Is it possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Share stories, ask questions, get answers.

Is it possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Unread postby naskurnarah » 14 February 2019, 19:00

Hey

I am gay, and I am attracted to the male physique in general, but not to their dicks as such. I have given BJs to guys, but didn't find it very fulfilling. When I shared this to a gay friend of mine, he said he too did not like sucking dicks, or giving BJs initially, but started developing a liking for this over time. He is now crazy for dicks, and often begs me to let him give me a BJ.

Is there anyone else out here like me ? Has any of you felt the same ? Is there someone who didn't like sucking dicks initially, but developed a liking for it over a period of time ? Will I start liking it if I just keep at it ? Any suggestions ?

Regards,
Arun
naskurnarah
 
Posts: 17
+1s received: 8
Joined: 26 January 2019, 18:43
Country: India (in)

Re: Is it possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Unread postby Eryx » 14 February 2019, 19:47

These things change with time. I've had so many different fetishes and then they blew away, either because I acted on them or just because I lost interest. Topping/bottoming can change with time as well, while we grow up and how we feel about ourselves sexually. It's all for grabs in the sexual kingdom. Don't feel pressured to do what you don't want to, and don't repress what you do want to act on. Just have fun.
Image

Image Image

You are not entitled to your opinion. You are entitled to your informed opinion. No one is entitled to be ignorant.
— Harlan Ellison
User avatar
Eryx
 
Posts: 1392
+1s received: 518
Joined: 20 December 2012, 21:48
Location: Belo Horizonte, MG
Country: Brazil (br)

Re: Is it possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Unread postby mxguy01 » 14 February 2019, 21:01

Short answer is yes. Initially I was not into giving head that much. But I have to say, as I got better at it and seeing what it can do for your partner, that became the enjoyment in it for me. Oh, and then to have your BF flip you over and return the favor is pretty hot too.
Image

---
I love to travel but hate to arrive -- Albert Einstein
---
The only thing worse than an Did Not Finish (DNF) is an Did Not Start (DNS). ~~ Me
---
It is better to light one small candle than to curse the darkness. ~~ Chinese fortune cookie
User avatar
mxguy01
 
Posts: 3708
+1s received: 1810
Joined: 23 October 2017, 23:12
Location: NorCal
Country: United States (us)

Re: Is it possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Unread postby ajakes124 » 14 February 2019, 22:45

I reckon it depends who you’re giving head to. Like I don’t like it that much but with my partners and stuff over time, as our sex gets better with time, I like giving them head more and more just like how I am more open to other things. So it depends ;)
ajakes124
 
Posts: 38
+1s received: 15
Joined: 4 November 2018, 08:28

Re: Is it possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Unread postby Shaved-Nudist » 14 February 2019, 23:08

If it is a guy that I am attracted to then I am more willing to give oral sex to. Otherwise, I'm a bottom .
Try living nude!
User avatar
Shaved-Nudist
 
Posts: 279
+1s received: 119
Joined: 21 January 2019, 16:43
Location: N.E. Ohio
Country: United States (us)

Re: Is it possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Unread postby Stardust » 15 February 2019, 07:55

I suppose so, but don't feel pressured into liking it if you don't.
Image
User avatar
Stardust
 
Posts: 131
+1s received: 142
Joined: 9 January 2019, 01:43
Country: United Kingdom (gb)

Re: Is it possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Unread postby rogonandi » 15 February 2019, 08:53

It’s quite possible. Don’t force yourself, though.
People love to follow fools; they don't feel so alone then.

Image
User avatar
rogonandi
 
Posts: 1171
+1s received: 767
Joined: 12 May 2016, 10:02
Location: Ontario
Country: Canada (ca)

Re: Is it possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Unread postby Brasileiro » 15 February 2019, 13:33

You can grow into it or just like the one dick that is attached to the right person.. It is different for everybody.
Just because you are gay, does not automatically mean you like all dicks, or all sexual activities.
Some like this, others like that and some like it all, some just with their own partner, some with just anybody.
It is a very personal thing. Just do and have done what you want to.
Last edited by Brasileiro on 15 February 2019, 19:29, edited 1 time in total.
User avatar
Brasileiro
 
Posts: 278
+1s received: 76
Joined: 30 March 2016, 12:57

Re: Is it possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Unread postby mxguy01 » 15 February 2019, 16:55

Brasileiro wrote:... attached to the right person...


That's what does it for me.
Image

---
I love to travel but hate to arrive -- Albert Einstein
---
The only thing worse than an Did Not Finish (DNF) is an Did Not Start (DNS). ~~ Me
---
It is better to light one small candle than to curse the darkness. ~~ Chinese fortune cookie
User avatar
mxguy01
 
Posts: 3708
+1s received: 1810
Joined: 23 October 2017, 23:12
Location: NorCal
Country: United States (us)

Re: Is it possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 15 February 2019, 22:40

It’s like sashimi. It’s an acquired taste.
Blow: "Nowadays even Liam can release an album of his screechy vocals and it'll probably go #1..."
Ramzus: I can admit that I'm horny just about 24/7
homomorphism: I used to not think your name was deshay and that Erick was just being racist
Hunter: sometimes I think I was literally born to be a pornstar
User avatar
poolerboy0077
 
Posts: 7268
+1s received: 1429
Joined: 20 December 2012, 21:20
Country: United States (us)

Re: Is it possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Unread postby NobodySpecial » 15 February 2019, 23:14

The problem with labels is that it tries to define the individual. Truth is that sexuality is as varied as the grains of sand at a beach.

I'm really not attracted to cock at all. Rather I crave the secondary characteristics that can come from being male such as body hair, muscle, deep voice, broad shoulders beefy hands feet, legs, arms...

When I first started engaging in m2m sex, I was very unhappy and unfulfilled on many fronts. From the physical standpoint, early partners tried to convince me that because I wasn't hung (I;m just average) that I wouldn't be successful as a top. I'd hear comments like "big ones glide, smaller ones poke." I hated getting fucked, I disliked sucking on cock -- especially head bangers. With my religious upbringing, I wondered if the "sin" of homosexuality was that as much as homosexual desire leads us to want emotional and physical closeness to another man, that the sex would always be unsatisfactory to right down uncomfortable.

Then about 2 or 3 years into my m2m activities. (My first m2m encounter was when I was 21.5 years of age.), I finally met someone who would let me try topping. During the act, I didn't know if I was cumming, pissing, being born, dying or what. The overwhelming wonderful sensations were so powerful, that it is hard to put it to words. For the first time in my life, I felt total sexual, emotional, and spiritual fulfillment. For the first time, I finally "got" what makes m2m sex so desirable -- at least for me.

Then for a time, I tried being versatile thinking it was the only way to be fair -- even though I still had absolutely no enjoyment from having a penis inside me.

Then with the AIDS crisis, I wondered why I was still doing things I never really wanted to do. So I stopped the pretense, and just became a top.

It isn't about being "less gay" or "more masculine" than the guys I got it on with. It was about being honest and authentic. Sure it greatly diminished the numbers of guys I might have gotten it on with. However, we all have to live with rejection -- be it our sexual desires, our looks, our cock size, etc.

Over the years, I learned from my encounters that no two guys are the same. For instance, not all guys think the ultimate is to fuck guy. That is MY thing, not every male who might enjoy m2m sex. Some actually LOVE being fucked. Some of those even if it means they do not have a physical orgasm during the act. (I for the life of me do not understand that part, but then my partner is like that, and he could have ditched me many years ago if he wasn't happy.)

I don't get to do sex now because I have ED. I will play with my guy's ass. I do go down on him, but oral isn't a big thing for him either. I do it to remind him that I want him to be happy even if my cock doesn't work now.

I love his cock, not because I crave cock, but because I love HIM. That being said, if I had been the creator of humans, I would have created a male creature that had beautiful big balls (plenty of testosterone for all those secondary male characteristics I crave), yet have a vagina instead pf a penis. I would not tire of having multiple ways to be inside such a handsome creature. I 've also always wanted to really breed a man -- impossible not only because of the m2m nature, but also because I am infertile. Still in my perfect imaginary world, I would want an all-man partner who I could keep bare-assed and pregnant.

Ok, so I've convinced some that I'm nuts from this info. Still my point is that sexuality is SO varied. Yes you can be emotionally oriented towards other men. You can be physically attracted to their bodies. It isn't a dead given that you will like everything. For some of us, cock just isn't where it is at. Luckily, there are wonderful men who are fine with loving and desiring a man who isn't focused on their cock. Luckily, my partner is that way. I thank my lucky stars that we have been together for over 16 years. I just wish my cock still worked so I could make love to him like I used to.

Bottom men are like angles on earth. If more men were bottoms, there would be no wars, and disagreements would be settled much nicely via making love instead of male on male aggression. No top with any decency would ever hurt a bottom as they are what makes life worth living.
NobodySpecial
 
Posts: 10
+1s received: 12
Joined: 19 August 2018, 01:43
Country: United States (us)

Re: possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Unread postby ddealsea561 » 17 February 2019, 18:14

The first time I sucked a dick and he came in my mouth I knew I would love it forever. Wish I was sucking a dick right now.
ddealsea561
 
Posts: 3
Joined: 17 February 2019, 18:07
Country: United States (us)

Re: Is it possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Unread postby grayarea1899 » 19 February 2019, 09:18

I would bottom a one night stand, but it takes awhile before I give head. I really have to be attracted to the guy to suck him off bare. Funny thing is that I didn’t used to like it. I would suck on my partner to get him hard and slippery but then go straight to anal. It wasn’t until I had a guy dump his load in my mouth that I realized that’s what I wanted. So now I prefer he finishes in my mouth if possible.
grayarea1899
 
Posts: 26
+1s received: 4
Joined: 19 February 2019, 08:59

Re: Is it possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Unread postby Stephen68 » 13 March 2019, 00:16

I'm new here but sucking a dick wasnt a problem for me it was the thought of a guy cumming in my mouth but having now experienced it I love sucking dick to completion
Stephen68
 
Posts: 19
+1s received: 7
Joined: 12 March 2019, 09:02
Country: United Kingdom (gb)

Re: Is it possible to develop a liking for sucking dicks over time ?

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » 15 March 2019, 01:08

Has anyone ever had a dick omakase?
Blow: "Nowadays even Liam can release an album of his screechy vocals and it'll probably go #1..."
Ramzus: I can admit that I'm horny just about 24/7
homomorphism: I used to not think your name was deshay and that Erick was just being racist
Hunter: sometimes I think I was literally born to be a pornstar
User avatar
poolerboy0077
 
Posts: 7268
+1s received: 1429
Joined: 20 December 2012, 21:20
Country: United States (us)


Recently active
Users browsing this forum: BlueBoy19, CommonCrawl [Bot], Mail.ru [Bot], Midlifewotsit and 99 guests