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If you identify as top or bottom, do you ever switch?

Unread postby uncut7in » 4 June 2019, 20:53

I guess I must be 100% top, as I haven't bottomed since 1981! I so enjoy fucking bottom guys, that I'm never tempted to switch. What's your experience?
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Unread postby Iamjava » 4 June 2019, 21:36

i swap for my fiance. since hes my first anal partner im not sure how true that would be for casual.
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Unread postby erti » 4 June 2019, 21:37

Since I'm a girl I'm usually bottom xD but I wouldn't mind putting on a strap on and forcefully fuck a man or a women.
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Unread postby Eryx » 4 June 2019, 21:41

I don't turn it down when asked, but if I get to choose, then I always choose to bottom. Luckily for me, my boyfriend doesn't like bottoming at all so I don't even think about it much.
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Unread postby Iamjava » 4 June 2019, 21:47

my fiance and i have that relationship. its very fortunate. :)

erti wrote:Since I'm a girl I'm usually bottom xD but I wouldn't mind putting on a strap on and forcefully fuck a man or a women.


why does a strapon sound hot? :squint:
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Unread postby erti » 4 June 2019, 21:54

IDK you tell me. Personally I rather have the dick for bottoming for anal than a dildo from a woman. Same with in the vagina with a penis... However, I'm not oppose to try a double ended dildo or a strap on.
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Unread postby Iamjava » 4 June 2019, 22:07

it was a random thought from a top lol. real dick is always better :heart:
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Unread postby Shaved-Nudist » 4 June 2019, 22:10

I'm generally a bottom, however I will top if the other guy wants me to.
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Unread postby mxguy01 » 4 June 2019, 23:21

When I bottom it's generally because I just enjoy sex for the most part. Not that I'm not quite a bit fussy about my tops.

When I want to top, it's because I'm super attracted to a guy, both in mind and body. Although a hot body goes a long ways all by itself.
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Unread postby Jryski » 5 June 2019, 02:11

I prefer to bottom but with certain guys I feel like a top. Plus guys ask me to top sometimes and I'll do it.
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Unread postby rogonandi » 5 June 2019, 18:53

I like topping more, but I do bottom if I’m in the mood. My husband is mostly bottom, so it works out. :)
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Unread postby Bli6485 » 7 June 2019, 04:14

I identify as a top. Two separate occasions i was convinced otherwise. But both times the guys were extremely sexy and very persuasive. I was also really fucked up both times. Ive considered it sober and i just cant for some reason
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Unread postby ShutUpAndBeHappy » 7 June 2019, 22:30

I've always been a top, but it's not necessarily because of preference. I was always insecure to have someone down there.

The last guy I messed around with, after topping him all night, he asked if he could top me in the morning. We were about to shower anyway, so I decide to bite the pillow and let him. First time for me.

OH. WOW. I can't even begin to describe it. I got way more into it than I thought I would, and it was so awesome.

I've taken a break from hooking up, but I would definitely let a guy top me, as long as his wiener wasn't as big as mine. I'm no size queen, thank you very much.
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Unread postby Danny88 » 30 June 2019, 22:30

I usually bottom, occasional top for the right guy but always prefer it inside me.
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Re: If you identify as top or bottom, do you ever switch?

Unread postby NobodySpecial » 2 July 2019, 17:07

I never liked to bottom. The last time was 1985. I did bottom back then because I was naive and listened to guys who brainwashed me into thinking only hung guys could be tops because "big cocks glide, small cocks poke". One guy kind of pissed me off because he said he would let me try, but he had to go first as then I would know how to fuck. Once he got off, then all of a sudden he said "I didn't realize you were so big." What BS. Way too many older guys (at least back then) liked to get a piece of young ass and would say anything to get it. About two years into my gay sex life, an older man said he would let me fuck him. He had a real sad story of betrayal by a younger lover. I won't go into that right now. Anyway, up to this point, I figured gay sex was about a life of misery about getting your mouth or ass banged -- perhaps because of the majority population was right about telling us that it was unnatural, etc. I was attracted to MEN's body hair, muscles, masculinity, etc. I also just wanted their love. I felt cursed that sex with men was so miserable...

Anyway, during my first top experience, I realized just how wonderful gay sex was. I was never a jack hammer kind of top, I enjoyed relishing every moment I was inside a man. I felt during those moments that we were one, and that I was appreciated and loved even if it was just a one time thing.

My first was with a guy who though he wasn't attractive, I owe him a bit of gratitude. I hope he finally found a lover who loved him and would not use him. He deserved better. He didn't judge me for not being hung, etc. That night I earned my wings.

I cannot top now for health reasons. The last time I took a blue pill, it started my tinnitus (ringing in the ear). I cannot afford to go deaf, so I have let it go. I just don't stay hard. Strangely after dealing with West Nile last fall, I have another embarrassing problem -- When I j/o what comes out seems to be urine -- not cum. I've tried to find online what could have caused that. I don't know, but it so embarrassing. I am NOT into water sports. I would be ashamed to have my partner see such. This problem started after my bout with West Nile.

My partner deserves better, but he sticks by me. We have been together about 16+ years. Yes, I miss topping so much. I do still play with his ass when I think he is in the mood. That being said, I have learned just how much love trumps even the best, hottest sex. Sex and desire brings people together, but love is what keeps you bound to each other. I'd give anything to function again -- except anything that would cause me to loose my guy. Another man's love is the pinnacle of life.
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