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Just became addicted to being fisted

Unread postby threelyons » 7 August 2018, 00:23

I first experienced being fisted over ten years ago. It happened once and was very brief. I had tried it several time before, but never was able to get the fist all the way in. The first time it happened (ten year ago) felt totally amazing. It was brief and didn't last long as I was very nervous. But the thought and feeling stayed with me for years.

Last month I went online and bought myself a fisting dildo. It took a couple of weeks to get it in, but OMG was it amazing when I finally pushed it in all the way. I had to rest a few days before trying again, but I just gave another shot and, oh boy was it the best feeling ever! I've since done it several times in the past couple of hours and I feel so hooked. ... I just want to do it again and again.

Has anyone else felt this way? Any tips or info I should know as a fisting noob?
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Re: Just became addicted to being fisted

Unread postby toodles » 7 August 2018, 21:44

threelyons wrote:I first experienced being fisted over ten years ago. It happened once and was very brief. I had tried it several time before, but never was able to get the fist all the way in. The first time it happened (ten year ago) felt totally amazing. It was brief and didn't last long as I was very nervous. But the thought and feeling stayed with me for years.

Last month I went online and bought myself a fisting dildo. It took a couple of weeks to get it in, but OMG was it amazing when I finally pushed it in all the way. I had to rest a few days before trying again, but I just gave another shot and, oh boy was it the best feeling ever! I've since done it several times in the past couple of hours and I feel so hooked. ... I just want to do it again and again.

Has anyone else felt this way? Any tips or info I should know as a fisting noob?


hey,

never have been fisted and prob never would due to having 0 interest in it but it is quite dangerous hun I don't want to sound like a moaner but I'd definitely recommend reading up on it before gagging for it

remember as well by using your dildo you are in control of that, if you were to hookup or have a partner do it then they may not be as nice and may cause pain /do something different to what you usually do which could lose the interest in it

another thing would be the amount of people willing to "fist" you. don't think I could personally fist someone but that's just me, mixture of finding it rather unpleasant and also the thought of accidentally hurting someone just by one small move freaks me out. it might just end up a pleasure you do to yourself with toys!

haaaate saying this but it might just be a "stage" you're going through - once you experiment different sexual things with a human you might find new likes to replace fisting. i'd say you should keep an open mind :)
just something to think about x

ps. always be safe plz hun
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Re: Just became addicted to being fisted

Unread postby charlie999 » 12 November 2019, 17:38

Hey,

I can totally understand the addicted feeling! I have been practicing stretching for a while now and have recently been able to take a fist dildo for the first time and though very intese (I knew it would be) it was absolutely amazing, and the feeling is absolutely AMAZING! Quite unlike anything I've felt before.

I have more expierience as a fisting top, I've given someone their first ever fisting expierence and I've fisted 'seasoned pros'. I've learned a few things along the way.

ALWAYS use loads of lube, I'm a fan of J-Lube, its cheap, reliable and its waterbased. It comes in powder so it can be tough getting the consistency you personally want but there are loads of 'recipes' online, I have my own that I personally like. Using A LOT of lube is good because it helps to prevent tearing or micro cuts caused by friction. Also never use desensitizing lube. Pain is your body's way of telling you to slow down or stop!

Generally speaking you can do it as often as you like, but make sure you give sufficiant recovery time between long sessions. For me personally I like a minimum of 3 days of recovery time after a good session. Occassionally I will do it 2 or 3 days in a row, but if I'm doing that I like a longer recovery period at least a week. So I do it maybe 2-3 times per week! But listen to your body, its the best indicator of how often you can do it.

Everything returns to normal pretty quickly, provided you are giving yourself good resting periods between sessions and generally not doing anything to cause damage. Then next time, i just do a couple of minutes of warming up and im good to go.

If you ever expierence bleeding, you should stop and not have any anal action for at least 7-14 days to allow everything to heal. Heavy bleeding needs medical attention.

If you expierence any severe stomach pain even a day after seek urgent medical assistance, It's highly unlikely to happen, but you should always be aware.

Take your time every single time, your mood and state of mind will have a direct effect on your 'size taking' ability and believe me, in the wrong mood, you wont get a fist up there!

Effect on sex (bottoming): You aren't going to feel 'virgin tight' to the top but you wont feel overly loose. As you have probably learned by this point have conscious control of a lot of muscles down there so you are in full control of 'the grip' and tightness. The anal sphincter is a muscle like any other muscle, it can be trained to stretch and return to its 'natural' form quickly. The more you train it properly the more control you will have of it and it will get stronger.

I don't know from your post whether fisting is something you are looking to do with other people, but if you are the best advice I can give you is:-

1. Seek a top who is expierienced with newbies. Make sure you build a rapport with the top before getting down to action. it's one thing to have a fist in you that you are on complete control of, its quite another for that fist to be connected to another person who is in control of it.

2. The feeling will be more intense the first time than doing it alone. The first time it happens your brain trips a switch and sends you on a rollercoaster ride with wave after wave of pure pleasure non-stop

3. Always establish safe words and safe gestures with the top. You need to be in complete control when being fisted by someone else. I've seen many bottoms become so into it that they can struggle to verbally communicate, so its important to have non-verbal signals to stop just incase

But all in all, I would say if you enjoy it, then do it! you aren't hurting anyone, or yourself!
From what I've seen as a top it only gets better, Ive seen a guy orgasm 8 times in 2 minutes and I want a piece of that :lol:

Enjoy Man!
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Re: Just became addicted to being fisted

Unread postby Fistingbboy » 17 October 2020, 04:02

Enjoy fisting is great
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Re: Just became addicted to being fisted

Unread postby randy1234 » 18 October 2020, 04:14

I'm sorry but fisting can be very dangerous. People have wound up having colostomies because of fisting. I don't even consider that a form of sex. It probably falls into the raunch and kink category. Also if you do that too much it could damage the muscles and you could lose control of your bowels. Personally I don't know what people get out of that. Years ago I witnessed a guy do that to another guy when I was involved in a threesome. Right then and there I decided that these were not my kind of people. Please be careful because that part of the body wasn't made for things like that.
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Re: Just became addicted to being fisted

Unread postby Cowie1 » Yesterday, 12:43

I love fisting and being fisted, it took a whilke before i could get a whole fist inside me but now i can it feels brilliant
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Re: Just became addicted to being fisted

Unread postby Eryx » Yesterday, 17:52

I'm not into fisting at all, hut I have to say charlie's comment was excellent. Informative and helpful.
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Re: Just became addicted to being fisted

Unread postby poolerboy0077 » Today, 01:18

Enjoy never getting satisfaction from a penis in your bum.
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Re: Just became addicted to being fisted

Unread postby Derek » Today, 01:58

Pooler inadvertently admitting his dick is smaller than the average fist.
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