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Unread postby Gayboy69Lover » 1 June 2019, 13:03

Hi All,

I'm a celebrate gay guy who has never had any interest in women ever I just love to insert my own fingers my anus but it's very very painful at times and at times my anus does not fully open so I use soap to make it open. Is it safe to insert fingers into the anus? Will this cause be any problems?
Tear in the anus then it I could need to go to hospital. I don't want to do that.

Since I have been doing this I can't hold my (toliet) in I have to go if you can understand what I mean. I worry about about this I don't want to ask anyone about this because I am shy what other things are save to insert I have heard people talk about butt plugs before.
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Unread postby Iamjava » 1 June 2019, 14:40

try lotion or another lubricant.
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Unread postby Gayboy69Lover » 1 June 2019, 15:32

Is it safe to do?
Will it cause any injury?
I love doing it
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Unread postby Iamjava » 1 June 2019, 16:24

my fiance and i used body lotion all the time. im sure that there are lubricants on the market targetted to anal sex, as well. i would further suggest you properly douche if you cant hold your shit in.
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Unread postby Brenden » 1 June 2019, 16:45

Gayboy69Lover wrote:Since I have been doing this I can't hold my (toliet) in I have to go if you can understand what I mean.

Are you saying that since you started doing this you've been unable to keep from shitting yourself? Or that while doing it you feel the need to shit? Or that your fingers come out dirty?

Iamjava wrote:i would further suggest you properly douche if you cant hold your shit in.

Douching is not healthy and will make problems worse in the long run.
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Unread postby Iamjava » 1 June 2019, 16:55

i understand that there are issues in regards to health. in my experience it is not necessary to do everytime, but an occasional cleanse is fine and lasts a few days.

edit: i guess to clarify im not a bottom and dont bother since i no longer live with my fiance. when we did live with each i always did the full cleanse: laxitives and douche. it helped to do that occasionaly, and i never had issues.
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Unread postby Gayboy69Lover » 1 June 2019, 18:39

Name or brand of the lotion.
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Unread postby Iamjava » 1 June 2019, 18:54

it was some cocoa butter lotion. i forgot the namd but its just skin lotion.
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Unread postby Gayboy69Lover » 1 June 2019, 20:04

Since I have been doing it I can't hold the shit in if I have to go I have to go or I'll end up shiting myself before I could hold it in and wait for ages. I have seen medical forms that suggest the rectom muscle has become loose due to me inserting fingers.


If douching is not a healthy option then what should I do?

This is why I'm asking should I stop putting my fingers in? Is it safe to do will it cause any damage to my anus?

I have seen a sex show on TV a guy said he has had so much anal with his partner he now needs a clostomy bag fitted :( I enjoy doing this so much. It is much safer than going bare back
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Unread postby Iamjava » 1 June 2019, 20:21

im conflicted on that information.

the best two options you have for information is seeing a healthcare professional and research via the internet.

a proctologist or gastrointerologist would be best, i believe. i know youre shy, but trust me: these drs have seen and heard everything. (yes, that includes embarrassing episodes of people losing foreign objects in their ass.)

its a serious issue you have and theyll take it serious. so go ahead. theyre there to help and not laugh at you. :)
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Unread postby Gayboy69Lover » 1 June 2019, 20:33

I don't have the guts to go
I've never used butt plugs fearing they might get stuck inside.
Never mind I will keep doing it and hope for the best
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Unread postby Iamjava » 1 June 2019, 20:46

ok. did some research. depending on the complexity of your condition, simple surgery on the anus would correct the incontinence. but, and i stress this, NOWHERE does it say it gets better on its own. in fact, it may only get more severe. theoreticly since its a muscle, targeted steroids would help treat the prolapse, but im not a dr.

if shitting everytime you get the urge is something you can live with, then more power to you. however, id very strongly recomend at least consulting a doctor. i mean, you were able to talk to us. the difference is a doctor may be able to better help you. oh, and he could lose his license and a lot of money if he doesnt treat you seriously. (hippa and all)
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Unread postby Brenden » 1 June 2019, 20:50

Gayboy69Lover wrote:Since I have been doing it I can't hold the shit in if I have to go I have to go or I'll end up shiting myself before I could hold it in and wait for ages. I have seen medical forms that suggest the rectom muscle has become loose due to me inserting fingers.


If douching is not a healthy option then what should I do?

This is why I'm asking should I stop putting my fingers in? Is it safe to do will it cause any damage to my anus?

I have seen a sex show on TV a guy said he has had so much anal with his partner he now needs a clostomy bag fitted :( I enjoy doing this so much. It is much safer than going bare back

It sounds like you’ve already damaged your anus.
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Unread postby Gayboy69Lover » 1 June 2019, 20:58

This condition does not get better on its own
I was hoping it would. This because of me inserting fingers?

Do other gay men suffer from this anyone on here do bareback or inserting fingers? Have you had any problems like this. If I did find man and wanted to do bareback is it painful? How long does the pain last. Do you have problems shitting afterwards.

Everytime I finger and a few hours later I get wind maybe the fingering causes air. One day I did not finger I had no issues of wind.
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Unread postby Gayboy69Lover » 1 June 2019, 21:03

Brenden wrote:It sounds like you’ve already damaged your anus.

No don't say that.
I only insert 1 finger I've never used butt plugs fearing damage.

I've never had a partner fearing I would be tempted to go bareback and he would also want to go bareback with me.
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby rxxli » 1 June 2019, 21:42

My god, you are a grown man, get some balls and go to a fucking doctor.
If you can't hold in your shit, you need to go to a professional not talk about it on a forum.

And before inserting something into your anus get some fucking lube. Go to the nearest grocery store and buy any water based lubricant. It will be better than nothing or using god knows what. A butt plug is a sex toy and is designed to go into your butt without causing damage. Use lube, relax and insert. Jesus chirst, 15 year olds know how to do that.
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Unread postby Iamjava » 1 June 2019, 21:56

i very much take offense to your post.

when it comes to sex (and i mean certain acts, etc.) i am quite igorant myself. i was 25 the first time i had ever had anal intercourse and i hadnt even considered lube until my fiance (my first and only partner in this area) educated me on its use. in fact i have never even considered this issue until now which is why i was compelled to do the research. (the reason it never came up in the first place for me is because i am one of the 36% of men who find it intensely painful.)

now, be a good sport and refrain from being an ass to a person who only asks for help.


as far as anal sex goes, the pain depends on the person. from the sounds of it, pain would not be an issue as much as the plunging effect.
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Unread postby Gayboy69Lover » 1 June 2019, 22:00

rxxli wrote:My god, you are a grown man, get some balls and go to a fucking doctor.
If you can't hold in your shit, you need to go to a professional not talk about it on a forum.

And before inserting something into your anus get some fucking lube. Go to the nearest grocery store and buy any water based lubricant. It will be better than nothing or using god knows what. A butt plug is a sex toy and is designed to go into your butt without causing damage. Use lube, relax and insert. Jesus chirst, 15 year olds know how to do that.


It's not easy going to a doctor for a sexual problem it's not like going to the doctors for a common cold. Gay men don't like going to the doctors for sexual problems what if the judge me for and say you have caused this by being gay? It's not a choice being gay it's biological it's in the genes.

Try and understand we live in a homophobic world gay men are regularly attacked made fun of. Many gay men don't go out with their partners fearing attacks or comments in any country around the world. Even today gay men are in happy heterosexual marriages just hide their homosexually from the world. Can anybody deny this?
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Unread postby Victor_Laszlo » 1 June 2019, 22:12

Where are you from? If you don't mind sharing.

Just to be clear. No one can diagnose you over the internet. If you are actually worried you will need to see a doctor.

But none of what you describe sounds normal.

Welcome to the forums though. :)
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Unread postby Iamjava » 1 June 2019, 22:20

well put!

homophobia does exist; however, anal prolapse affects a small portion of the population and actualy, it turns out, the majority of the people with this condition are elderly women. in fact, a woman is about as likely to suffer from it as a man.

further, there are several other causes of the condition including disease.

does that help at all? (again, im not a doctor. i am simply trying to alleviate your fears of one.)
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