosexual, I can't help seeing two parts. If it comes from in front of me, the first thing I see is the part where the penis is, I imagine how it should have it, I observe the movements that it performs as if it were in slow motion, seeing the bulge and the folds of the pants, at least little by little they move in every step that he takes, or how he is comfortable if he is sitting, I observe that area with all the detail that I am allowed. If the man is on his back, I see his buttocks, I imagine how it should be seen with nothing, the swaying if he is walking excites me too much.

In both cases, I imagine it feels like being able to rape that man, that he will feel subjecting him to my will, taking away his manhood, making fun of him while this happens; These are things that really make me very hot.

But not any man, but someone with certain specifications. I would like to do it to someone who really is a man in the full extent of the word, that is, to someone masculine, muscular, who is a challenge. Homosexuals are almost not so attractive to me, because deep down I think they might like them, but a straight man, ufff .. I feel it would be the glory to do it.

I would love to touch a muscular and defenseless man, that is, he is aware of what is happening but has little strength to defend himself. What I like about this idea is being able to be the first man to go through that male body, that virgin body not covered by the hands of another man. I would love to abuse your body, touching every part of it, your abs, your pecs, biting your lips and ears, touching, licking your legs, penis and buttocks. Open and feel the hot male in the ass.

To make this helpless I would like to use some type of drug that inhibits much of its strength, but still has little left to defend itself, or at least try; Alcohol could also be an excellent ally.

My favorite prey would be a heterosexual man or exclusively active gay boy, with a muscular body or carved by the Greek gods.
I would love to see how he begs me to stop, how he tries to defend himself so that he is not abused, how he defends his manhood until the last moment, moans of anger, attempts of coup, how he cries when he is touching his body or penetrating him, as he asks me to stop me, know that he is an unattainable man for me and have him at my feet, doing what I want, just blows my head.

I think my biggest fantasy would be to dominate, rape, a superhero, for example, Superman. Imagine a powerful man at your feet, at your mercy, it must be the most delicious thing in the world.

I know I'm wrong for wanting to do this, I control myself a lot to never have to be in this situation, but it's a fantasy that I want to share and I don't know, I don't feel so alone
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Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 20 November 2019, 23:04

I guess it’s true what Trump said; there literally are rapists at the border.

As a progressive Mexican-American who hates Trump, I can’t believe I’m saying this but...BUILD THE WALL!
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Re: I want to rape a man

Unread postby okayfer » 20 November 2019, 23:23

poolerboy0077 wrote:I guess it’s true what Trump said; there literally are rapists at the border.

As a progressive Mexican-American who hates Trump, I can’t believe I’m saying this but...BUILD THE WALL!



ammmm yeeeah but... I have my papers in order and I can enter and leave the country legally without any problem. The wall won't stop me; in fact, last Christmas I was in NYC
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Unread postby Brenden » 20 November 2019, 23:31

Seek professional help. Maybe chemical castration is right for you.
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Re: I want to rape a man

Unread postby Derek » 20 November 2019, 23:47

I wonder if straight rapists think of it in those terms. Like, if you rape a man, you're stealing his manhood, but if you rape a woman, you're stealing her... virtue, I guess. And that's what makes it satisfying for the rapist because they need to wield power over someone in a way that degrades them and causes them pain. Maybe the reason why rape is so widespread in environments like prison is because the pathology easily crosses the boundaries of ordinary sexuality. In fact, raping a man might suit the pathology better because it represents an even greater violation of power and gender dynamics.

Anyway. Therapy is a probably a place to start.
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Unread postby mxguy01 » 21 November 2019, 00:00

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Re: I want to rape a man

Unread postby Brasileiro » 21 November 2019, 09:47

There is probably something behind the urge to be able to dominate. I would not be surprised it comes from a situation of being a victim of tirant or very strict parents.
You want to feel powerful but there are roads towards that that do not include harming someone else.


On the other hand, the fantasy is not that uncommon and there are people who have the opposite fantasy (being victim of rape) and it would not be impossible to set something up, but it would be play and not real.
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Re: I want to rape a man

Unread postby René » 21 November 2019, 12:33

Do you actually feel like you want to rape someone, or is it more just a fantasy that turns you on?

If it's the latter, that doesn't mean you're ill or immoral. :) It's pretty common, and there is actually quite a bit of gay porn catering to such fantasies.

But if you feel like you really might hurt an unconsenting victim, you need to see a mental-health professional ASAP.
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Unread postby GearFetTwinkRomance » 21 November 2019, 14:16

I had a much better impression about guys from Mexiko and I don't think, walls make a lot of sense. They'd better spend them funds on crime prevention ...okay, Trump might mean just this in plans to build that wall. Dunno.

To okayfer: Make an appointment at a good therapist's place. Many cities will offer special training programs on how to not become a sexual offender. To rely on self control only, could lead to future problems possibly.

True, one can find such fantasy role play matter quite a bit, and there seem to be a lot of guys out there, into some type of fantasies that go down that lane. I never understood how come. I'm kind of disenchanted reading of such interests in people's profiles on gay connection websites, I catch myself a wondering, if it's the Roundup (glyphosat) residues in the food or something.

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Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 21 November 2019, 17:53

Derek wrote:I wonder if straight rapists think of it in those terms. Like, if you rape a man, you're stealing his manhood, but if you rape a woman, you're stealing her... virtue, I guess. And that's what makes it satisfying for the rapist because they need to wield power over someone in a way that degrades them and causes them pain. Maybe the reason why rape is so widespread in environments like prison is because the pathology easily crosses the boundaries of ordinary sexuality. In fact, raping a man might suit the pathology better because it represents an even greater violation of power and gender dynamics.

Anyway. Therapy is a probably a place to start.

Oh Christ. Lay off the Brownmiller and Freud.
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Re: I want to rape a man

Unread postby Derek » 21 November 2019, 21:27

poolerboy0077 wrote:Oh Christ. Lay off the Brownmiller and Freud.

Those are two very different people.
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Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 22 November 2019, 01:13

Derek wrote:
poolerboy0077 wrote:Oh Christ. Lay off the Brownmiller and Freud.

Those are two very different people.

The former criticizes the latter insofar as his purported oversight on rape but they both do what you’re doing here which psychoanalyzing sexual actors. The idea that rape is an intimidation tactic to keep women in their place needlessly overcomplicates the phenomenon and is just nonsense. It would mean that men would be happy for their mothers and sisters to be raped because it helps them stay in power as a gender. Occam’s razor is helpful here. Men will try to pay for sex, persuade for sex, catfish for sex...but won’t try to take it away by force? Anything that people will want some will try to steal, and sex is no different. The only reason that straight forward rationale is hardly ever invoked by feminist theorists is the idea that this would be to excuse or justify this horrible byproduct of male sexuality, which is just nonsense that doesn’t follow.

This guy has a fantasy. It is a rare fantasy? I don’t know. I do know most people have murderous fantasies all the time but that doesn’t mean they act on it. This guy just has no sense of keeping twisted fantasies to himself. However I stand by my call for erecting a wall. Moat with alligators and all.
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Unread postby Derek » 22 November 2019, 01:30

Brownmiller's theory of rape isn't based on psychoanalysis at all. Her idea is that it's part of a conscious effort to terrorize and oppress women. In other words, she sees it as a purely sociological phenomenon. If I believed her explanation, I wouldn't have talked about the pathology of rapists and why it suits the selection of male victims.
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Unread postby GearFetTwinkRomance » 22 November 2019, 05:26

Probably much more simple.

- People with Mister Hyde Type of issues.
- People with a mannerism deviance or social deficit of sorts
- Roundup, Mercury & likewise food residues
- Compulsion to compensate for weird shyness, strange inhibitions
- possible fetal brain damage from mother smoking, drinking, doing drugs while pregnant
- higher percentage of Neanderthal gene remnants
- People that don't give a shit
- Sociopath, no interest in basic human rights, social conventions or how their chosen object would feel
about it
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- To have the respectfulness of a slush potato :rolleyes:
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Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 22 November 2019, 18:39

Derek wrote:Brownmiller's theory of rape isn't based on psychoanalysis at all. Her idea is that it's part of a conscious effort to terrorize and oppress women. In other words, she sees it as a purely sociological phenomenon. If I believed her explanation, I wouldn't have talked about the pathology of rapists and why it suits the selection of male victims.

Well, the pathology of a certain type of rape, namely forcible/aggregated which from what I can recall is the least common. I don’t see how this would apply to instances of statutory rape, raping someone after roofing them, etc. The problem with the idea that rape is some kind of power trip and using the existence of aggression as evidence of the theory is the fact that sex itself often manifests in dom/sub ways. The aggression in rape could very well be a way to simply play off those instinctive sexual vices that most of us have.
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Re: I want to rape a man

Unread postby Eryx » 25 November 2019, 05:24

OP is fucked in the head. Maybe BDSM? I don't get it. He likes to just think they're straight, he's not even sure. This thread is trash. Why are humans so fucking weird...?
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Re: I want to rape a man

Unread postby kenzie_matt » 25 November 2019, 12:26

Dude.... I don't like people who make snap judgements, honestly don't. Most of us are prone to it if we're honest, but tend to keep it to ourselves. However, what you're describing here transcends some kinky foreplay. You're talking about actually raping people and you seem to have identified your target audience to boot. But going into such detail, I feel you've opened the floor to judgement and seem to be expecting it. If you aren't..... surprise, you're going to get a lot of it around here with this sort of thread.

A lot of gay guys fantasize about hooking up with a straight guy, if only because of the thrill of the chase and knowing that it's unlikely that any other guy has been there etc.

I honestly think you should look at getting professional help - what you're describing here is extremely dangerous. I would ask you how you would feel if the tables were turned and you were drugged and raped, but part of me thinks you'd likely enjoy it.

In short - get professional help. If you are reading/watching things that are fueling this fantasy, stop.
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