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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby rxxli » 1 June 2019, 23:23

Gayboy69Lover wrote:
rxxli wrote:My god, you are a grown man, get some balls and go to a fucking doctor.
If you can't hold in your shit, you need to go to a professional not talk about it on a forum.

And before inserting something into your anus get some fucking lube. Go to the nearest grocery store and buy any water based lubricant. It will be better than nothing or using god knows what. A butt plug is a sex toy and is designed to go into your butt without causing damage. Use lube, relax and insert. Jesus chirst, 15 year olds know how to do that.


It's not easy going to a doctor for a sexual problem it's not like going to the doctors for a common cold. Gay men don't like going to the doctors for sexual problems what if the judge me for and say you have caused this by being gay? It's not a choice being gay it's biological it's in the genes.

Try and understand we live in a homophobic world gay men are regularly attacked made fun of. Many gay men don't go out with their partners fearing attacks or comments in any country around the world. Even today gay men are in happy heterosexual marriages just hide their homosexually from the world. Can anybody deny this?

Of course its not easy going to a doctor. But you really should.
And this is not exactly a gay problem. You can like inserting objects into your anus even if you are straight. Do you think that straight men never get fingered by their girlfriends? It happens.

In any case, a doctor has a professional obligation to help you.

Iamjava wrote:i very much take offense to your post.

when it comes to sex (and i mean certain acts, etc.) i am quite igorant myself. i was 25 the first time i had ever had anal intercourse and i hadnt even considered lube until my fiance (my first and only partner in this area) educated me on its use. in fact i have never even considered this issue until now which is why i was compelled to do the research. (the reason it never came up in the first place for me is because i am one of the 36% of men who find it intensely painful.)

now, be a good sport and refrain from being an ass to a person who only asks for help.


as far as anal sex goes, the pain depends on the person. from the sounds of it, pain would not be an issue as much as the plunging effect.

I wasn't being an ass. I was being direct. I will not sugar coat anything that I say.

Well then stop being ignorant. "I am ignorant" is not a defense. Educate yourself.
And I had sex for the first time when I was 25 as well. But I definitely knew what lube is. Do I know everything? Definitely not, but at least I try to familiarize with stuff that I don't know and I should. And you definitely should know to use lube when having anal sex. That's one of the things that you need, the other... condoms. Sure that one is optional, but only if you know what you are getting yourself into. In any case you should learn the basics on how to have sex before you have it. Otherwise you shouldn't be doing it. Sure you can never know everything before, but at least the basics.
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Iamjava » 1 June 2019, 23:46

i aree with you. not everyone thinks the same way, though. the guy was ignorant and is paying the price for it. the objective now is to educate not humiliate.

come to think of it, there are people that prefer not to use lube..
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Capt._Trips » 2 June 2019, 00:02

Just saying lube or not. The guy should not be shitting himself after inserting a finger. That's not normal. And lube may be one of his least concerns at the moment.

OP: see a doctor and explain your experience. No need to get into details. Just be straight forward. As is mentioned doctors have seen and heard some insane things. So you really don't need to be embarrassed. Your health is more important then your pride.
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Gayboy69Lover » 2 June 2019, 02:52

Victor_Laszlo wrote:Where are you from? If you don't mind sharing.

Just to be clear. No one can diagnose you over the internet. If you are actually worried you will need to see a doctor.

But none of what you describe sounds normal.

Welcome to the forums though. :)


If it's normal then I'm ok but others have said I may have damaged my anus. It doesn't feel damaged I never bleed or anything.
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Gayboy69Lover » 2 June 2019, 03:04

Victor_Laszlo wrote:OP: see a doctor and explain your experience. No need to get into details. Just be straight forward. As is mentioned doctors have seen and heard some insane things. So you really don't need to be embarrassed. Your health is more important then your pride.


I've heard doctors also use the finger inserting technique? What if the doctor finds an injury related to gay sex it would be very awkward if he asks how did you get this injury? If it was a women with that issue from a hetrosexual man then this would not be an issue hetrosexual couples blame the rise of anal sex on porn. Gay man are often mocked most heterosexuals think it's all gay men do this is why I choose to remain celebrate nobody can point fingers at me.
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Gayboy69Lover » 2 June 2019, 03:10

Iamjava wrote:well put!
5omophobia does exist; however, anal prolapse affects a small portion of the population and actualy, it turns out, the majority of the people with this condition are elderly women. in fact, a woman is about as likely to suffer from it as a man.

further, there are several other causes of the condition including disease.

does that help at all? (again, im not a doctor. i am simply trying to alleviate your fears of one.)


If a women suffers from this problem it's not even an issue. Lots of heterosexual couples try anal at least once but it's considered a gay thing. This is the issue people have a lewd idea when it comes to gay sex.
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Iamjava » 2 June 2019, 03:22

see my post above your last.
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Brenden » 2 June 2019, 08:24

Gayboy69Lover wrote:
Brenden wrote:It sounds like you’ve already damaged your anus.

No don't say that.
I only insert 1 finger I've never used butt plugs fearing damage.

I've never had a partner fearing I would be tempted to go bareback and he would also want to go bareback with me.

But you're saying you're incontinent. If you can no longer hold your shit in with your sphincter, then it's damaged.
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby SteveIsNotMe » 2 June 2019, 09:33

Gayboy69Lover wrote:Hi All,

I'm a celebrate gay guy who has never had any interest in women ever I just love to insert my own fingers my anus but it's very very painful at times and at times my anus does not fully open so I use soap to make it open. Is it safe to insert fingers into the anus? Will this cause be any problems?
Tear in the anus then it I could need to go to hospital. I don't want to do that.

Since I have been doing this I can't hold my (toliet) in I have to go if you can understand what I mean. I worry about about this I don't want to ask anyone about this because I am shy what other things are save to insert I have heard people talk about butt plugs before.


Hi there,

Inserting your own finger into your anus is still fine for me, but for the first timer, perhaps you need a slower approach. You need to slowly put your finger in (Trim your fingernail to prevent mini cut in your anus).
A small cut/tear could cause infection and painful blister.
Of course you need a lube. Silicon based is suggested and please do it in your bathroom. Do not use soap as lube (Soap can cause dryness in your anus, thus could cause irritation. Soap also could affect the floral population in your rectum too)

For those first timer, anus can return back to its original tightness in no time. So i guess you need to loose or stretch it. Butt plug could be use to loose it, or use a dildo :D

Again remember to use lube, be patient, eat more fiber-based food. Drink water, avoid spicy food. ;)
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Gayboy69Lover » 2 June 2019, 13:30

SteveIsNotMe wrote:Hi there,

Inserting your own finger into your anus is still fine for me, but for the first timer, perhaps you need a slower approach. You need to slowly put your finger in (Trim your fingernail to prevent mini cut in your anus).
A small cut/tear could cause infection and painful blister.


My finger nails are cut if I do it slowly my asshole does not open I like to put it in quick go up and down fast this makes be rock hard and the I get a great feeling masterbating

SteveIsNotMe wrote:Of course you need a lube. Silicon based is suggested and please do it in your bathroom. Do not use soap as lube (Soap can cause dryness in your anus, thus could cause irritation. Soap also could affect the floral population in your rectum too)


I did not know soap could cause dryness in my ass if the soap is small coming to an end I put that up my ass then throw it away.

SteveIsNotMe wrote:For those first timer, anus can return back to its original tightness in no time.


My ass is loose I don't think it can be tight like it was before when I was a child I only want to know can this cause damage if I keep putting fingers in or will it be ok to keep doing it?

SteveIsNotMe wrote:So i guess you need to loose or stretch it. Butt plug could be use to loose it, or use a dildo :D
again remember to use lube, be patient, eat more fiber-based food. Drink water, avoid spicy food. ;)


Yeah I would love a big dildo up my ass but I fear injury I have problems now so it could get worse.
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Capt._Trips » 2 June 2019, 13:37

Gayboy69Lover wrote:
Victor_Laszlo wrote:Where are you from? If you don't mind sharing.

Just to be clear. No one can diagnose you over the internet. If you are actually worried you will need to see a doctor.

But none of what you describe sounds normal.

Welcome to the forums though. :)


If it's normal then I'm ok but others have said I may have damaged my anus. It doesn't feel damaged I never bleed or anything.


No, you misunderstood. I said it's not normal. But your way over thinking all of this.

Just tell the doctor you've been having problems after taking a huge shit. Lol.

But in my opinion yo shouldn't put anything else in your ass til you see a doctor.

Good luck.

Edit. Oh my God do not fuck yourself with soap. Just don't. It's not meant to enter the body.
Have you ever looked at any safe sex manuals or websites.
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Iamjava » 2 June 2019, 15:52

victor, that post made my morning for some reason! :lol:

so. you use soap. you shove your finger in hard. and finaly you tell us you swivel your finger madly around.

1. dont use soap in your colon DAILY. you do actualy need that bacteria, and as stated it drys you up.
2. shoving anything in fast with dry skin will cause trauma.
3. dont press on the walls of your colon too hard. theres a medical condition i saw (but didnt investigate) that causes incontinence due to overextending the colon.
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 2 June 2019, 18:40

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Gayboy69Lover wrote:
Brenden wrote:It sounds like you’ve already damaged your anus.

No don't say that.
I only insert 1 finger I've never used butt plugs fearing damage.

I've never had a partner fearing I would be tempted to go bareback and he would also want to go bareback with me.

But you're saying you're incontinent. If you can no longer hold your shit in with your sphincter, then it's damaged.

Do you think he can sew it back up?
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Iamjava » 2 June 2019, 19:00

i hear sewing machines work. :P
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Gayboy69Lover » 2 June 2019, 22:04

Victor_Laszlo wrote:No, you misunderstood. I said it's not normal. But your way over thinking all of this.


Many gay people start off with fingering them selves then they move on to butt plugs then Dildo and finally the real thing Lol.

Victor_Laszlo wrote:Just tell the doctor you've been having problems after taking a huge shit. Lol.


When the doctor would check he find an injury in my case a tear or the hole being loose he would say are you having anal sex or are you inserting things in your anus that would be embarrassing.

Victor_Laszlo wrote:But in my opinion you shouldn't put anything else in your ass til you see a doctor.

Good luck.


I was eyeing up a cumumber Lol

Victor_Laszlo wrote:Edit. Oh my God do not fuck yourself with soap. Just don't. It's not meant to enter the body.
Have you ever looked at any safe sex manuals or websites.


Ok I will not use soap but it feels nice to have something up your ass. It makes cock so hard when I cum oh my the feeling is better than anything in this world.

This is safe sex if I did not care about being safe I would find a man a do bareback without a condom then the guy will cum in my ass.
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Iamjava » 2 June 2019, 22:34

safe is relative. in your case its unsafe to stick a finger in an anus with that problem.
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Capt._Trips » 2 June 2019, 22:48

Gayboy69Lover wrote:
Victor_Laszlo wrote:No, you misunderstood. I said it's not normal. But your way over thinking all of this.


Many gay people start off with fingering them selves then they move on to butt plugs then Dildo and finally the real thing Lol.

yes true. But they also have control of their sphincter. And aren't shitting themselves. That's not normal. But i can tell your just looking for approval and are gonna ignore everything else..
Victor_Laszlo wrote:Just tell the doctor you've been having problems after taking a huge shit. Lol.


When the doctor would check he find an injury in my case a tear or the hole being loose he would say are you having anal sex or are you inserting things in your anus that would be embarrassing.

the doctors you see are psychic? Obviously your health is not as important as your pride and you aren't too concerned. :wide-eyed:
Victor_Laszlo wrote:But in my opinion you shouldn't put anything else in your ass til you see a doctor.

Good luck.


I was eyeing up a cumumber Lol

Victor_Laszlo wrote:Edit. Oh my God do not fuck yourself with soap. Just don't. It's not meant to enter the body.
Have you ever looked at any safe sex manuals or websites.


Ok I will not use soap but it feels nice to have something up your ass. It makes cock so hard when I cum oh my the feeling is better than anything in this world.

This is safe sex if I did not care about being safe I would find a man a do bareback without a condom then the guy will cum in my ass.


how old are you if you don't mind sharing?

No, shoving random things up your ass is not safe sex. Of course no one is saying to just go barebacking strangers. But there are other options. As i said earlier, it's clear your just looking for approval. So just continue on your way.


relationships-sex-and-sexuality/how-to-practice-safe-sex-t83/

You should read that thread.
And just googling tips for safe anal play shows a plethora of articles and information.

I'm out cause you aren't going to listen. Just hope you stay safe and be careful.
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Jryski » 3 June 2019, 10:24

I have taken dicks up my ass thicker and longer than five of your fingers combined. A finger has nothing to do with it. Soap causes major irritation if thats what you're using to finger yourself. Not being able to hold in your shit after sticking 1 finger in isnt normal. Sounds like you somehow managed to inflict permanent damage on yourself and you need to see a doctor and have that checked out.

Everyone is trying to tell you this. That's not normal. That's not okay. You NEED to see a doctor.
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Re: Inserting things into the Anus

Unread postby Gayboy69Lover » 3 June 2019, 23:10

Iamjava wrote:victor, that post made my morning for some reason! :lol:

so. you use soap. you shove your finger in hard. and finaly you tell us you swivel your finger madly around.

1. dont use soap in your colon DAILY. you do actualy need that bacteria, and as stated it drys you up.
2. shoving anything in fast with dry skin will cause trauma.
3. dont press on the walls of your colon too hard. theres a medical condition i saw (but didnt investigate) that causes incontinence due to overextending the colon.


Tell me what can I stuff myself with. All u guys are doing is saying I can't do it.
I have lube now .

I will try and be careful when shoving. Sometimes when I'm inserting I'm screem ing AAA my ass AAA my ass I love the feeling I get it makes be hard as fuck
pressing I never even thought about I just want to get that feeling.

I also masterbate after doing anal because I am aroused Lots of my stuff comes out. Then my ass hurts after 10 mins. Then I get wind after that I'm fine
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